How to get rid of a toxic friend?
Just stop being with her. If she drops by, just tell her that you don't feel like hanging out and would she mind going home? If she calls, tell her that you don't feel like talking right now. If she approaches you at school, don't ignore her, but make sure that you find other people to hang with. Keep answers to her questions brief, but not rude. Prepare to eventually have to answer the biggie: Why are you being this way to me? Either you can be honest and gentle or you can be rude. You choose. Remember that you could be honest, gentle, and help her make changes that would enrich her own life. While you may consider her to be toxic, she may have some good traits that you really do appreciate and I personally don't see any reason to completely dump a friend. Do you really know someone who has too many friends? And this isn't going to be a fast procedure, either. The least painful way is to bring a third friend into the mix and gradually extricate yourself from the trio as a regular by making plans for the three of you and then backing out at the last minute until the old friend is comfortable with the third one on a regular basis.
How to get rid of toxic friend?
Well this situation sounds so familiar i was in a situation like this with a girl that i grew up with also and considered my best friend. We met in the 4th grade and from then on we were inseperable as we started to get older we began to want and do different things basically i came into my own and learned to be a leader not a follower, and that i think is what she didn't like as long as i was easy to manipulate she was cool. So when we started having kids and things and i got married she still wanted to try to get me to do things that i had out grown and would get mad if i wouldn't do them and i would let her know off top i am a grown a** woman with a family and i am not about to mess that up for anybody. She would smuggly comment well i was here first and i will be here when he is gone. So it came down to the day that i knew i had let her go because she was just that toxic to my life i cried about it cause as a friend i did love her as sister and our childern started growing up together but i had to do what i had to do in my own life i got tired of ducking and dodging her so i flat out told her that i could nolonger be her friend if she acted that way and she didn't want to accept me being me with my own mind she wasn't ready so i let her go i slowly weened her out of my life bit by bit. We would have occward times were we would run into each other on the street and even my kids daycare center because she decided to put her kids in the same center but i just stuck to my guns now it's been about 2yrs and counting and we've had no contact and i am happy. I think that i made the right decsion sometimes nomatter how hard the choice it has to be made look at it this way it's either you or them and i don't think you are willing to give up your values for a miner friendship right.
How to get rid a bitchy friend?
i have a friend and i've known her for 2 years.i met her in college and even enrolled in the same university. the problem is, she seems to think i'm her best friend(which is i am not), and being following everything that i have done before. she tries to like all the stuff that i like and it really piss me off...i am sick of her but i keep pretending that i like her.how to get rid a friend like this?
How can I nicely get rid of my friends?
getting rid of a friend is a pretty big decision and as you learn from these experiences and age, your question will hopefully change to, “should I allow this person into my life”With most friends you can go away gently, and quietly just by not calling them, not being available when they ask you to meet up with them, if they text you, reply kindly and say , “sorry, I can't talk right now.”A lot of people will just shrug their shoulders and start hanging out with people who are more available. It's not uncommon for people to drift away from one another.Not every friend you break it off with needs to be told why. Peoples values, morales and personalities change and it doesn't mean they are a bad person, but just not right for you, in your life today.Toxic friends, I call them soul suckers can be more difficult to get rid of. Their lives feed off of having an audience. Their negativity will suck your soul from your body and you leave a night out with them feeling exhausted and possibly depressed.Sometimes you will have to muster the strength to be honest and tell these people, that you cannot be there for them anymore, that you wish them the best and hope things improve for them, but you need more positive influences in your life.They will probably be angry but remember that is just because they ar e hurt, let them seek solace someplace else.I have had friends come and go in my life, some we just drifted a part a little more each day and others I had to tell them, why I can't be there for them anymore and visa versa.My take away from this was that I was able to purge, bad influences, manipulates, and soul suckers from my life and aquaint myself with people who are uplifting and keep me motivated into being the best person I can be.Good luck, remember choosing to be honest with someone does not mean that you cannot do it nicely and with compassion.
How to get rid of an annoying "friend"?
Yes, I know it sounds a bit harsh... But you would understand if you met her. Please read it all! Sorry it's long!! PLEASE FOR THE LOVE OF GOD LET HER BE GONE!!! 10 POINTS FOR BEST ANSWER! AND POINTS FOR PEOPLE WHO HELPED ALSO EVEN IF NOT THE BEST!!! •she has been following me around for five years •she lives like right by me •she causes me to not make as many friends because people think I like her •she hardly has any friends •she's a brat; if she wants it she gets it •she is absolutely disgusting. Ex., she will have food on her face all day, have tons of food stuck in her braces (everyone does but with her it's worse), she wears the same clothes for multiple days in a row, she wears badly stained clothing, talks with food in her mouth, eats with her mouth open, bad hygiene in general. •she is insanely sloppy. All her papers are stuffed in a huge binder, crumpled. She has unreadable handwriting. She carries tons of stuff with her around school and is always dropping things •her but crack always shows •she refuses to go home if she's sick •she touches people to much, like poking us constantly, and tries to tickle us. She also hugs us and it's really embarrassing. •not sporty, artistic.. I feel so bad saying all this stuff. •really annoying voice •tries to act cool •always wants me to come over •writes all over her arms and hands •puts the fear of Hod into little kids when she plays or talks to them.. Not kidding I think thats most of it.. I would really appreciate it if you'd help me.. I'm about to go to highschool.. I live in Canada and I really need this person out of my life. I really feel bad about it but I need her gone. So do my friends
How do i get rid of a friend with benefits?
I have been seeing this guy for a while. He says that we are good friends...or more than friends. However I am not his girlfriend. I told him from the jump start that I did not want to be in a friends with benefits type of relationship, because its not my style. Well, it seems like he forgot that, because everytime we have an encounter it seems to be a sexual one. I admit, I was wrong for giving in. But he confuses me. We celebrated major holidays together, and he contact me everyday. I really care about him, but I feel like this relationship is going no where. We had a discussion about seeing each other exclusively, but we are not a couple. He tells me that he misses me!!! Im confused about that too!!! I dont want to pressure him into anything he is not willing to commit to. How do I get rid of him? Or should I continue this and be miserable until he changes his mind?
How to get rid of bitchy friends 2?
the fact is we barely know each other when we were in the college.how am i going to distance myself from her, she is my roommate!she is miss know-it-all type and had done the worst thing even worst!she also like to backstab other friends just because she doesn't like this friend or that friend boyfriend/girlfriend.how am i supposed to do bout this ***** girl?
Help!!! how do I get rid of a bitchy friend?
There is this bitchy girl Marissa who keeps coming over to my house everyday even though I am grounded and I am in huge trouble because she cut my hair short I got grounded and she keeps making up lies to my parents. Whenever she comes over she eats up all my food and doesn't clean up after herself and leaves a f*cking huge mess and I told her not to come over and she keeps bowering my stuff and she is really disgusting she doesn't even wash her hands and keeps putting her fingers in her mouth and touches my things and when she comes over she goes on myspace for hours on my computer even though I am not allowed to use my computer and my family doesn't want her at my house at all and now she is goes in my parents room and goes through there stuff even though no one is suppose to be inside my parents room. I fricken hate her I and I could care less about her and wish bad things happen to her The only reason I am her friend is because I just want to meet her friends