How does a Virgo man act if he's interested in someone?
In actuality, it all depends on their Venus sign, so it is going to vary on how Virgo men pursue women and love. It all depends because there are about 5 different Venus signs a Virgo can have......... the ones with their Venus in Cancer, Venus in Leo, Venus in Libra, Venus in Scorpio and the ones with their Venus in Virgo. I can speak for the Venus in Virgos, due to the fact that I'm one(although I'm female )and my best guy friend is a double Virgo (Virgo sun & Virgo Venus) in his early 30's. Yes, as you said, many Virgo men can be stand-offish AND aloof. Many DO know how to make that eye contact with someone when they are interested in someone. That is how they first show an initial interest in you....then, the next step can take forever. I know that these people are analytical and picky with who they are interested in and when they are interested in someone, they work their way towards you....slowly. They are not aggressive in their pursuits, and they also must sense interest from the other person as well before they would ever make a move on you. Many of them wait for the other person to make the move first. They love it when you show the interest in them AND make the first move. They are afraid of rejection, however, depending on their moon sign, the degree of being afraid of rejection can vary. If they have a moon in an earth sign, the fear of rejection is greater. Edited to add: Those with their Venus in Virgo can be single for a loooong time. They are okay with being single. EDIT: He was born 08/26. What year was he born in?
What makes a man stay madly in love with a woman?
Her honesty.Her pure soul and caring character.Her sensitivity and vulnerability. When she puts all her trust in you and does not hide anything from you.Her ability to talk everything straight forward. Her courage to tell you the things that she feels and your flaws straight to your face. Her open communication skills.Her Empathy.Her free spirit.Her strong character and mindset. No matter what others tell her, she will never change her thoughts about you.Her ability to love, respect, appreciate as well as value you as a person, and feel lucky that she has you,as much as you feel lucky that you have her and as much as you love and respect her.Her loyalty no matter what happens or who comes into her life, she will always love you.Her ability to love you unconditionally and stay loyal as much as you love her unconditionally.Her ability to be there for you as much as you are there for her.Her strong commitment.Her strong mentality.Her ability to stick to what she says, and her ability to never switch her mindset or thoughts.Her presence at your most difficult times.Her ability to work things out when things aren’t going well.Her spirit to fight for the relationship even during difficulties and hardships as much as you are fighting for her with your whole heart and soul.Her ability to share the same interests as you, anything from music to books.Her ability to speak the same language as you do, basically to understand your world with one word.Her respect for your family and parents. If she really loves you, she should also love your family, as you owe everything to them.Her acceptance. Accepting you the way you are and never questioning it.Her hygiene.Her unique style.Her ability to embrace her style and look irrespective of other people's opinions.Her ability to be herself to the fullest with you, as you would accept her the way she is.Her passion, her dreams and her life plans.‘’Looks attract the eye, but personality captures the heart’’.
Why are black guys much more romantic than white guys?
As an Afro-American, I'm inclined to believe that romance isn't a ethnic or racial cornerstone. However; I know for a fact that Afro-American men are very passionate, particular those who are in love! A man in love; is a man who knows no boundaries to express his feelings; bad and the good ones. In as much; romance is the art of imaginative seduction. Inspired to let the other know how important they are and adored. Yes we are romantic; but I don't believe we have the cornerstone.
Why don't women fall in love with guys who really care for them?
Read this carefully. It might answer your question.A guy I knew from high school happened to be a “nice guy”. I never was interested in him but did believe he would land a girl just as sweet as him someday. He was so sweet. He and I would talk occasionally. He seemed like an approachable guy who wouldn’t behave like a butt hole like some others I knew. He would help out people a lot and was kind. Sometimes I would think how someone like him could be single. He wasn’t a go-getter type when it comes to girls.This guy never showed any interest in me and went on to date some girls in college. We did not get to meet face-to-face after high school. I once noticed him grinning when a bunch of his friends they made misogynistic jokes on my girl friends. Soon after college, he texted me once and showed interest in me. I was shocked. I never really saw him as anything more than a nice friend. That was all. But alas!I had to respond whether I accepted his advances or not. I rejected him. I was asked for a reason. I told him that I only saw him as a nice friend. He was heart-broken (I believe). He asked me again and again. I denied him each time. Then he asked me the reason as well. I told him with full honesty that I did not like him that way. He once texted me. “The girls; they all tell me that I am a very nice guy.” I was like, “Me too. But that doesn't make me attracted to you romantically.” He is still waiting for me to say yes, even after I specifically told him that I wasn’t interested in him.Did you guys notice it? Did you notice why I outright denied this nice guy?There was the misogynistic take. Any guy, not matter how sweet, if he is misogynistic on the inside, there’s no point.He kept using his sweetness to get me. I don’t like guys just because they are sweet. I have certain criteria which guys need to fit if they want me to perceive them as attractive guys. Some of which include a passion to travel, not being a chauvinist and admit mistakes when he’s wrong, not blindly following someone when he knows they are wrong, chivalry and similar interests as me. He didn’t fit all the categories.Just because you’re a nice guy, doesn’t mean that girls should feel lucky if you like them. Being sweet is a good thing. But if that’s all you’ve got, then your pool of selection will be limited. There is more to life than just sweetness.
Wife doesn't show affection?
I see my friends with their wives holding hands, hugging and kissing, enjoying going out together etc.. and I want to be able to do these things with my wife. But if I try to give her a hug, she says I'm just trying to "touch her up", If I kiss her she say's that I'm after sex, If I hold try and hold her hand she say's I'm trying to control her. She was never like this before we married (we've been married for 8 months now) sex used to be great and now is just awkward. When we do make love, once in a blue moon, she shows no interest and has a look that says "be as quick as you can". I tell her everyday that I love her, I buy her gifts, surprise her with flowers and romantic nights out, as well as attempting to do romantic things at home such as running her a bath and cooking a romantic meal with candles and such .. but nothing Every time I try to talk to her about these things she either changes the subject or turns in to a argument. I don't want to argue with her I just want to be able to show her that I do love her and be shown that she's loves me to. I put on a bit of weight since we were married, and I thought that maybe it was this, as before our wedding, and for a couple of months after everything was fine, so I started going to the gym I'm now in better condition then I was before we were married but this doesn't seem to have changed anything either. I'm at a loss of what to do now, I can't speak to friends about this because I don't want them thinking I'm a failure as a man. Sometimes I feel as though she doesn't love me at all, but then she says she does. But if she does then why doesn't she show me any affection. I suggested that we go to marriage counseling but she said that it was a waste of time because our marriage is fine the way it it - which it's not obviously I have never been unfaithful. We don't have any money worries (I work full time, she's basically a housewife). We don't have children. My wife wants for nothing. But despite all this, she never shows me any affection towards me We're both 23 but we've been together since we were 17. I've quite smoking, drinking and I rarely go out with my friends. What else can I try / change (about myself) to get her to show that she loves me again?
Why are so many gay men into feminine looking men?
I like my masculine men. They're simply gorgeous. :D
To all WOMEN what do you seek in a man?
For personality, I look to see if he's faithful, respectful, considerate, passionate, caring, romantic, patient, calm and accepts me for who I am. He has to be employed and educated and I say this because it shows how much he cares about his future, his work ethics and goals in life. Also, I don't want someone who's so caught up in his own life and too self absorbed that he won't have time for me. And I like guys who cook and help around the house. Laziness is a turn off. I'm not too particular about apperance however I'm not into those really baggy pants that sag really low, or guys who wear big flashy jewelry..Those are definitely a turn off. And of course I would prefer someone who's healthy. That's pretty much all I can think of for now.