How can one take advantage of being young?
Taking advantage of your youth, well you can do the following. 1. Study hard and have a strong foundation for the future. 2. Play hard since your energy level will help you. 3. Do things you like without the fear of failure. Since you don't have too many people to support you can do this now. 4. travel if you can afford. See places and people. 5.Be kind to others. Get a good name and try to be different from other brash youngsters.
Why do people take advantage of good and kind people?
Because they lack a spine. The kind of people who can’t raise voice against anything wrong happening.You constantly feel that you’re being taken for a ride by your boss, friends, girlfriend/boyfriend, and basically most of the people in your life. Is it their fault or yours? The answer is—yours. There are some reasons why people take you for granted.You are non-confrontational. You hate conflict. They know you will never address an issue even if it bothers you.You cannot refuse people. You just cannot say no. It kills you to decline requests. They know they can keep asking you for undue favours and you will always oblige.You’re usually the one with no opinion. If you’re always ‘okay’ with any plan, if you rarely voice your wishes or dislikes, it is understandable why people take you for granted.You are always seeking approval for your actions. You send out a message that you cannot function without people’s opinions and that’s exactly when people start to feel that they can control you.You’re indecisive. You can never make up your mind about anything. And the moment you show the world you don’t know what you want, they start taking you for a ride.You’re never the one to raise his voice against things you don’t approve of. People know you’re too shy (read scared) to stand up even for yourself and that gives them the liberty to wrong you every time. If you don’t raise your voice against being taken for granted once, it will happen again. Always.You give people too much importance too soon. You go out of your way to help them when they don’t even need it; you give away exclusivity at the drop of a hat.You’re always trying to please people and truth be told, nobody respects a people pleaser. Even when someone does take you for granted, you let it pass instead of putting your foot down and talking about it because you always want to be in everybody’s good books. Stop fearing disapproval.You have low self-confidence. It looks like you’re keeping shut about it because you’re not sure about it.You’re too easy a person. While it is a great trait to be adjusting, you make yourself look like a doormat. Know how to be adjusting and yet firm.Give importance to yourself. Appreciate your existence. Appreciate your identity. If you don’t give importance to yourself, how can you expect others to do so? And the most important thing here is—Learn to say ‘No’.
How come people take advantage of nice people??
a part of it is they are misinterpreting the "nice" as being weak. They presume - incorrectly sometimes, that they are more interested in continuing to be perceived as nice than to guard their own flank & that they can be taken advantage of. sometimes, all you can do it cut them off.
Would you take advantage of a girl that likes you even if you didn't really like her?
advantage as in? saying "I love you" just to bring her to bed? No i wouldnt do it but I would try to let her accept the idea that she has 2 possibilities: 1 - forget about me and/or enjoy the sight of me falling in love for real with somebody else. 2 - get out the best she can from me and agree to get laid. after all, miracle happnes, maybe she's so good I'll fall in love like never before. how does it sound? put it like that, she wont be able to choose anything but option 2 ;-). conscience is clear.. it was her call, go for it.