How do I tell my friend to stop hitting me?
Is she literally hitting you? If so, that girl is not your friend. Real friends do not hit each other. Instead of viewing the girl as a friend, please view the situation as one in which you are being abused. Why? Because, in fact, you are being abused.(*THIS IS IMPORTANT* If you are not asserting yourself and setting boundaries with abusers such as that girl, you may be prone to receiving abuse from other people in relationships.)If I were in your shoes, I would tell the girl to stop hitting me, and would assert that such behavior will be reported to the principal, orchestra teacher (or whoever the authority figure is) for due punishment. This is something I also would recommend you do, too.Another thing I would do is assess whether there are other relationships in which I am hurt either emotionally and physically. Then, I would proceed to end them. Life is too short to be spent in toxic relationships.If you are confused about the identification of toxic relationships, this may help: 8 Signs of a Toxic FriendshipAnd, if you are curious as to what to do with toxic friendships, I would recommend straight up ending them. If you want to end any relationships, there are multiple ways you could go about doing that. Hopefully you manage to find a way which works the best for you. For me, I generally just straight up tell [insert toxic person here] that I am not hanging out with them anymore. This approach may work for you, it may not. There are other approaches out there which may suit you and your personality style better.On that note, good luck!
How to get friend to stop hitting me?
Tell her ``Stop it`! `` or you know what tell her off and hit her back is your option and stay away form her...she is abusive...tell her she needs to stop your you will call the cops on her for abuse! Tell your teachers that she beats you up all the time and its really abusive.... I would have your parents talk to hers if you must, but you need to tell her and if she doesn`t tell her your friendship is over...hitting on the head is dangerous as she could injure your brain or a vessel!
How do I get my friend to stop punching me?
Get a new friend.Is this a serious question? Because I feel like the answer to this should involve a bridge and some billy goats.
My friend keeps hitting me?
My friend keeps hitting me it’s gotten really bad I’ve had black eyes a broken nose and really badly swollen face I don’t know what to do they say there sorry but then it happens again I’m fed up with making excuses for my face
My friend keeps hitting me!?
sometimes people have this inner conflict. they really want friends but they don't know how to act and they are really nervous inside. this causes them to lash out to make them feel strong and they hit you. the bruises and pain is all unintentional, for sure. please don't give up on her. there is someone who is really hurting inside and really needs you. one way you can get her to stop is to guilt her into it. when she hits you, look super-serious, and look as if you are about to cry and say "please stop, it's hurting me" and show her your bruises. if she still doesn't stop, give her the silent treatment and pretend she doesn't exist. another solution is to bear with the pain and just pretend like she isn't hitting you. give her no reaction to the hitting. most people hit because they like the reaction. don't give her one, she'll be embarrassed, and stop. hope i helped
How can I stop my mom from hitting me?
I want to tell you to tell someone. A friend. Someone at your school. You don’t want your mom to go to jail, but why not? She shouldn’t be free to hurt you or anyone else. It’s her choices that will put her there.Love of family is a funny construct. I don’t love my mother, but society and programming make me think I do. Why should I? She abused me in many, many ways for 30+ years. And would continue to if I hadn’t cut ties. The scars she left will never heal fully.My mother never loved me. She saw me as a means to an end and a scapegoat for everything that went wrong in her life. I think she resents me because I didn’t work in the way she wanted to keep my dad in the house to support her. (I have a great relationship with my dad in spite of my mother’s attempts to destroy it. )You need to get out of there. Please. Get help for yourself.*This was my original beginning, but I wanted to put what I wrote at the end up above. I leave it here because why not.I can only speak for my own experience.I think I was around 16 or 17.I passively defended myself.My mother abused me physically and mentally for many years. She took joy in it.She also knew martial arts. I did too, but she had been training for a lot longer.We were about the same height.She grabbed me and I reacted breaking her grasp and stepping back into a ready-to-fight stance.She froze and my step-father made some comment.I turned and walked to my room. Closed and barricaded the door.That ended the physical violence.The mental violence lasted until I cut off ties.Here’s the thing though. If you do plan to do this you have to be ready for a couple things.Do NOT back down. You don’t want your mom to go to jail, but are you ready to physically defend yourself? Mentally prepare yourself for that. Plan how you are going to incapacitate her efficiently.Be prepared for police intervention. My mom used to threaten to call the police on me a lot. I remember a couple talking-tos I got, and the deaf ears of the police. Followed by more abuse.Where can you go? You are underage and if she goes to jail, who will you live with? I say this not to frighten you but to make sure you have a plan. I had a friend who I could crash with no matter the reason. The parent’s were fine with that, and I am trying to create the same safe space for my kids friends.Be ready for the other forms of abuse. She may not hit you, but she probably will (and probably is already) abuse you in other ways.
Was I wrong for punching my friend in the face for grabbing my child’s arm and yelling at them?
You Unnecessarily used violence to solve and issue - wrongYou did it in front of your child & you are is major role model - wrongYou severed a relationship with a friend in an instant. I wouldn’t want to be your friend, I wouldn’t want to be attacked if I made a mistake or foolishly overstepped my boundaries. - WrongA simple strong word and a new establishment of boundaries in your friendship would of been the most sensible and effective thing to do.You protected you child, which is good, he depends on your protection more than anybody. However now he may not understand how to protect himself in non-dangerous situations. A girl/boy pulls his hair playfully at school and begins teasing him (probably because he/she likes him, kids do that) he may be confused on how to tackle this situation, “daddy punched his friend because I was uncomfortable with him making me feel bad, that made the nasty man stop, that’s one way to tackle this problem” .I would talk to your child about the whole situation. Tell him what you did is wrong and violence is really wrong. But also make sure he knows that you are there to protect him, no matter what.You just acted rashly man, I understand the instinct to protect your child, and the raging anger that this friend would of caused you to feel. I’ve felt it before, it really does overpower rationality, you just need to have more control over your actions in future. Learn from this sad situation, you made a mistake, mistakes are the best lessons, you will be a better farther because of this.I made a similar mistake a few years ago, it was in some ways worse than this. I will regret it to my dying day… that being said, it taught me a lot about myself and I am a much better person now.
How do I stop hitting my head all the time accidentally?
FriendPsychologically you are not there where physically you are.This is the root of your problem.All of us during many events of our day to day routinary,are in this state of our being/presence.As gap between two is small and soon it is abolished by your consciousness and both physically and psychologically(in context to outgoing attention),you come at one place.When your psychological being (attention) is too far and totally absorbed/identified by some issue/thought/event etc.your physical being moves on it's own momentum having zero orientation of time and space,which example of extreme absent mindedness(as against mindfulness where your psychological being is 100% present where your physical being is there.For physical being,it is always 100%)results into accident.What is accident ?It is intersecting two lines.Your physical momentum line meets with line of thing to which your head hits. Solution lies in body awareness.Practice to keep your outgoing attention at your physical body(if you like at given area like near umbilicus or at head)both randomly as and when you remember to do so as well as in scheduled manner.To begin with,you will notice that you do not remember to do thisOnce you practice you will cometo know few similar accidental things like hitting head.Body awareness will make you enable to get rid of this problem.Do not do anything on accident side.Thanks.Q guru
How do I get guys to stop hitting on me at work? I've cussed them out, flipped them off, told their friends I want to punch them in the face, ignored them, and even went to a supervisor.
Fortunately, I haven’t had that experience at work, but the handling of it is reasonably straightforward. If someone (really, anyone, regardless of their or your gender) is making you feel uncomfortable at work, particularly by way of hitting on you or otherwise making unwanted sexual or romantic advances, there’s just one path to take.Before I get started on the path, however, I have to say one thing. Document. Document. Document. Make sure to document every instance of this, whether via email or something else. Email to yourself is a good way of doing it because then you can forward the emails, with the timestamps, to your manager or HR.First, advise them (one time) that they are making you uncomfortable and you want them to stop. You can skip this step if it’s flagrant or you're not comfortable confronting the offender. Once you have done that, if they continue, go to your manager and advise them of the situation and that you feel that this is creating a “hostile work environment” for you. Use those words. Make sure to document when you had that meeting. If you don’t feel comfortable discussing it with your manager, talk to HR. Use the same phrase with them. The use of that phrase sets in action a course of events which *WILL* provoke a response from the company.Now, with this being said, understand that if you are a contractor or a temporary worker, it is entirely possible that you will lose your job there as a result. If you’re a full-time employee, however, they technically cannot fire you for doing this, *UNLESS* you have a habit of making unfounded claims. This is where documentation is critical. You want to ensure that you can document exactly what was said, by whom, in front of whom, and when so that you can take that information to HR when it comes up.I hope this helps and that you can solve this issue. My only other advice is to be prepared to find another job elsewhere since, although the company cannot legally take your report out on you, some members of your team may decide to do just that.