What could I do to avoid my parents to separate?
(Reading this as "What can I do to stop my parents from separating?")Nothing.You cannot do anything to MAKE your parents separate, and you cannot do anything to STOP your parents from separating.Your parents have a life that includes you, but is not built upon you. You are a part of their life, but there is much more to their life that does not involve you. If they are considering separating, things have gone wrong in the parts of their lives that make up the relationship between them. There is nothing you can do to fix that relationship, and nothing you have done has hurt that relationship. It is between the two of them, and between them alone. What you need to do is focus on keeping yourself healthy and strong to get through whatever comes next.If your parents do separate. you must remember that it was their choice, and nothing that you did. It may be the best choice they could have made, to keep all of you happy and healthy and safe. Try to maintain a good relationship with both of them, if you can. There may be a lot of changes that will happen, but you can get through those one day at a time. If the changes lead to further questions, you can always come here and ask. Also, you may meet other people who are going through the same things, or have been through, them, and they may be a source of support as well.
How do I get separated from my parents legally?
I don't understand. Disown them? Blank them out of your birth certificate? You want more than moving out and living elsewhere, providing no forwarding address and keeping your phone secret?The most pragmatic way to break the paper trail is to change your last name. Legally. Takes a form and a bit of money. New driver license, passport... Add that to a physical move very far away... close all accounts and open new ones under your new name in new institutions in your new city/state/country... and you have gone "off the grid". Or provide information on some famous criminal to the FBI, and have them enroll you in Witness Protection. Hope the criminal doesn't have access to facial recognition software on the cloud hooked up to Internet of Things, in a few short years. hmm... dangerous. Change your last name instead and move.
How do I get over the fear of my parents dying?
Thanks for the A2A!I can totally relate to this as I've spent a lot of time crying over this as a kid - it used to freak me out to think I'll be all alone in this world one day as I don't have siblings.Like most of the answers have already mentioned, there is nothing much that we can do about it other than accepting the fact. Remember that you are not alone, we all will lose our parents some day. I've seen my parents losing theirs - it hurts a lot but they did cope up with the loss. One has to move on in life, there are other responsibilities to be fulfilled as there are others dependent on your existence. Here are some things you can do when your mind is flooded with such thoughts:Value their presence at the moment. Avoid thinking of the future, nobody has seen it. Give them lots of love today so that you have no regrets tomorrow. Listen to what they have to say, give them a hug!Try meditation or reading some of the ancient scriptures - most of the religions talk about detachment. It is definitely easier to preach than to practice but reading such things brings (temporary) solace to mind. Take care of their health - see to it that they are leading a healthy lifestyle. Help them in getting rid of bad habits, if they have any. That way, you'll get to keep them with you a little longer.Resolve conflicts with them as soon as possible. There will be differences of opinion but wasting time sulking over them or not resolving them due to ego-related issues is foolishness. Our time is limited, you don't want to waste it by indulging in meaningless activities. Remember that wonderful vacation you had with them or the perfect birthday party they threw on your first birthday and try to recreate the magic now so that you can hang on to these lovely memories later on.As a child, remain empathetic towards the changes going on in your parents’ lives as they age. As hard as it is for us to face the realities of aging, it’s a process our parents are living with every day.Life events such as illness, death of friends and loved ones can take a heavy toll on a person’s well-being. Make sure they’re feeling okay.Be positive and strong - they taught you that, don't let it go down the drain!" Goodbyes make you think. They make you realize what you've had, what you lost and what you took for granted. So appreciate what you have before it becomes what you had. "
How can I get totally separated from my parents legally in India such that they would have no right on me anymore in any terms?
Parents do not have any right over any of their children, once they turn 18. After attaining majority, a person is not legally liable to their parents. Of course, parents can inherit property of that person after demise of that person, if the parents are still alive. But that can also be limited by writing a will.So technically and legally, there is no legal claim of parents over their children after the children attain majority.
Can I legally get rid of parental status or my parents?
If your mother had thought, shall I get rid if this burden, while carrying you? All the nights she must have out you on her lap and kept awake, while you had fever? When she ran to give your lunch box and homework? Fought with other moms to defend you? Agreed you may be hurt by some instances. Parents do hurt and make mistakes. But When you want their burden lifted, be sure to think, IF ONLY SHE HAD THE SAME THOUGHT, you wouldn't be alive to ask this question. She is above GOD, her decision alone brings you here. I didn't mean to hurt you. I am a mom and daughter. I have horrible fights with both. They are addicted to me, and find me very difficult at times. But getting rid --- Noway.