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How did you react to your parents death?

I knew it was coming, but it was still shocking. The night before my mother passed away, we had to call 911, because my mother was having trouble breathing, her pulse was out of range as well as her blood pressure.By the time the EMTs arrived, my mother’s vitals were within range. She was scared and was looking to me to make the decision to send her to the hospital or not. That was odd because usually she would deny going to the hospital. The EMTs told me that since her vitals were normal, if they brought her to the ER, she would only get sent back. I made the decision to keep her home.When I went to bed that night, i had an urge to stay strong, I kept hearing my grandmother’s voice in my head telling me to stay strong. I thought it was strange but given the circumstances I just thought it was my subconscious helping me out.I woke up at seven AM very perturbed, realizing my mother hadn’t woken me once throughout the night. I rushed to the living room where we had placed her bed for easy access, and there she was, lifeless.My girlfriend says she’ll never forget the sound in my voice that morning when I realized my mother was dead. I was frantic, panicking, unsure of what to do. All rational thoughts left my head. I called out to my mother, shook her hand, tried to find a pulse. My mouth went dry. I broke down in my girlfriends arms, “My mom is dead,” I kept saying.It hits me more and more as time continues, my grief comes in waves. I have learned to allow myself to cry when I feel it coming on. To talk about my memories, happy or sad, surrounding my mother’s death. Talking about it helps in the moment, for me, at least.For background info about my mother, read Sara Bemis's answer to What is it like to find out one of your parents has cancer?Thank you for reading.

How do you react when a girl says yes after you ask her out?

Always keep your cool. She may be doubting her decision but giving you a chance. Don't do anything desperate like a "fist pump", cheer, or go running to tell your friends. Instead, give her a hug. Stay confident so she knows she made the right decision. Also, you should have plans for the next move. A real man knows how to lead.Have plans ready for an event like dinner, a show, handing out, etc.. Never say something like "so what do you want to do?". Instead something like "There a ___ concert playing on Saturday, would you like to join me?". Just stay true to your own personality when you plan.

How would you react if your crush came and proposed to you?

This crust story is my clg friend .They had crush on a girl for the last three years.I thought of proposing her but then something stopped me. It was so because I thought that I was just a high school phase and I'll get over her.Three years down the line my feelings for her didn't change.One day this was our conversation on FB :Me: I need to tell you something.She: SayMe: Not on FB.She: Then???Me: Can I call you.She: Yes but text me before that.Me: i'll call u after my JEE AdvancedShe: Okay………..Fast forward to 17 May 2018, I called her.She:Hello……Me: Mai X bol Raha hoo.She: Mujhe lagaa ki ye call nahi aayegi (I was 45 mins late)(After hearing her voice)Me: Abey…..teri awaaj toh chutiya jaisi hai..(She laughed and damn!!!!!!!! it was the best thing I ever heard)After this I panicked and I couldn't think what else to say , thenMe: Abhi relatives as Gaye hai 1 ghante baad call karta hoo.( I needed time to think what to say)After one hour I called her and thenMe : Tumhe pata hai Maine tumhe Kyu phone Kiya haiShe: Batao tab toh pata chalega.Me: Tumhe pata hai mujhe tum per crush hai……..class 10 seShe:HaaAfter this I told her about the phase stuff and tried to say so three magical words for atleast 5 minutes but everytime I choked and I was without words.She: Take your time……….baad mein bhi keh sakte ho.Me:Now or never!!!!!!I mustered up the courage to say those words I said it but then there was was a wtf moment our call dropped and she couldn't hear it.She called me back.Me: Ab firse kehna padegaShe: Awaaj nahi aa rahi thiMe: okay…………… I love you “Y”.I don't expect you to feel the same way but that's how I felt.She: Bahut himmat chahiye hoti hai kisiko saamne se apni feelings ke baare mein bataana and I appreciate it.After this we talked for 5 mins about random topics and at lastShe: Call karte rehna………..I was on the seventh sky.Me: ByeShe:ByeMe: ByeShe:ByeI hung up the phone.We still chat on WhatsApp and she respects my feelings but she never said those three words .I guess we're just friends.I never asked what she felt cause I'm to afraid to know the answer.Background: She was the the crush of half of my highschool batch and I was kind of unknownShe had many friends I was kind of an introvert.