How do I ask a guy if we are just friends or are we more than friends?
I’ve been into this situation a couple of times so I’ll pretend I know the answer to this question.But I really don’t.Asking is the most direct, quick and easy way to know.But sometimes you don’t get a straight answer.And it all ends up awkward from then on.What I do is, set them up.Put them in conditions that may elicit a genuine reaction.Like bringing in over a cousin, act super close to see if he’d get jealous or not.Make plans with other friends without him an see how he’d react.Give a gift or a favor out of the blue, would he return the gesture?And so on.One thing is for sure, if he makes and does all thing with you in mind before himself,Every.single.time.There is something right there.No need to ask.Just follow through.
Can guys and girls be just friends?
of course!
How do you show a girl that you want to be just more then friends?
be more and more attentive. wait for her after class...offer to walk with her. flirt! be sweet! she has to like u in that way too before u start datin rite! Give her compliments.
Are we going to prom as "just friends" or more than friends?
I sit next to one of my guy friends in one of my classes and we usually talk to each other A LOT in that class, up to the point where the teacher tells us to stop talking; him, me, and a couple of my other friends normally get food after school together before our music rehearsals. Then one night he asked me to prom but he didn't explicitly say that he wanted to go as "just friends". He said: I was wondering if you wanted to go together I didn't know if he meant as a date date or as a "just friends" date so I asked him this: What do you mean? He said: I understand we are going to prom with the same group of friends, I just thought it would be nicer to pair up. So is he implying in a "just friends" way? I got the impression that he wants to go to prom as more than friends but is too shy to say it. I never thought of him as more than a friend but ever since he asked me, I have had some feelings ignited towards him. In other words, I want this to be a more than just friends date. What do you think? Any advice is appreciated ^^
How do you know if a guy just wants to be friends or wants something more?
There is not really a definite sign cause I used to think there were signs in girls that showed you wanted to be more than friends and I was proven wrong recently, but the best way to find out is after you give it time to develope is to just ask because it suxs and drives you crazy trying to figure it out and if you cant then you just have to save the yourself the mental stress and just ask with that said, somethings I dow when I like a girl more than just a friend is I get more shy towards them than any of there friends meaning I find it harder to talk to them and have a convo cause I am afraid of embarissing myself, but really just save yourself the mental anguish of trying to read every sign and just ask
How do I ask a girl if she wants to be more than just friends?
I think you need to not ask at this point… but tell .Tell her how you feel. Don't worry about being clingy or anything else.My philosophy is , if I feel it, it's not wrong. I wasn't created “wrong”. But I'm also not insane and do a lot of work on myself.. haha.So tell her. Remember feelings aren't clingy. Behavior is.Someone can be madly in love with you and you wouldn't know… and someone can really hate you and you would think they were obsessed with you.Tell her how you feel and don't wonder … your feelings wont change and are not dependent on what she does with them, right? So just let her know without any pressure … don't have it be about her. And what she does for you.Because love isn't about that. Love is an action word.. love is about giving not getting. And the purer the love the less selfish it is.Be in charge of your feelings and let her be in charge of hers. I think its perfectly fine to ask her straight out.“Can I be your boyfriend?”Just try to remember there are no rules to follow. No set formula. If you pay attention. To your heart and your truth and don't listen to anything else or anyone else you'll be ok. I mean as far as what you're supposed to do. There is no “should”.
How can I convince him that we are just friends, nothing more nothing less?
The only way to convince anybody of anything is to stand your ground and not compromise. If you do not entertain any flirting of any kind, keep that clear line drawn in the sand, he'll get the picture. And if he truly wants to be your friend, he'll cooperate. If not, you'll only lose a friend who wanted to box you into something you didn't want
What do you say when your male friend wants to be more than just friends?
You can tell him you are not interested and you just don't see him in that way but you do value the friendship and hope you can remain as friends if also values the friendship and bond you two have.It's common for people to want to start relationships with people they are affectionate with and fail to recognize the value of being able to have that level of affection for someone without it involving sexual attraction.I have two good friends I'm also attracted to but also value the friendship so I am more than happy to move on romantically and still enjoy the bond we share.It might take both of you a little time. For him he will need to reflect on his feelings towards women and towards you, and for you, it may take time to let go and be in the moment, or maybe it won't and you'll just be the same.Talking things through without judgement may help a great deal, but only if you are both able to just communicate without holding your thoughts against each other. The benefit of this is that it can help establish the next step in your relationship as friends, alleviate any doubt that you have to worry about his feelings continuing (providing he is able to get over his interest in you) and it maintains your level of rapport.Trying to create distance to help him get over you will likely just create permanent distance, especially if he has come to terms, but it all depends on his emotional maturity and self reflection.Peace.