Why are you an unhappy person?
Rough childhood> abused No one understands me The world is a fuc**d up place Family is seperated Too many disorders And I'm only 14 Self harm /).(\
What do you do when you are unhappy with yourself?
First, I either go out or talk - old acquaintances, taxi drivers, on any topic. That usually gives me a break. Going back, I both have a clearer mind and also more energy.Next, I breakdown the problem. If it’s a practical one, I immediately start setting goals and making to-do lists (e.g. disappointment in professional life - how to increase efficiency, better communication, time management). However, if what is causing me unhappiness is the situation around me and I am emotionally distressed, I vent my feelings by writing it down. It gives you a better understanding of why you feel unhappy, and only by knowing that can you figure a way to fix it.We are never in an impossible situation. Just the knowledge that we are not powerless means that something can be done. The situation may not resolve immediately, but persevere! Always remember “this will pass too”. The good, the bad, and the unbearable.
Are you in an unhappy marriage?
No, not now. I was in a very unhappy first marriage for nineteen years. He was manic depressive bipolar with a good amount of him being sadistic.He committed suicide two days after he threatened to kill all of us (me, kids, dog, cat & bird). I got us all out.It was scary to deal with. He was facing assault charges for the last time he had beat me up. I was informed by the hospital that I would die if I was beaten again.In the history of this man’s family there had never been a divorce; just a bunch of accidental deaths. Including my friend who was married to his cousin. She was “accidentally shot in the back of the head” inside her house.I married a second time to a man who was 14 years my senior. We had a wonderful marriage. I knew that I would probably out live him. He passed away at 80 earlier this year after a 19 day fight with stage four non small cell carcinoma. We came home under hospice and I was his primary care giver for everything. He slipped into a coma and passed 24 hours later. He got to leave this life under his own terms. The last thing that he mouthed to me was “Love YOU” so I know I did the right thing.
Husband says he is unhappy in marriage?
My husband and I have been married over seven years. We have been arguing for the past week and over the weekend he tells me he has been unhappy in our marriage for the past two years. Why is he just saying this now--after two years? And why would he stay in a relationship for so long when he is so unhappy? He is NOT cheating--I KNOW this is not the case. But how do I move forward? Do I stay in the relationship and a--hope he gets happy with it or b--decides he is still unhappy after two more years and leaves then? I am happy in this marriage (my second-his first) and love him with all of my heart. We don't have any children and I am torn with what to do here? Do I tell him to leave? Stay and work on it? How can I know he's truly happy if it has taken him two years to voice it now?
What is something that you are unhappy about?
This:It's all the burglars left me.They broke in through a back window and took their time in my house. They stole everything of value. They took sentimental things. They took my computer with every picture I've ever taken. They took cash. They even took my toilet paper.My life is in shambles again.It's time to dig in and start over one more time.
Can you be unhappy in your marriage, but still love your spouse?
Absolutely! You love your spouse on a multitude of levels! The biggest part of that love is their friendship. Your best friends, confidantes, lovers,PARTNERS!. Perhaps if your not happy in “the marriage” it's because some other aspect of your marriage is leaving you… unfulfilled? Are you friends, but not lovers? Lovers but never talk? More like roommates sharing a space? You share responsibilities but hardly interact as a romantic couple? All common problems faced by millions! Here's the reason. A RELATIONSHIP IS CONSTANT WORK. That's not to say it's impossible or miserable. It just means “we” as people get to comfortable. We become complacent. Of course things loose the spice! It's up to us to remember why we choose this person to begin with. How we felt when we knew they were coming over…How much pride we would take in out appearance if we were going to go out…All the little things we would do to “woe” them in the first place! (Which often seems like false advertising). If you love them, communication is key! Talk to them! They may very well be feeling the same way! You might be able to come up with a remedy that will not only fix your issues ,but strengthen your marriage.
Poll: Would you rather be rich and unhappy OR poor and happy?
im already poor and unhappy so im good with rich and unhappy :D haha
Why do you think the colonists were unhappy with the fact that their judges' salaries were paid by the king?
The judges worked for the king of england. And since they worked for him, they had to do comply with his wishes. This would have been disconcerting for the colonists who were just looking to be left alone and not have to abide by the wishes of some guy a few thousand miles away.