I'm too shy to talk to the girl I like?
There is this shy girl who goes to my school and I really like her but I find it so hard to even talk to her. She makes me more nervous than I ever been, and I'm actually a confident type of guy except when it comes up to her. I'm the complete opposite, I'm very shy whenever I see her and I can't push myself to talk to her. I have picked up on countless signs that she likes me. Like I catch her (and even her best friend) looking at me a lot or that she gets nervous when I'm around her. I catch her looking at me everyday and I have noticed that she tries to be around me. If I were to talk to her I just really mess up with my words and stutter way too much... I have barely even talked to her, and it's even hard to say hi to her. She is also pretty shy, so I think it would be harder for her to talk to me. I'm pretty inexperienced, and I think she is inexperienced too. I don't know why I get way too shy for the girl I like. Another problem is that she is always with her friends so that makes it even harder for me. The only time when she is by herself is when she is passing by me, but I even get too shy to say hi to her. I have a really strong feeling that she does like me back, but it's really hard for me to talk to her or even to say hi. I think she will love it if I talk to her and say hi to her but I just can't make myself talk to her... Why is it so hard for me to talk to the girl I like? What can I do about this?
How do I get used to talking to the girl I like?
It's easy and hard. But the good part is that it's damn easy to get used to engage conversation with the girl you like if you're really willing to do.You need to strictly follow these points to feel comfortable with your girl.Self confidenceCharmPersonalityInteresting topicEye contactSelf confidenceYou need to be confident while talking to the girl you like. Or else she's gonna put you in “introvert guys” list. Girls don't give rats butt if you ain't confident.CharmGet something on you which attracts and holds her near you. Does she like tattoo? Get a temporary one for now. Does she like piercing? Get yourself a magnetic stud. Smile and smirk. Keep your teeth sparkling white. Don't wear gallons of perfume. Wear shoes that describes you (I suggest blue jeans + slim fit white tshirt + black sneakers).PersonalityWear descent attire and make sure you ain't funky to its limit. Wear something that gives you confidence. A tight vest can boost confidence as per recent studies from Utah University.Interesting TopicFind a topic to start conversation with your girl which has head and the entire body. Topic which actually makes sense. Topic which describes your mentality. Topic which holds her to her ground. And yeah talk about something that she knows so that she can make herself into the conversation. Don't talk about yourself too much, instead be like a puzzle and let her solve you. By this, she will think of you when she'll be alone and that would be your first step into her heart.Eye contactForemost point and the most important. Maintain eye contact with your girl while talking to her. Girls are walking X-Ray machine of emotions and nature. Look straight down to her eyes and talk. This will make her believe that you're info her and ultimately try to make you maintain eye contact when you look away. But remember one thing, Look at her in the way that she adjusts her hairs, not her top. Respect her and she will find you interesting and she will be someone with whom you're gonna comfortable with.All the best pal! Cheers! :)
How do I talk to a girl I like?
So, there's a girl at my school that I really like, but I don't talk to her much because she is outside of my friendgroup. I want to go over to talk to her, but I don't want to seem weird, and I don't want my friends to think I'm abandoning them. I also don't share any classes with her and don't know her social medias
How to talk to the girl you like/crush?
thats exactly like me. what i find best, is to walk up to them and just say a friendly 'hey' with a smile. they should say hi back and just start the convo with something like 'how are you doing?' then the convosation should start. ask her about interests, what shes doing etc etc. dont ask too many questions. be nice and caring. laugh to her jokes, even if they arnt funny, trust me. tease her, but not to much. dont start conversations with her ALL the time, because they could get annoyed. at the end of hanging out with her, hug her. trust me, i hug every girl i talk to just about. its easy, just put your hands out to hug her. if she rejects it, just say 'hahaha thats algood'. remember the smile!! smiles are really important mate. when you're ready to ask her out, plan something e.g. movies. this is how i got my girlfriend. i took her to see a romantic movie (titanic 3d) and she was crying so i put my arms around her and she looked at me and smiled. when the romantic bit comes up, say something cheesy like 'i dont want things to get awkward between us, but you're beautiful. i love you so much.' do NOT just say 'wana go out'. just let her know you like her then wait.. wow ive written alot
How do I talk to this girl I like in high school?
I am a sophomore in high school and there is this freshmen girl that I like a lot. I am kind of a shy person until I get to know someone. I have had girlfriends before and have talked to other girls and gotten to know them well. She is very pretty and I think a lot of girls are pretty, but there is something different about her. Everytime I see her I just can't seem to get her out of my mind ( I know it sounded stalkerish but it's not like that lol). We have no classes together but I see her everyday in the hallway and at lunch. Whenever I walk pass her in the hallway, i notice her staring at me. I don't know if that's a sign or what. I see her at lunch in line buying her lunch everyday and that's usually when I try to work up the courage to talk to her. Everday I tell myself I am going to talk her because there is nothing that I want more than to talk to her. The only problem is that she is always with someone. I think I have seen her alone maybe once this entire school year. I sometimes see her at basketball games but again she is always in a crowd of other girls most of whom I don't know. I don't how to approach her can someone please give me some advice on how to talk to her and what to say. I don't want to regret not taking to her and wondering what could have been.
I'm a pussy how do I talk to a girl that I like?
(Sorry it's so long, don't have to read if you don't want) Okay so there's this Russian girl that I liked ever since the first time I saw her when I was a freshmen in high school and now were going to be seniors in September so next year is my last chance to try to talk to her. I've never ever talked to her ever, I've only had one class with her every year. It's not that I don't know how to talk to girls that's easy but whenever she's around I get so nervous, I almost shi+ myself. She's just so goddamn perfect, I know she has never had a boyfriend, and she is like the biggest goody two shoes ever which turns me on and she's like super shy, and I mean SUPER SHY she like never talks in class well sometimes she does to only like one girl, and we all had to do a presentation in front of the whole class and she looked like she was about to shi+ herself when she was doing hers, it's like really obvious to tell when she's nervous which is like all the time except when she's talking to her little group of friends at lunch. I saw her at the mall one day and she saw me it completely caught me by surprise, she look at me and did a little smile, and I was like Holy F***, does that mean she likes me? She smiles at me sometimes at school like in the hallways or at lunch. One time at lunch I was walking past her and she was talking to her friend and she looked at me and said to her friend ,"Oh my God that's him!" I don't know if she was talking about me but that would've been awesome if she was. Oh and one time I went down to Tonga to visit family with my mom because I'm Tongan and I got like a super tan, and when I came back to school it was like the most attention I've ever got ever. Everyone in all my classes were like "what the hell happened to you you sick freak!" But the girl I liked kept looking directly at me and smiling, and that's all I cared about, does that mean she likes me? Ever since the first time I saw her as a freshmen I kept saying it's just a crush I forget about her eventually but it's been three years and I still can't get her out my head, I think I'll probably die if she doesn't like me. I only get nervous around her, and the only way I get unnervous is to get high but I can't approach her high because she hates potheads, so what the flipping f*** do I do guys?
I like this girl but im shy to go up to her and talk to her ?
i like this girl but im so shy cuz i dont even knoe her ..so i knoe its not a good idead just to ask her out ..i knoe i first have get to knoe her....but i really get nervous when i see her...i always tell myself ima go up to her no matter what! but when the day comes and i see her my body freezes and i dont talk to her and i get disapointed with myself ....its like everyday a waste of a rose cuz by my school theres alot of roses and i always grab one to give it to her ..but like i said my body freezes and i dont do nothing!! does anybody think roses are nice? ....but yeah i need help with this dumb problem of mine!!!