My younger sister is prettier than I am?
I'm 18. My younger sister Kylie is 14, and she's MUCH prettier than I am. I used to be really pretty; people told me this all the time. Then once I hit around 12 or 13, it just went downhill. I gained about 15 pounds that I have never lost, and have zits and am kind of short. People still tell me I'm pretty, and I do kind of have a cute face, but it's different with my sister. She is 14 and absolutely GORGEOUS. Long blonde hair, blue eyes, great body. She has always been so pretty and seems to be getting better and better. She knows she's prettier than I am too. I tell her this all the time and she says, "aww, Taylor you're kinda cute too!" People (especially family, but strangers too) tell her how stunning she is all the time, how they can't wait to see how much prettier she'll get over time, how she can't take a bad picture. They tell all of that to ME too ABOUT her... While I truly am happy for her, it really crushes me at the same time. I'm the older sister; I'm SUPPOSED to be prettier! I try to work out and stay in shape and wear cute clothes and do my make-up and hair, but she ALWAYS looks better. I also try to make up for it by having a good personality, which I kind of do, not trying to brag! But that still doesn't make me feel any better. It doesn't help that she makes fun of me. She'll laugh at pictures of me, or say, "well at least you have a good personality" or, "why don't you try to lose weight?" (She doesn't know how hard it is!) I know she is being mean-spirited and that beauty is only skin-deep, but because I'm so insecure it really hurts my feelings. I don't want to be jealous, but I am. SO much. Can anyone help me snap out of this? It's starting to take over my life :(
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Everyone thinks my sister is prettier than me? How to deal with it?
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Everyone says my sister is prettier..?
I've always been jealous of my sister, she is 22 and I'm 15, people say we look alike all the time though but 2 months ago I overheard my grandmother saying my sister is prettier then today I was "sleeping" on the sofa and my mom told my sister that she is prettier than me, they didn't say it in the same room as me but I heard her say it. It's makes me feel like **** because I've always thought she was prettier and it's even more horrible that my MOM AND GRANDMA said she was more pretty :/ Her eyes are like a very bright green and my eyes are just ugly. :(
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How to deal with being compared to the "prettiest" sister?
I have three older sisters and one younger brother. The oldest is 37, second oldest is 30, third oldest is 27, and I’m 22. For so long, people have always compared us by looks. I think we’re all good-looking and attractive, pretty fit, we take care of ourselves but I’m not really the “high maintenance” type but my sisters kind of are. Anyways, I hear people constantly talking about our looks comparing who is prettier and who’s least prettiest and it hurts my feelings. Especially old family friends and customers from my family business that ask “Where’s your sister? The pretty one?” or “Where’s your sister the, the prettiest one?” constantly (They’re talking about the 37 year old) It hurts my feelings to know that they’d say that to my face, not only is that an insult to me but my sisters as well. My sisters get told they’re pretty a lot but my oldest sister is always called “the prettiest”. It’s usually by the older people that are foreign (Asians, Europeans, and Africans) I’d post pics of us but then it’d seem more shallow and it’s without their permission which is probably bad. She is standard pretty with a more narrow nose and slimmer face and bigger eyes, I hear from a lot of guys she is pretty but has a mean personality with a “better than you” attitude. But she gets better treatment with crazy stalkers and guys wanting to marry her. I know she’s prettier than me but I hate when customers/old family friends are rude and say it out loud. How do you deal with that?
Is my sister prettier than me?
I always have to deal with hearing how pretty she is. Am I even close to my older sister? Her https://fbcdn-photos-g-a.akamaihd.net/hphotos-ak-xpa1/t1.0-0/15385_758285604210446_5115849175895209830_n.jpg Me https://fbcdn-photos-a-a.akamaihd.net/hphotos-ak-frc3/t1.0-0/1231280_10201694529102382_846637526_n.jpg
My sister is prettier than me and it's killing my self-esteem. What should I do?
I should go ahead and say my sister is also prettier than me. And it used to give me a bitter taste in my mouth.I am the youngest one in my family, and as siblings, we look after each other. Well, normally the elder ones were in charge and had the responsibility to protect and provide the younger.So since I was a child, I was bitchy and demanding and I wanted things to go my way, including people’s affection.Everything went well my way for first couple years of my life, until I came to an age to realize who is the prettiest of all. I still tried to fool myself that I was still the best, and the most beautiful, and that’s why I am my mom’s favorite child. But that trick did not work so well with outsiders.My sister is astonishingly beautiful and everyone liked her. All the boys in schools and college. She had many male friends came to the house and hung out. Some of them were handsome too. And all of their attention went to my sister.I didn’t take that so well.I was jealous with her look. I tried to get people’s attention. I hoped my sister’s male friends liked me more than her. When they were trying to talk to my sister, I jumped into the conversation and started talking, trying to make them like me.I pretended that I didn’t care about her followers. I also acted mean to my sister. I hated the fact that I had no follower while she had a bunch of them. I hated the fact that she didn’t need to try so hard but people still liked her. I hated that she was a ball of joy, while I was grumpy the whole time.I wish I could tell you somehow I figured it out and I started to treat her well, but in fact I didn’t. Not until I grew up and I managed to nurture myself and my self-esteem.My sister is still breathtakingly beautiful, but she didn’t have a good marriage. She divorced and is a single mom while I am living happily with my husband. I feel sad for her.You see, if you love yourself enough, you will not need to worry about people’s affection. And you will not even care about the look. It is not about how pretty you are, but it is about how happy you are.Enjoy your time with your sister, feel happy for her pretty look while you still can. And DO NOT think about yourself as the uglier, which reduces your self-esteem as you are doing right now. Focus on what you have, build your confidence and knowledge.You are loved. You are pretty. And you know it.It starts with you.