How to make friends at my new school?
hey hon don't worry about it, i've moved a lot of times, and i like to think that it is always nice to meet new people you can find really good new friends or interesting people :) ... be confident the morning you wake up for your first day look to the mirror and tell your self the amazing things that you have and how everyone will like them... you should say or talk about the things you like , just avoid weird things lol ... that won't make a good first impression at lunch try to approach someone , avoid eating alone but if you have to, well it is fine :) i like to think of hot guys just as someone else act natural, they are just people .. who happen to be hot ( but ignore that fact lol) hope i help, just remember that a confident woman is gorgeous
How do I make friends at my new school?
This happened to me alot. Because my father is in Army, we have to change our stations every 3–4 year, new schools, new teachers, new friends. I always felt like being in zoo, so many staring eyes.Well what I did on my first day, follows:Sit at front-most seats (2–3 days)It will make you visible to everyone in class.Participate actively in discussionsWhen you join a new class, not only you but everyone is hesitant but curious to know. Ask teacher questions (related to topic) or answer them when asked.Caution! Don't become over effecient.Observe everyone and analyze themPay attention to class mates when they speak, one can learn alot by speech. From there you will know everyone. Each class has same set of nerds, machos, spoiled, strugglers e.t.c. Get to know their norms like: if they shake hand when they meet or simple “hi” is enough.Try to talk, about schedule, weather e.t.cOur favourite subject used to be mimicking our teachers or sports-period or Imran Khan.Show your presenceDuring free-period sit behind groups, understand the nature of group and positions of its people. During recess sit alone but in a place where you are accessible.Become teachers petIt is upto you. If you win teacher’s attention, then no bully can harm you. You can offer teacher to pick his/her bundle of books, participate when teachers ask, bring up good ideas. (No need to become a nerd)Extra-curricular activitiesThese activities are really helpful when you want to increase periphery of friends. It will give you fame but in good manner. Participate in debates, quizzez, sports, music-galas, or even morning assemblies.Remember friends you make here won't be your besties, you have few besties (usually childhood besties). Though your interest might overlap, but interest changes overtime. Respect everyone and in turn you will be respected.Don't get manipulated, understand everyone’s motive.First 1–2 weeks would be a little awkward, stay confident, reflexive, articulate, humorous and you will fit in.Best of luckSource: Google
How can I make new friends in a new school?
Many teens go through moving, so hopefully you find someone that has been through it. To make friends, all you have to do is go up to someone and start a conversation with. For example, talk about a T.V. show you know and like and see if they like it too. Walking into the cafeteria on your first day at a new school can be scary, but don't worry just look for a friendly face and ask them if you can sit down with them, then strike up that conversation. Its ok if your shy and just want to sit by yourself on the first day, someone might want to come sit with you. You can also ask you guidance counselor to help you. My niece befriended some of the other students that had also been new there (your guidance counselor can help you with that). And remember to ALWAYS BE YOUR SELF NO MATTER WHAT!!!, it can get you a BFF faster. Also try reading Chicken Soup for the Teenage Soul the Real Deal: School and Chicken Soup for the Teenage Soul the Real Deal: Friends. It has stories written by real teenagers that experienced the same thing your going through. Help out other new kids that move to the school your going to, because you'll know what they are going through. I hope that helps. Good Luck!!
How can I make friends at my new school? I think I already made a bad impression and they don’t like me. It’s been a month and I am still lonely.
If you believe you’ve made a first bad impression, then you have.It’s entirely up to you to decide what you want. Be clear about it. Be very clear.You want to attract friends. What sort of people would you like to associate with?What sort of attributes should they have? Don’t be too picky but do be clear.Will they be respectful of other people like yourself?Will they enjoy learning, like you do?Will they enjoy days when the sun is shining and the beach is beckoning and lunch is picnic?Will they enjoy studying for your next exams with you?Will they become people with whom you will associate for years to come?And the most important question you need to ask yourself; “Am I likable and do I like who I’ve become? I enjoy school, learning and I respect others. Am I patient and do I listen to what others have to say?”That should do it.There’s your recipe for a new enjoyable experience at your new school regardless whether you’ve been there a month or a year.You don’t have to be lonely unless you choose to be. It’s up to you.
I don't have any friends at my new school?
Hi. I'm a 16 year old girl, I'm average-looking and awfully shy. I recently started a completely new school. It's been a few months now but I feel like things are awful. I literally have zero friends. There are a few girls I kind of hang out with. They let me sit with them and eat lunch with them, but they don't say a word to me. They never ask for my opinion or ask if I wanna hang out with them after school. They only talk to me if they want something from me. And they ALWAYS leave me behind. If I try to talk they often talk over me, interrupt me, or simply act as if they don't care about what I have to say. I try really hard to be nice to them but obviously they don't appreciate my company and it makes me feel sooo bad because I have no one else to hang out with. I feel nervous about school all the time, especially in the morning, because I know I'm about to spend like 6-8 hours around people who treat me like air. I feel so ******* lonely. I can't talk to my parents about it because I'm not close to them in that kind of way. I miss my friends in my previous school so much. And my grades are dropping too. It's so hard to study when you're feeling nervous all the time. I have 2,5 years left until I graduate but I don't wanna feel like this about school any longer. What do I do?
New school.. How to make friends.? Helpp.?
Nah, it's not weird to go up and talk to a person as long as you don't do it in a totally weird way! I mean, sure, going up to someone and saying, "Hey what's your favorite color?" would be bizarre. But you can ask what other classes they're taking, or if they understood the homework. Then the next time you see them, you can be a little friendly and then ask how their weekend was. Eventually this leads to more personal conversations, except in those rare cases where you just instantly hit it off with someone. Add them to your Facebook Video Chat Rounds (http://www.rounds.com/facebook-video-chat ) and say what's up when you see them online
I can't make new friends in high-school. What should I do?
You know what, I was the same way.Quick story time!Flashback to my freshman year…I had no friends freshman year. My only “friend” I had in 8th grade had found a new best friend and replaced me. I was all alone.I'm a friendly person, but for some reason, nobody liked me. Everyone was too busy with their own problems to even think of my existence. It's kind of pathetic how invisible I was to everyone.So- then there's a new kid. His name is Nick. He went to a private school nearby and was the only one from his private school to come to my public school.I see him in choir, but don't think much of him. Then, everyone in my choir introduces themselves and talks about what they did all summer…“Uh, hi. My name is Nick. I basically wasted my life watching anime all summer.”Oh! I watch a little anime too! That's cool.So after class, I walk up to him and introduce myself. I ask about what animes he watches and if he has any recommendations.He was friendly, but nothing more.Turns out the only other person he knew at school was my only other friend at school. So, he sat near me at lunch because he didn't know where else to sit.We became friends… and eventually, best friends.Fast forward to junior year…Me and nick have been best friends since freshman year. I don't have much more friends than him however.Anyways, the reason I tried to befriend him was because…He was new, and didn't know any judgements said about me.However, not everyone is as lucky as me. I know not everyone can make friends as quickly as I can (I'm not very shy).But what I recommend you do, is pick someone.Pick someone who you like, and tolerate.Talk to them (maybe stalk their Facebook page a little and find something you have in common).You can also try to strike conversation with people who sit near you in classes.And hey, not everyone in your school is rude and immature. TRUST ME. Everyone at your school has the potential to be a good person… That doesn't mean you're compatible as friends, but it does mean you can get along.Try and find someone you click with, as a friend. Don't be afraid to be outgoing, everyone's too busy thinking about their own problems, then to think how weird you are.
How do I find a good friend in my new school?
Going to a new school can be quite stressful. Everything is new, newness of the place, new kids, new teachers, new building! So finding someone with whom you can click will be the key to adjusting yourself smoothly in the new environment.There is no magic wand to make new friends. To my mind, to make new good friends, one needs to:Just be yourself - don't try to be someone you aren't, don't try to fit in, just be you and you will be able to click with someone who will be good to you.Don't shy away from making the first move - if you like someone you see, there is no harm in approaching and introducing yourself. It reflects that you are confident in taking the first step.Join extra curricular activities - houses, sports, clubs, it will help you meet people of your preferences and your liking. You will be able to meet the people with same interests. Likeminded kids will be of help.Just be open - be open to have fun, be open to new people, embrace with openness, be flexible and decide your take on whom you want to be real friends with later.You will find someone good provided you just. E you, be open to have fun, be easy going and be flexible to embrace the newness of the place and people!Best