How can I stop being so sensitive?
Usually when criticism effects you so negatively it can be traced to a low self-esteem. I love how you worded this...you realize its your weakness...so many people would blame others. Find some things you ARE good at and spend your time doing them or improving skills you are proud of. Take a college class if you are old enough. When someone says something negative, try to seperate whether its personal (negative about you) or just negative in general. A lot of people are just flat out negative and do not realize how they sound to others. Do not feel too awful about being sensitive. The world needs more sensitive people...so try turning it to you advantage by developing empathy for others and being sensitive to their needs.
I'm so sensitive and get sad easily. What can I do to stop caring this much?
Thank you for opening up.I will answer you in clear, simple and better form.Firstly, everyone is sensitive but we are sensitive to different things.Getting sad is a part of life and that makes us human, remember you are not a robot or a messenger bot.That side about you is normal.Now let's talk about the game.Most people like me loves to offer help and even if it's not in my reach I always recommend someone who I know is better with that query.How imagin this: you offered a help to someone online where everyone else can learn but you had no time to visit your inbox and respond to the requests there. One day a folk who asked you a question privately saw your response on a social platform and gets angry.He talks you down and say you are partial.Certainly because you are a sensitive person such responses will get you sad.One way to crush things before is crashes you is to take 21 days of your life and say ‘no’ to every request someone asks you for.Even if you will do it, do not say ‘yes’.By doing so you are building your own own opinion and standards. You are learning to be responsible for anything you do.Do not feel bad when you get some responses.Some are actually a trap to hold you back.You can't stop caring, that is one purpose of mankind.How the benediction.You train your self not to carw so much. Don't carry worries on your shoulder like a badge of honor.Finally, learn to give up somethings so that you can grow up.Remaining stunted at your growth is not psychologically healthy.Always feel happy and happy and happy and happy.While reading this ask yourself “is anything really worth my joy?”Then walk to the mirror and say this“I choose to be a happy person”“No circumstances will detar my happiness”“I will never be the same again”.Happy you!Remember that #You_matter.I dab.
Why is everyone so sensitive and easily offended nowadays, especially when it comes to race, gender, and politics?
Because it makes them a “victim.” And people figured out if they can play victim, they get special treatment. And if they cry loud enough, long enough and hard enough, they soon become untouchable because no one dares to correct them out of fear. Then they have it made…and others follow suit because they see the power it will give them.It's rarely for noble, humanitarian reasons. It is almost always self-serving. Being “offended” is a subjective feeling and a choice. And I just don't buy into all this “I'm offended” crap that is so ubiquitous in America these days. Most of being “offended” is a personal decision one makes in their mind.I would be embarrassed to go in public if I whined and cried about some of the riddiculous stuff people fuss over these days. Seriously, grow up. We are supposed to be adults but it seems like society is stuck in the 1st grade.Like my drill instructor used to tell us in basic training - “suck it up butter cup. Strap a set on and move on.” Wiser words were never spoken.
How do I stop being a sensitive guy?
the only thing i could i could say is to go out with a few mates..... because i used to be a little like that.... so go out with a few mates to a club or just out and try approching girls as many as possible and tyr and get there numbers... the more you get turned down the more you will man up to being turned down... you dont have to change yourself... because I would never used to speak to anyone who was a girl it used to scare me, and now i can chat to them.... I have always been cheeky and a great mate to everyone close... i just have realise there is a lot more to life.... i to am also 21 been through a bit in life but never put myself first and have always been like this... even when i was diagnosed with having cancer people still rang me up with relationship issue's at 2 in the morning and other things.... lol... but you have to realise you wont change unless you are not showing yourself.... dont get upset in life because in life there is always someone worse of then urself and remeber this when you are a little down and you be able to get your hopes up again.....
How to stop being sensitive to jokes?
So I'm a 19yr old very goofy and sarcastic guy. I have a close group of 4 friends who I met all individually and we all ended up being great friends together. When I first met them individually, we would crack jokes on each other (sarcastic insults) and go back and forth all the time and had a great time. Now, when we all hang out together, everyone pretty much gangs up on me and jokes on me. I sort of feel like I'm being singled out and targeted. I've talked to 2 individually about this and they all say that they're just joking and I need to stop taking it so seriously ... but I still do. The thing is, I still have a great time with all of them individually, but just in a group I hate being the scapegoat. I know they're just joking, I just need to be able to realize that they aren't targeting me, they're just kidding. Any suggestions as to how I can stop taking everything so seriously and feeling hurt?
How can I stop being so sensitive and emotionally weak?
I usually found sensitive people emotionally strong. Being sensitive is a great gift in life. Life becomes richer and more meaningful if we see more and if we understand more. By being emphatic, we can deeply connect to others and we have a much better overview over the human world.Unfortunately what is considered “emotionally strong” is quite often a bit the amount of a$$holiness. But this is false. The willingness to brush over the emotions of others and even to inflict pain usually stems from conflicting and shut down emotions. This can be observed by many of the insensitive “emotionally strong” not being able to decide.Of course it happens quite often, psychopaths and narcissist rise to the top and are quite often the big boss. And clearly, their willingness to abuse and exploit gives them a great strength and some sort of invincibility. But look more closely and you will find striking similarities with either toddlers or machines.if you feel limited and your independence crushed by others, you possibly need to look for another group. If you have the feeling, you are not allowed to voice your emotions, try it. Start with positive ones, this is less obstrusive and will give you much more leeway with others and thus less pushback. Once you feel firm with positive emotion communication start with going into neutral and even further into negative ones.