My friends are talking behind my back?
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How do i deal with my ex best friend talking **** behind my back?
me and her were best friends. and i told her everything. after a couple months i found out that all the personal things i had been telling her that i didnt want anyone to know and all my family issues that i was having, was told to everyone else. and a whole lot more. so i told her that we nedded to talk and she just walked on by and didnt say a word to me. ever since then we just havent talked and we havent been friends. she still talks **** behind my back to everyone else, and it sucks because i feel like i "lost". i just want to let her know that im done with her bullshit. how do i get that across to her if she just tunes me out everytime that i talk to her? apart of me still wants that best friend back. but i know that i cant. what do i do?
If your friend's talk about you behind your back what do you do?
Ignore it. If they don't have the nerve to tell you something your face, they're not worth it. Most people who behave in that way are usually just jealous. Ignore it. You'll be a better person for it. And besides, if they're jealous of you, that should make you feel good, right?
What do I do? My Best friend is talking behind my back?
I've been there! Hurts like a b****, doesn't it? I know it may seem like sometimes, best friends are the greatest things. But truthfully, they tend to really let you down sometimes. You think they are the greatest of people, but they really aren't your best friends. You've got to accept that. I used to have this amazing best friend, and i thought we were SO special. But once i found out she talked about me NON stop behind my back, i decided to end things with her. You can't keep letting her talk about you. She's only doing it because she knows you won't stop her. First of all, make sure you've got a good source and that the person who told you this in the first place, isn't lying herself. Then you need to sit your best friend down and talk to her about it. Ask her why she feels this way. If she was TRULY your bff, you wouldn't have a fight in the first place, and you'd be able to share your feelings easily. Don't be afraid to find new friends. You don't need to cling onto someone forever.
My ex-best friend is talking trash about me behind my back...?
Ok, my EX-friend is talking trash about me and my BFF behind our backs. Saying things like "they're such wh**es" "she flashed everyone on a bed" "they're such!@#$%^&*" and so and so. We're trying to get her back but we want it to really have an effect on her. Suggestions?
My "friend" talks about me behind my back?
One of my friends is CONSTANTLY talking behind my back. Its not about one big flaw, like being annoying or a ***** or something. No, she nitpicks every single part of my life and talks about it to others. Grades? Yep. Family? Yep. Boys. Yep. She even talks negatively about my instagram to my other friends. It hurts my feelings because I've been nothing but nice to her and even defended her when others have talked about her. I've tried so hard to move pass this and just try to continue to be really nice to her and maintain our friendship, but nothing has changed. This has been going on for a really long time (almost 3 years), yet I still stick around because she is friends with my three best friends and if I end our friendship, I'll most likely have to end the ones with my other friends too. I honestly don't understand why she is so nice to me in person, and then repeatedly talks sh*t on me to everyone. I have no idea what to do, please help?
How can I prevent friends from talking behind my back?
By not caring. Ppl will talk more if they see you react. Wether your the nicest person in the world or the worst people will always find something to talk. It's better if you dont care to not keep feeding this toxic people who have nothing better to do with their lives.
How do I get rid of friends who talk behind my back?
People who talk behind our backs can't really be called friends ,can they? It would be best to stop seeing them as friends.I would inform them that I am aware that they have been talking about me. I don't like it, that their actions have hurt me.If they continue I would look for new friends and let this friendship end naturally.If it isn't possible to confront them or change location to begin again.Gradually reduce contact to absolute necessity.Hopefully the friendship ends on its own.True and honest friends are difficult to find.So it really is not a very good idea to place too much importance on friendship.try to ignore mean comments,they do hurt us but they are not who we are.Why let mean people drag us down?
Why do my friends talk behind my back?
Since I don't know you, I can't exactly point out one reason in particular, however it likely has little to do with you. Some people just have personalities that stand out more than others and in turn, are talked about more often. Then there are others who get stuck with the wrong friends.Personally, I've never been a name of social intrest, but as soon as I got involved with some friends, gossip followed. No one ever told me about it, until I came back to school and one of my close friends were skeptical about what they heard and asked me.Anyways, it happened, and almost nobody remembers it now. I didn't do anything different, besides lying about liking someone in an attempt to fit in with everyone, who only talked about dating.So maybe you compromised yourself in the process, and it backfired in a terrible way, like me. Or maybe, you stayed true to yourself, and these people wanted you to become like them instead. Truthfully, anything can be a reason, since it depends on how your social system works. People get jealous for one reason or another, and try to make themselves feel better by spouting rude, often twisted, things about others.So please don't blame yourself, unless you actually did something wrong. Even then, please don't hold onto that shame/bitterness and let it rot inside you. At the end of the day, we all have good and bad friends, and we often get lost discerning the two until we learn from mistakes.
How to stop people from talking behind your back?
Truthfully, there is no way to stop people from talking behind your back. Just bring up "little things" you have heard that they have said whilst your with them... you dont have to accuse them.. just say stuff like - do you think i am........ wait for their reaction. from then i think you will know what to do.