Do parents really love their children?
I'm 15 and really doubt this is true. Acording to my perception, most parents don't worry about their kids happiness, don't care about how they feel, frequently humilkiate them and hurt their feelings. They don't love their kids when they get in trouble or when they simply act in a way parents don't like. Many abandon their kids when they are in trouble, it's not true they are always there for them. It seems most of them just want to be proud of their kids, but abandon them if they are not. I think most people will still help their parents even if they are criminals, but parents will abandon their kids in such kids. It's something sad and frustrating to realize you do'nt realy have someone who love you uncondionally and will accept you as you are,
Do parents really love all their kids equally?
I agree with another Anon User that I love my kids separately as individuals and would sacrifice anything and everything for any one of them, but because of temperaments and challenge levels, I don't love them equally. Actively knowing this is hard because I feel really guilty about it and do what I can to try to change the one complicated/strained relationship (but...it remains tenuous even after professional intervention).I have one child who is a miserable human being: perpetually sour, demanding, arrogant, bossy person with no empathy at all and a mean streak (the child will make a wonderful prosecutor one day). I have had this child in a variety of professional help situations and the consensus seems to be that while there isn't anything mentally wrong, the child is serially unreasonable, and can't seem to understand that there is a problem with his/her behavior, and most of it is just personality. I want very much to love this child and have a good relationship with this child...but it is extremely difficult when there are personality traits involved that are abhorrent to me and are not ones I'm equipped for (because I don't have a mean bone in my body and can't respond with anything but hurt and disappointment when the child is mean to others). I do what I can to be proud, supportive, and loving toward this child and to see/praise/encourage the good points (there are some...hyper-responsible, smart, driven) but it is difficult for me. This is not a person I'd choose to be friends with or have anything to do with, were we not related.I have another child who is the absolute light of my life. This child is the perfect cross between my spouse and I, with the best qualities of both and charisma thrown in. This child has the tools and personality to succeed and to be liked. This child is positive, imaginative and happy with a sense of humor. Pretty much the opposite of the other. I would be lying if I said that this child isn't the love of my life and my favorite. The key is, recognizing this...everything I do, I'm aware of how it can be seen and how hurtful it would be for one child if I ever let it show. So I guess my answer is, I care for and protect them equally, address both needs diligently and with the same level of attention. I don't regret having any child. That said, without intending to or wanting to, I do love one of them more, and I fight every day to mitigate that and keep it from coming out.
Do all parents love their children?
Some parents love their children, some don't love their children. It depends on the parents, and it can depend on the children some, too. Some parents love their children no matter what. Some parents are incapable of love.Being biologically capable of producing offspring is not anywhere near the same thing as being emotionally capable of dealing with them appropriately or loving them. This is one of the reasons why some people shouldn't be parents, though certainly not the only one.Now that I've been able to read the subtext, I can relate. My grandmother was jealous of me because i was a Grandpa’s Girl. I didn't like her choice in clothing for me, I hated shopping anywhere but book stores and later computer stores. She thought I read too much, but didn't have any alternatives besides the television.
Telling parents about the girl i love!!!?
Parents have a way of coming around when they realize that you aren't going to give up something/one you love. It might take some time, and frustration on both sides, but if you thought that your parents were complete monsters that didn't care at all about your happiness, you wouldn't be asking this question. You're entitled to changing views - that's what youth is after all. Don't worry, I'm sure that your parents didn't want to believe that you never wanted to get married anyway, so that's a positive point!! Take this from personal experience, whatever you do, act and react with maturity and responsability when dealing with this matter. If you want your parents to change their minds about what is best for you, you need to prove to them that you are mature enough to know what's best for yourself. As much as you think this is just about you and your family, don't forget that this has become about you AND your girlfriend. Your parents will be judging quite her quite severly ( as many parents do...) and your girlfriend will need to help you. I'm not suggesting she change her personality, but she will need to show the utmost respect and courtesy towards your family, and know that if the family appreciate her, regardless of their views of marriage, the battle will be half won. For light amusement on a subject close to home...
Why parents love their children more than their children love them?
I have two children......a 4 year old girl and a 2 year old boy. 1) I love them unconditionally. There is no love that can ever compare to the love you feel for your child. It flows in the second your first is born and is the most amazing feeling ever! That's when you find out what REAL love is. 2) I take care of them. I make sure they have everything they need even if I can't always give them what they want. I spend time with them and do the things they want to do. I tell them I love them and give them hugs and kisses every day! 3) The love you feel for your child goes deeper than any love you have ever felt or will ever feel, even for your husband/wife. You have a connection with the child because you know that he/she is a part of you and that they are the greatest gift you will ever receive. When you become a parent, you learn how to love someone without expecting anything in return. You will do anything for your baby, including give your own life if it was needed. I hope this answered your question......good luck and have fun when you become a father! :-)