How can I convince my parents to move to a different state?
Well here is what I call the art of learning “persuasive argument”! Keep in mind that this might not work at all, but I do have some suggestions. I am thinking that you might need to first identify why your parents live in Detroit. This might sound silly, but it's actually not. For example, they might enjoy their jobs. If this is the reason, then pursuading them to move would need to include helping them find jobs they would like. If they live in Detroit because they live near family and that's important to them, then you might find another place that includes family or not so far away from Detroit that they can't visit. Get what I'm saying? Basically this involves first communicating to get answers from them and then using those answers to offer pursuasive reasons why ot would be best for them and you to consider moving. As an adult, change is sometimes hard because even though we are living in a bad place, changing to a new place is something we just don't know. And sometimes not knowing feels more scary than what we know! Good luck to you! Pursuasive argument requires practice, and the more questions you ask them, the more effective it will be!
How to convince My parents to let me move schools?
Are you finishing 8th and moving on to high school after summer break or are you going into 8th and have this last year of middle school before high school? Are you being bullied (even verbally) or harassed? Tell them that. The school district will have to agree to let you move if that is the case and that is your choice for handling the situation. If you are about to finish 8th and go on to high school you may meet other kids there who will have more in common with you and appreciate you. Make some calls or search on the web and find out for yourself what it would take to transfer -- do the legwork and show your parents that you have thought this through and you really want to make this decision for your own mental well being. Do you know what your parents issue is with this? Is it transportation? A new school would be farther away but at this one you can take the bus or go in carpool or walk? Is it that your parents are friends with other parents with kids at your school? (I think that is a dopey reasion but it could happen). My suggestions then are to do the legwork -- choose the school you wish to attend; find out if it is still possible to transfer to that school -- if not now when? Be able to explain why you chose that school and how you think it will benefit your education. Help your parents understand the mental anguish you go through at your current school AND how you think a new school will change that. If your parents are not taking you seriously it may be because ``Oh well girls have their arguments and then they make up. How do we know the same thing will not happen with new friends from your new school?`` Think of what you will say to make it clear that your fall out with your friends is not about a little tussle that will get straightened out soon but that whatever issue arose between you and one friend they did the girl bullying thing and pressured all the other girls to turn against you. That is a hard thing and there is hardly any remedy for it. If after all of this they will not let you change schools and you honestly do not think you can make new friends at your current school then ask if you can be involved in a community activity like sports league or music or theater or dance or whatever where you can meet other girls from other schools and form new relationships. Be well and good luck!
How do I convince my parents to let me go to school in the city? At the moment I live in the countryside and also go to school there, but when I finish middle school I'd like to go to high school in a city.
Since you’re still only in middle school, I’d drop the topic for a few years. By the time you start your junior year of high school, you will appear older, bigger , and (hopefully) you will sound more adult-like. You’ll want to remember in the meantime to do and say things that will convince your folks that you are smart and possess good judgment. Right now your reasoning for going to an urban school is probably rooted in emotions aroused by your mind’s own mental images of what big city life is like. By eleventh grade you might change your mind.If your parents have always been country-living people, THEY probably have their own ideas about what urban life could do to you. Both you and your parents might be harboring some misconceptions.By the way, I myself decided to attend college in a town which was much smaller than the city in which I grew up. I never regretted my choice. I got a great undergraduate education and enjoyed four terrific years there!
How do I convince my parents that I do not want to change my school?
Changing a school can be traumatizing for kids because they have formed their set of friends, their favourite teachers and are comfortable.Shifting a school for a child is like uprooting the child ( like a tree) and replanting him in a completely different environment with no guarantee that he will be accepted or he will accept his surroundings.It is scary because you have entirely new set of friends, teachers and people to get along.Tell them all this stuff and also tell them why you enjoy your current school and how you can run into a depression or adjustment problems which may affect your academics adversely and push the negatives more do that they are also convinced.
How do i get my parents to move to another state?
ok i have read several other questions like this and all the answers say something like this: You can't convince your parents to move if they don't want to so just wait until your older. or Just try to make the best of where you live now. all the answers i read mainly focus on why you shouldn't move or why you can't move. SO i just want answers like: try to annoy your parents until they agree to move. why i want to move I don't like anything about it down here. the schools are horrible, the rules there aren't enforced there. i don't like my church but my mom forces me to go. i don't have much Friends down here. and i don't think much people like me either and i don't know why they just don't. so i want to move so that way i can have a fresh start and i don't think i'm getting anywhere with trying to get along with people. i think if i move somewhere else i can try to make more Friends. any advice? DON'T SAY respect your moms decision be a happier person anything that criticizes me wait until i get older and move anything that involves me staying here and definitely don't say to do all the stuff i said not to say!
How do I convince my parents to let me move away for university?
If your parents want you to stay and go to a local university they probably have good reasons. Are you aware of the cost factors if you went to a distance university ? You need to ask them about this and have a PLEASANT conference with them about the financial facts. The most important facts and the prime reason about you and your university is that you go to class on a regular basis, take care of mastering your classwork, be working on a marketable degree, STAY in school till you graduate and don't drop out, and graduate with marketable degree. Mastering your classwork means to spend whatever time and effort you need to to get your studying done.I wish you the best for your university experience and the degree that you earn.
How to convince your parents to not move out of town?
There's really not much you can say, but if you really want to sway them, like i have with my own mother.. just say you're not ready to make the change. Tell them you enjoy where you're at and all you're friends and what you personally know of the town is all there in front of you and you know it like the back of your hand. If moving means to a totally different place or town or wherever that you have no idea how to get around, then it's not something you're quite ready for yet and that it wouldn't be too fair on you. This is only if they decide. If not, then propose this idea anyway, which infact might spark something in their brain and make them realize that it's basically the same situation for them as it is for you. =] It's worth a try.
How can i convince my parents to move to New York?
im in middle school and i live in texas. i love new york and have always wanted to live there, my family is moving but when i try to convince them to move to new york mom says its to cold and my dad says its too expensive. PLEASE HELP!!! any advice is appreciated...
How can I convince my parents to move to New York?
I am in middle school and I live in California. I always loved New York and I have always wanted to live there. My mom recently lost here job and we are NOT moving any time soon. PLEASE HELP!!!!! ANy advice is also appreciated...