Why do some feminists use the "keep it in your pants" argument when MRAs whine?
Correct me if things have changed during my extended period of celibacy, but last time I checked, it took TWO people to create a baby. Rape aside (though that IS an important issue), aren't women just as responsible? And wouldn't "just keep your legs closed" be an argument anti-abortion types would use? Is that so different? Is there an assumption, even among "sexually liberated women" that men are really responsible for sex and women should have every means of dealing with the consequences of men's wanton lust? For the record: I think the options men have vs. women are unfair but it would be FAR WORSE if a. men could force women to undergo an unwanted medical procedure, or b. more children lived in poverty without any legal recourse. (That's why I call it "whining" on the MRA's part. Complaining about things when there is no solution that would be an improvement.) But the "keep it zipped" and "keep it in your pants" arguments really smack of sexism and hypocrisy.
Do guys hate to argue with girls?
we avoid arguing with girls becz we r afraid that we might lose our anger and start calling names n then we'll upset the girl. so we stay away from arguing with girls. so just try not to start an argument. everything else is fine.
Has there ever been a fight between two girls/women to keep you as their boyfriend?
I was not anybody's boyfriend at that time but I was fought over by two girls back then when I was in school.I have always been a nice guy, and I am friendly. I'd like to see myself as at least adequate in looks department and perhaps that is what drew these two girls to me.It was my second year to be back to Jakarta after studying in China, so I was practically foreign. I also has just transferred to a new school.Both girls wanted my attention (which I gave first come first serve) and when things were heated enough there were even gang wars (both girls had their supporters and ended up segregating the class into two vicious groups that hates the other group members). It was insane and ultimately a girl-on-girl fight ensued (recorded as well) and had to be separated by the teachers.School years ended, one of the girl did not make it to the next class (her scores were too low) and she transferred. I was around 15-16 y/o at that time, they were 13-14 y/o.And no, in the end I didn't be with any of those two girls, or any girls. The one who made it to the next class becomes my bestfriend and we are still close today.
Boys vs girls???????????
My friend and I got into an argument. We are both adults, but I think girls are superior children compared to boys. So if a girl and a boy were only allowed to take I hit or kick at each other and the winner was whoever was left standing, who would win? Just assume the kids are 12 or so and the girl gets to kick first. They are both average/thin twelve year olds. I say the girl because of the boys weakness would have him on the ground crying. I do not condone fighting; especially children.
Is it okay for two straight girls to peck kiss?
It is okay to kiss anybody on the cheek. It is like a hug between close friends, especially among females. A peck kiss on the lips is a very endearing gesture such as by a spouse, maybe a parent and a child, and a date if they were very close. In dating, a hug, dance, and kiss on the cheek are okay to signify interest. But holding hands or any kissing on the lips are intimate things such as definitely too much for a first date. So it is intimate enough that if two girls gave each other a peck kiss on the lips, that would be considered bisexual or gay. If a girl kept wanting to peck kiss you on the lips, you can turn your cheek and say with a smile almost giggling, "Please Suzie, on the cheek, people might think I'm gay." You could then tell her she is still your best friend then kiss her cheek. If she is straight and it was an innocent act, she will blush and apologize perhaps saying she did not mean anything by it. If she is bisexual or gay, she will accept the rejection and stop or she will argue her point, which will be a clear signal to you that her motives were in no way innocent and she still wants you to be her lover, regardless of your feelings about her or homosexuality in general. She might argue that it is not actually being bisexual or gay to her because you girls are not actually engaging in sex, which is somewhat true, but under that argument she could make out with you throughout the bus ride to and from school, in your lunch hour, at the movie, and in her bedroom, remove all your clothes, kiss and caress most of your body, and still claim you and her are not bisexual or gay. But to everybody else, you would be considered bisexual or gay as they have no knowledge of what happens in her bedroom or yours, but know they saw you showing clearly bisexual activity in public and what happens in public gets more intense in private. Also, if she wants to include you in that activity, she should be considerate of what it means to you too. Still another argument is that intercourse is not required for sexual harrassment either. A kiss on the lips is considered sexual harrassment because it is an intimate activity that is often the first action in foreplay.
How do I stop my 9-year-old daughter from arguing with me the way she wants?
Hahaha…this is just the beginning! I'm myself a father of two girls aged 11 and 16 and these arguments make every day, the day it is.Well, to your question, my suggestion would be to avoid confrontation directly at that very moment. Listen what the young lady has to say, and what is the background in which she is heading up to argue.Try to react like a friend to her rather than a parent, and think how would this argument benefit her or you.If you feel that there is something grossly wrong and your intervention is needed, don't argue. Just be clear and firm. Less words with firmness and assertiveness would help. But make sure to find a suitable mood and time in a short while to discuss about the topic of resentment in a cool minded manner.Happy parenting!
Have you ever seen two girls fighting? What's the reason?
Plenty of times, usually over a man. But frequently over stupid trivial shit.The last girl fight i saw involved my ex wife and a woman I had been seeing. We went to my friends party where my ex wife and her new boyfriend showed up. The woman I had been seeing was from new York City and had a new York attitude. Trashy attitude really, I don't know why I kept dating her, actually I do know but that's irrelevant. Anyways she thought she was a tough bitch” it wasn't uncommon to hear her say something dumb like “these country girls better watch out if they mess with me”.Now I'm ashamed to admit, but I kinda expected my ex to be there, and I expected what happened to happen, but I wanted to see if she was tough as she talked. I knew my ex, and she is a tiny thing 5′3 110 pounds . But hell on wheels in a fist fight and Irish with the Irish temper.The woman i was seeing was a big girl 5″9 or so 175 pounds. Give or take she wasn't fat just big. So anyways my friend, my exes new boyfriend, and myself were drinking, joking and getting along.When my date said the wrong thing i wasn't close enough to hear but I saw the ex throw a punch and this big tough mean city girl went down. Then the ex was on top of her. Her boyfriend and I had to pull her off the my date.To this day I don't know what started it, I am fairly sure it wasn't over me. I wasn't seriously involved with my date, and my ex had met other women I had before and since dated with no problems. We have maintained a good friendship. I'm assuming it was just the attitude the woman from new York had.
Why do girls always act so tough?
Seems like girls are much more confrontational than guys, for example the only attempted murder in the school fight here was by girl, another is two girls got into a argument and one ran, the next day the other ran. Girls here often threaten guys and try to pick fights with them, most the fights period are by girls, often Ill see friends get into fights over guys over who is more attractive filled with threats and insults all on the guys page. But they run whenever it turns out it might end up badly for them Myself and most guys usually keep to themselves until pushed, Even the guys girls have got to argue with me tend to be a little intelligent than girls and unless you make a idiot out of yourself they don't see a point to get into a fight with you. It seems to me that girls always run their mouths and always run if they might lose when it comes down it yet guys are generally the opposite