How to talk to your crush for the first time?
ok so it's my senior year and I have never had a serious relationship. I am interested In this guy in my grade. We share the same interest such as hockey. He plays hockey and I also do. I like the fact that he is cute, mysterious and not a popular guy. The biggest problem is that we are both very shy and do not talk a lot. I was thinking of maybe sending him a facebook message saying "hey" but i'm scared lol. Should I just keep smiling at him in the halls or talk to him on facebook?
How do you talk to your crush for the first time?
Almost the exact same situation here! Except I'm a sophomore, him a senior. Okay. So I guess you're just going to have to step out and say something. It's a lot easier than you'd think. Do you guys have lots of classes together? Does he wear t-shirts with his favorite band on it? Check out the band and the next time he wears the shirt, make a comment about a song you genuinely liked. Once you've talked to him once, it's not as bad the second time. Ignore the butterflies, take a deep breath, and talk! Good luck!
Should I talk to him first?
I REALLY like this guy. He tried talking to me all the time last year when I first met him but at that time I was already interested in someone else and turned him down. It s been about a year since then. He s always been nice to me and he s told my friends that he thinks I m cute and likes my stuff on social media. I was at a party with him this weekend, and I saw him for the first time in a while. He talked to me and sat by me the entire time. I really want to talk to him again, but I don t know if I should make the first move. He s not on social media a ton either, & I never see him at school. Should I snapchat/text him first, and what should I say? I think he s perfect and I really wanna talk to him more. Please help!
How do I to talk to a cute guy for the first time?
Disclaimer: I don’t know jack about anything and am probably not qualified to give any advice of any kind about anything. This answer makes me sound like an enormous ass and you probably shouldn’t read it, but I already wrote it and I put in effort, so if I just delete it I’ll feel like I wasted my time. (Which I did.) All of this is from my perspective and life experience.First, don’t just barge in. People in general would rather be with people they know than people they don’t. There’s a reason the trope of “girls/guys always move in packs and you can never isolate them” exists, and that’s because it’s a thing that happens in real life. If some rando came up to me and started to talk to me for the first time while I was with friends I’d say “Yeah cool have fun with that” and look for an exit to go back to dicking around, because I’m an enormous asshat.Wait for them to be not in a gigantic pack, preferably in a quieter and brightly-lit environment, because people tend to associate others with their surroundings when they met them. That is, if you met in a library, they’d think “oh he/she’s intellectual” as an immediate response, before they know anything about you. On the flip side, if you approach them at a bar or club (or school dance I don’t know your age) they’d think, “oh he/she’s a massive partier and/or (expletive).”It sounds like you’re interested in this guy, so definitely approach him in a room/area with bright but soft light, while he’s isolated or only with one or maybe two people. From there, start with a classic “Hi/Hey/Hello,” followed with a firm handshake. I mean firm, not some wimpy little jelly crap. For me personally, when I meet some jelly-hands person, I immediately just sort of disregard them and think “OK maybe the next one.”That’s sort of as far as I can get you on the information I have, which is not. I guess basic really obvious stuff, like listen more than you talk, ask questions, and sympathize.More than anything though, try to be yourself more than fake. I know asking you to do everything above and be yourself may be impossible, and being 100% authentic is just sort of impossible, so try to hit a spot where you’re 70–80% real, and keep fakeness to a minimum.If he doesn’t like you though, deal with it. There are plenty of cute guys out there.
How would you talk to a guy you are seeing for the first time?
It all depends on your personality and mind set. Example.. if you are jolly and like to make friends.. you don't think of first time or second time.. you start introducing and make friend.. If you are introvert and you may not try to talk and avoid..To the question How??? Never interpret that person... just go and talk. What we do is.. we think if that person if good or bad by look... if he seems good we talk and seems bad we hesitate.. want to talk just talk.. what you lose... if he does not talk you don't lose anything..if he talks then you will get a new friend.... My Opinion...
What does it feel like to talk to your crush for the first time?
Huh! It's a mixed feeling.Feelings of anxiety,nervousness along with immense happiness. You feel butterflies in your stomach. At first there is a battle between what to say and what not to say. You are so cautious not to say anything stupid. You wish to express all your feelings about him. You think of all the romantic scenes from the movies and novels which you have read so far. You wish to make him aware of much important he is for you. But you end up beating the bush and asking questions like 'how are you' and all that. But yes when you start getting positive and fast responses, you feel like it's an achievement and you can have a future with him. You become optimistic and it becomes an encouragement for you to make further conversations with him.Really, it is one of the best feelings.
GUY HELP:) Talking to my crush for the first time.,,?
It started on Facebook and he gave me a date or pass, and rate , he said date & 9 And I messaged him my number, that was like 3 weeks ago, since then we text every night for 3-4 hours, but we've never actually talked in person and I'm meeting up with him next week, he already told me he likes me, and I told him the same thing, Ive also been told he's really shy in person, so I don't want it to be awkward, but I don't want to seem creepy, any tips on how I should approach/talk to him for the first time (we are both 13) Anything is helpful:)