How do i convince my parents to let me stay the night at my boyfriend's house?
Your 18. You should be able to stay at your boyfriends over night or for a whole weekend in my opinon... Honestly talk to your mom and tell her your growing up and your almost an adult so you should be able to have more freedom. the more she holds you back from what you wanna do the further youll push her away when your on your own. Just let her know your responsible but you feel like your being treated like a 13 year old. Being a concerned mother is unavoidable but you can help lighten her up by talking to her. If shes worried about sex then shes just dillusional if she thinks shes preventing it by treating you like a child
How do I convince my parents to let my boyfriend spend the night?
Other than all the obvious things the others have said, there’s a little simple psychology to this.‘Get them to’ by… ‘not’ getting them to.Don’t ask. DON’T ask.SHOW them what a good guy he is. (‘He’d better be, or else he’s not dating my daughter’. - This is what your dad is likely thinking - I would know, I assume the role of both parents in my house as I’m remarried and my husband doesn’t technically get a say in who she brings home!)Don’t let him bribe your parents. No to presents, no to flowers, no to working for your parents, no to ANY of that. It’s Mr and Mrs (surname) until invited otherwise. (This may be forever!)BOTH OF YOU demonstrate you can follow even the simplest of rules; if you’re going out, be back before curfew (it’s a tedious pain in the ass, but your parents will appreciate that you’re being grown up and respecting their wishes, and they’ll respect that he is looking after their little lady. I know this from both sides of the coin.)If he has trust enough to borrow something from your parents and needs to give it back in say, a week (e.g. my stepfather loaned my ex money, the chainsaw for a job), have him give it back two days earlier, unbroken and with interest offered if cash. That shows he’s ready to be an adult, and can be careful with things.If you’re in your house together, don’t spend all your time kissing and canoodling. Do housey things. Make dinner together, as a couple, wash up together, as a couple, show your parents how much you can collaborate. This shows your parents this isn’t just about sex for either of you but that you’re really a team and you work together well in a home, because relationships aren’t just about sex. In fact, most relationships’ sex tends to really slow down after the first year, married or not!If you’re too young to be doing anything other than kissing and holding hands, but you really want to be together, stick to the homework and the team work, and show your parents how well you gel until the time is right. If you’re meant to be together, and he’s right for you, he’ll wait, and your parents will warm to him.Parents know best hon. Mine did no matter how much I don’t like to admit it.I left home to be with mine, even though my home was abusive. I left home to be with the man I loved, my mother said he was no good for me, and we ended up homeless, pregnant and poor. Mother was right and I should have listened.Best x
How do you convince your parents to let you go out and spend more time with your friends instead of making you stay at home all the time?
My situation was just like yours in the past. Now I'm able to spend about once to thrice a week, going out with my friends (I know it's not a lot but it's enough for me since I am working now and because I usually spend a lot if I'm with my friends).What I did to convince I parents is by "starting small". Start by telling your parents you will only be gone for 2-3 hours (to grab a bite?) and tell them who you are going with and give them a time of when you will be back. Now make sure to check the time and be absolutely back by that timing or before it. If your parents are working or out at the moment, call from your house to let them know you are home and that you have kept your promise. Now do this for no more than twice a week and make sure the interval in between is more than 2 days.It also helps if your parents know your friends. Invite your friends over, if your parents allow (if they don't, give them the excuse saying that "hey you do not want me to go out so can I just invite my friends over? I promise we won't thrash the house!" or something along this line), and introduce them to your parents. Or show them a photo and talk about the moments you had together. Bring up your friend(s)'s name(s) frequently during your talk to show that you spend a lot of time with him/her(them) and also to let your parents know more about the type of person you are going out with can be trusted.After doing this "starting small" business for a few times, daringly increase the time you spend with your friends and be sure to tell your parents the 4 'W's: Who, What, Where, When.WHO: Who are you going out with [your friend(s)'s name(s)]WHAT: What you are doing ( e.g. we are going to catch the movie "movie name")WHERE: Where you will beWHEN: What time to what time will you be with your friends, and when will you reach back home.Do this before they even have a chance to ask!! Then hear them out after (their permission or such).When you are out and you will be late reaching back home at the given time:CALL or MESSAGE your parents to let them know and APOLOGISE to them and tell them the REASON(S) why you are late.That's about what I did :)Good Luck!!!
How can I convince my parents to let me stay a night at MT BFS?
So, your parents are OK with your boyfriend spending the night at your place, but not OK with you spending the night there?I can see if parents objected to “no sex before marriage”, but obviously, that is not the case here. Is there something about your boyfriend or the people he lives with that your parents are concerned about?At 19, you are an adult and, if you find your parents’ rules to be not to your liking, perhaps you could move out on your own, or move in with your boyfriend.
How to convince my parents to let me stay the night at a guy friends house?
I am wanting to stay the night at one of my close guy friends house this Saturday with another guy friend of ours. We will be being perfectly innocent, none of us have romantic interests in the others and we are just friends. We will be doing the same things we would be doing if it was a girls sleepover and the same stuff we would be doing during the day, watching movies, playing video games and generally pissing around etc. However, naturally my parents are not likely to let me go. I've stayed the night at guys houses before when I was the only girl, although they did take some convincing each time, and nothing has happened. I've been friends with these guys for a while and they would never try anything (though even if they did, which they wouldn't, I could probably take them on anyway) and I cannot stress enough that it will be exactly the same as if they were girls. Naturally my parents will presume that in staying the night with 2 guys, it will be dodgy. How can I convince them otherwise and get them to understand that it is just a sleepover and gender has no effect? I'm a 16 year old girl, they are both the same age.
How can I convince my parents to let my boyfriend stay the night?
Ok so I've seen a lot of questions on here regarding this subject, but my situations a little bit different...i'm not 12 wanting my 18 year old boyfriend to stay over at my house...lol. I'm eighteen years old and my boyfriend is also eighteen. We both have graduated high school, and we have been together for 9 months. We both still live with our parents. His parents really aren't too strict, and they have no problem with me staying with him or him staying with me. My parents on the other hand...well, I'm not too sure how they feel about it, but my parents are a lot more strict than his are. When he comes over, he usually stays pretty late. It's almost like he might as well just stay the night anyway. And we usually end up hanging out in my room which is in the basement and my parents don't come down there to supervise or anything. Half the time, my parents end up going to bed and don't even know what time he ends up leaving. So if he stayed the night, there would really be no difference, except for that we would be sleeping and that he would be leaving in the morning. The concern that we would be doing something sexual if he stayed the night wouldn't even be valid because we already do all that stuff when he's over here, and my parents have no idea. I mentioned the idea of me going to his house a few months back before I graduated, and my mom said there would be no way that they would let me. However, things are a lot different now. He comes over here all the time and my parents don't make him leave by a certain time like they used to. So I'm not sure if their opinion would be the same. I know that I'm eighteen, and legally I can make these decisions for myself, but my parents pay for a lot of my stuff still and provide a lot for me, so I have to respect their wishes at least somewhat. I have lied to them before and ended up staying the night with him at one of his friend's houses, but I don't like doing that. I would rather just be honest and not have to sneak around. Any idea of how I can convince them to let me?
How to convince my mom to let my boyfriend stay the night?
I really want my boyfriend to spend the night over my house and so does he. We are in a serious relationship and it's not like we would do anything...we would just sleep in the same bed, basically like any other regular sleepover when people have their friends over..except hes my bf so all wed do is cuddle or whatever and fall asleep. I've already asked my mom if he could, she said, "No, not until your 18." Then i of couse asked why and all and she said, "because/i said so, not until your 18." Then i even said even if he slept on the couch bed which is next to her room and i sleep upstairs in my room? still the same answers basically...anyways i really love my bf and i want to spend a night with him. It would be very nice...even if it has to be seperate rooms i guess until im 18 then he can come to my room and stay. Well any advice to how i should convince my mom to let him spend the night??? THANKS in advance!!!
How can I convince my mom to have a sleepover on a school night?
You could ask your mom politely: "Mom, can i have a sleep over here?" if she says no you could try this: "Mom, i know that you dont probably accept having a sleep over on a school day can i have it on friday insead, i know that it is a school day but we are going to have no school tomarrow cause it is a saturday." or if you want it on a like wensday, you could say we will go to bed early and we wont stay up very late but we are going to study together and after we study we will do something that is not as noisey but we promise to do everything that you tell us. if it doesnt work use the one on friday. :) really hop i am helping.
Im 18 and my mom won't let me spend the night at my Boyfriends house?
so im 18 in 4 months i will be 19 years old and me and my boyfriend have been dating since i was about 15. He recently moved a bit far and the only way i would be able to get a ride back and forth from his dad is if i spend the night, and i really want to. My mom has made it very clear that she does not like him, because we use to argue alot over little things but we have both matured and the last argument we had was over in 5 minutes, but of course she only sees the bad things. Im afraid to death to ask her if i can go because she is very old fashioned and she thinks its not right. He would come over here but we cant even go in my room WITH the door open and there is just a bad unconfortable tension in the room. So how do i tell her that i want to spend the night with him for the weekend, she always makes me feel like im a slut or a bad person when i even mention anything like this. should i just go even if she says no? i dont want to hurt he feelings.
How do I convince my parents to let me have my room back from my grandma?
I’m sorry you’re in this situation. I was in a similar situation growing up. My great-grandmother came to live with us off and on. She was a very mean person and she didn’t care too much for children by the time she moved in with us. There was always drama because her kids and even some of her grand kids were always wanting something from her. She had an incontinence problem and refused to wear diapers or underwear at all. This led to so many gross encounters. And my mother, who had insisted that her grandmother come live with us, didn’t like to clean up the messes my great-grandmother would make.While I was (luckily) able to keep my own room, she was terribly rude to me all the time. She requested way too much of me, and really cramped my style in terms of being able to play with my pets (whom she abused), play with my toys (which she complained about), and my sense of worth (as she often called me a variety of names like ‘bitch’). She would also constantly go through my trash even though I was 8 and accuse me of having my period and ask me how my time of the month was. I didn’t have one. She was actually quite creepy. `You should have an honest talk with your parents and let them know that at your age privacy is important. There’s no reason that a decent living/sleeping area can’t be set up in the living or guest room for your grandmother. In fact, a brand new bed would likely be much better for her joints and comfort.Good luck!