If a guy asks you to hang out, is he asking you on a date?
A2a..."If a guy asks you to hang out, is he asking you on a date?"The real question is, 'Does it matter what you call it'? When is a 'date' a date? When it involves the guy spending money on the girl? When the guy's motives are to get to know the girl better and vice versa?What you want to know is not 'is this a date', but 'is he looking to be romantically involved with me or does he just want to be friends'?The shy way he acts around you, plus the way he gives you attention (getting you a treat, complimenting you on your solo, asking you to hang out, have lunch) are all signs of being in love. His awkwardness might be because he's not used to asking girls out (which is good, you don't want a 'player') and is afraid to be rebuffed/rejected if he's more direct. You, on the other hand, seem to require more direct and unequivocal hints that he likes you. So, go 'hang out' with him and tell him that you like him. Give him your attention and compliment him on being attentive to your needs. He sounds like he's kind, attentive and caring, if a bit lacking in assertiveness. But assertiveness can be learned, while his base qualities are positive character traits.If you need a blessing, you have mine.
How can I tell a guy that I don't want to hang out with him alone?
So far people have said to be blunt and just give him a big fat NO. It's understandable if you're reluctant in taking this approach as people avoid saying NO as much as possible when it comes to other people. There are simply so many things that could possibly go wrong with that, short term and long term.If you don't want to hang out with the guy alone without feeling rude or possibly erasing future possibilities, I suggest you take a more diplomatic approach.Everyone is correct in saying that you are completely within your rights to deny him without reason but that does not necessarily mean you should. Your actions can have much greater consequences than you can perceive at the immediate time. Therefore, you should politely deny his request while also concisely stating your position.There are many ways to do this. As stated before, people do not say NO. This can make you come off as a bit of an ass sometimes."Do you want to see a movie this weekend?""No."I'm allowed to simply say no. That is simply a fact. However if I do then I could be labeled as stingy, heartless, cruel, unreliable, why? Because I COULD have but I didn't."Do you want to see a movie this weekend?""I'm working this weekend sorry."I realise that I am essentially suggesting that you lie. But lying is simply another aspect of social interaction that must be employed to maintain good relations with people as it is inevitable that you will encounter people that you do not agree with.
How do i tell i guy i want to hang out with him?
say, you want to hang out
Should I tell a guy I have my period before hanging out with him?
I've been dating a guy for three months now. We always have sex when we're together .. he will probally want to get together tomorrow but I have my period. I really like this guy so I feel like this might be the time to see where we're at. When he asks me to hang out should I text him back letting him know I would like to hang out but can't get frisky bc of the timing ? Should I be straight forward and ask him if he wants to reschedule? I need a way to go about this so I can let him know while not giving him the impression that I only want sex but also I would like to see his reaction. I'm new to the dating game and just dont know how men work. If it makes any difference this man is 31 years old so its not like hes shy to hear about a woman having her time. He actually asked me about it before bc he was worried I never got it but i just never got it at a time when we were hanging out. Now that we hang out more and more it will be an interference.. Anyways no more rambling on... I need advice on what to say ..
What does it mean when a guy wants to "hang out"?
Hi it could mean a number of thingsIt could be he finds you physically attractive and wants to spend time with youOr he really feels you're a nice person and so found a quality he liked and wanted to get to know youBut chose to hang out which is a more casual term for date when he is not sure where hes taking thisEg if you notice his pupils dilating or his body pointing towards you like feet and he is facing you when you talk he's interested in what you have to say. I was sat with a guy and his legs were spread open and he then leaned in to kiss me after researching that body language sign it meant he felt horny.Another guy was sat with his feet not pointing toward me but then as he got comfortable he began to mirror my body language like folding arms, then he placed hands on knees crossed his legs and then I leaned in to him and his pupils dilated and his eyes showed a lot of love and respect and he kissed my forehead as he gently put his arm round me… That was more loving than lust he used term to hang out because he was shy to say let's date(hook up flags)Hanging out..Taking you out late…Going to watch a movie at hisAt his friends apartmentYou don't want that but how to stop this is say you're simply not ready and if he truly likes you he will wait or if he doesnt just do not get playedSo in some cases the guy wants to hang out because he wants to get to know you as a friend or more than a friend, but dont become friends with benefits just be a friend unless he wants to take you on a real dateMaybe he likes you and wants to do more with you like be your boyfriend but you won't know until you go out on a dateIf you find him fixing his collar, straightening his clothing etc he wants to impress youIf he's fidgeting, sweaty palms etc it means he's very nervous … smiling, hes cuddly but not dirty enjoys pdaThey are all good signs he likes youSome guys like the term hang out, it's cool to say I hung out with so and so, but If he doesnt take you on a date sorry you're just friends
How do I hang out with my crush outside of school?
We are pretty good friends in school, but he always hangs around his group of friends. I always hang around my group of friends too, but I want to hang out with just the two of us. I want to try and get to a point in our friendship where I can tell him that I'm gay: the point where I can trust him. Then maybe I can tell him that I like him. And to just ask him out of the blue would be weird so what can I do?
How do I keep him wanting more? :) ?
Don't play stupid games. If you like him, just tell him. If he likes you too, then what will keep him interested is KNOWING that you like him, and getting to hang out more and get to know you even more! If you keep jerking him around, he'll just think your not interested and find someone else who he thinks is! _________________________________ Actually, yes I have told guys flat out that I liked them. Seemed to work just fine for me. You don't have to declare your undying love for him. Just get or give him your phone number and ask him to hang out with you sometime. No guts no glory!
WHY AM I SO NERVOUS TO HANG OUT WITH HIM?!?!?!(10 points)?
Kay so me& this guy have been texting alot&flirting&we told eachother we like one another& so we wanna hang out,& were hangin out tomorro. He's like the sweetest guy ever but he not insanely hot but no where near ugly. I dont get why I'm so nervous to hang out with him. He's just a guy right? UGH advice?!?!:D
Should I initiate hanging out with him anyway or should I wait for him to initiate?
There could be a variety of reasons for this. He may be a bit shy or lack some confidence. Here’s what’s important though…you like him…he likes you. This seems clear given the good time you two seem to have together.When you find someone that you connect with like that and that you want to spend time with, try not to obsess over the smaller issues along the way. Is there anything bad about you exclusively initiating your get togethers (for now)? If it is really important to you, then ask him why he doesn’t initiate and indicate in a gentle way that it would be nice if he did sometime.Since communication is the key to every successful relationship, don’t be afraid to speak up. Others are not responsible for our happiness and fulfillment…we are. Get to the bottom of what’s important to you or let it slide and shrug as to the reason he is not more willing to initiate.Chris - Constructive-Coaching