I'm jealous of my best friend's romantic relationship?
My friend and I are so close; we've been friends for 3 years. Recently, she's been talking to pretty much the guy of my dreams, and I can't help but be jealous. She tells me everything because we're best friends, and I promise to keep what she tells me a secret. Everyday, I ACT like I'm excited to hear the juicy details of their relationship, and she just spills all the 'goods'. I know, probably not the best thing to do since I'm so jealous right now. Today, I've learned that they are going steady and that just made my heart sink and I felt like my stomach was boiling from the anger, but I put on a smile and congratulated her anyways. I told her that I wasn't jealous (bad idea?), but I looked up how to not envy people so much, and one of the steps said to not bottle everything up. I can't just straight up say, "Hey, I've been lying about not being jealous the whole time. Every time I asked about your relationship, and the answer was positive, I wanted to curl up and cry, so break the deal with him." That's what I FEEL like saying, but I want her to be happy, that's why I pretend. Best friends do that, right? I feel like if I told her I was jealous deep down inside, it would make it awkward and uncomfortable between us and I couldn't do the usual, "What did you and (his name) talk about last night? Lovey-dovey stuff, hm?" *insert fake but convincing smile*, like always. I always think, 'God, I'm so much better than her,' or 'I know he would like me better'. Which is just horrible. That's my friend, she's like my sister, I don't know why I would think such things. Why do I have terrible jealousy problems? I feel so terrible, I really don't know what to do, I just want to cry. Sorry for being so depressing, but please, help?
My best guy friend that I've rejected romantically has stop answering my calls & doesn't seem to want to hang out anymore. Did I push him away?
I’ll give you two possible scenarios. You can decide which one applies to your situation.Scenario #1 - This “friend” was always attracted to you and has been slowly trying to warm you up to eventually get you to have sex/be romantic. At first, he flattered you, listened to you while you poured your heart out, and was generally there for you. And then when he felt that he’d put in enough time, he made his move. You said no, so he cut his losses and moved on.Scenario #2 - He’s been a friend for many years. Maybe you initiated the friendship. As the years went by, you became closer and closer and he said, probably awkwardly, “have you ever thought about us maybe being more than friends?” You said no.Unfortunately, scenario one is very, very common. Scenario two? Not so much. A lot of sleazy guys play this game because they know it works. Pretend they’re a nice guy, that they’re sensitive, care about your feelings, and the women will be so flattered by this that they’ll be putty in their hands. Sadly, with these kinds of guys, they will stick around just long enough to get what they want and then move on to the next one.Scenario #2 is far more rare. It’s the sort of thing we see in movies, and what many hope they’re getting when in reality, they’re falling victim to the douchebag from scenario #1.So I’d like to say that maybe your best guy friend is a sweet guy who was embarrassed because he finally worked up the courage to ask you to be more than friends, only to be denied. And now he’s too embarrassed to face you. But the fact is, if this guy was really your friend, he’d be taking your calls in a heartbeat because whether you’re friends, or more than friends, maintaining the connection with you is the most important thing.I’m sorry to say that if he’s not answering your calls, the odds are pretty high that he was just trying to play you and you were too smart for his game. So he’s moving on to the next one. But good job to you for staying true to yourself.
How to forget your ex girlfriend?
i went out with a girl for about 4 years and i loved her so much, and we broke up because of the mistake that i made. now i have a girl for about 2 years but still i can;t forget my ex. i still miss her, dream about her. but i luv my present girlfriend, but i can forget my ex. i still keep in touch with my ex through e-mail. must i stop keeping in touch with her? i still wanna be friends with my ex. oh.. i am confused
Ladies help me! Romantic Marriage Proposal Ideas?
Two of my best friends got engaged this past August and it was really adorable - they live on the shore of Lake Erie, and there's a path that goes along the water's edge near their houses. They went for a walk on the shore and he sat her down on a bench and asked her to marry him. It was the sweetest thing I've ever heard, especially because they met there. So maybe that's something to consider - where/how did you meet? Can that be incorperated romantically? Timing considerations are neat, too; another couple I know of got engaged while out viewing Christmas light displays. Maybe something to do with the holidays? I think the most romantic thing you can do, though, is to say what you think, and to mean what you say. I don't think you'll forget the event, no matter where or when it happens.
My girlfriend doesn't like me anymore..what do I do?
Ok man to man here. The number one rule in dating is that you NEVER invest in something that is not there. If you like her and she doesn't like you then that is a good example. As far as your schooling, that should be your number one goal, but you also have to take time away from the "work" world and live life. At this age you really need to look into serious relationships. When I got my B.S. in Mechanical engineering It was very hard for me to go through college and have a girl friend; however i found the right girl who is soon to be my wife. Sorry for the side track. Follow these steps and hopefully it can help you with your question. 1.)Study your relationship- often because of looks or lust we find ourselves in the "puppy" love stage. This my friend is NOT true love. Make sure that you really like this person and if you guys were meant to be together for the rest of your lives and you are happy with that fact then go one with it. If not move on. 2.) Talk to your girlfriend. Make sure that she is in this for the right and same reasons. The biggest problems with males is that we are very selfish. We care about our feelings more than our partners. Your not the only one trust me. Females need to feel important. That is the true key to their heart. 3.)Establish a "relationship" honey do list. Engage in activities that she likes, while also including her in things that you like. 4.) If you are a christian simply just pray Good luck with your relationship. Keep in mind that every relationship has its ups and downs.
A hopeless romantic guy?!?
I'll be truthful, i'm a hopeless romantic. I'm 6"1 so i'm pretty tall and i look like i can crush you in 5 seconds. People think of me as this big asian dude we can depend on for protection xD but really, i'm a hopeless romantic! >< i wanna big wedding, i wanna propose to my future wife in the most romantic way possible, i wanna take her to special places on every single date, etc. that's the kind of guy i am! i think of mushy poems and all this other crap too xD when i told my friend he laughed and told like A LOT of people. they like dissed me and called me a pussy and everything. i don't really care but, does it make me any less of a man if i'm sensitive and a hopeless romantic? do girls like such guys?
Is it inappropriate to be friends with your boss?
so i have an amazing boss. she's super supportive and wants to know what's going on in my life and such. but how close should i allow myself to get? is it okay to be friends or is that just a no go? thanks