Why do guys flirt with girls, when they already have a girlfriend?
This guy that I've always had a distant crush on (but never really spoke to until a few weeks ago), approached me after a conversation - told me he had a girlfriend, but wanted to let me know he thought I was beautiful. The next time I saw him, he kept flirting with me, and told me he liked me. Although everytime I look into his eyes, I wanna melt, I know I can't purse him, and I have to leave it as a crush. I don't know the situation of his relationship, but if a guy who admits to having a girlfriend, continues to flirt and say these things to another girl, what's the reasoning behind it?
GUYS: do u guys get jealous wen ur crush flirts/talks to another guy? wats inside a guys mind? more info.?
i want to kno about jealousy. my guy crush is just.. mysterious. im not sure how he feels. i talk to my best guy friend but a lot of people think wer going out wen wer not. i hav no intention to make him jealous coz i feel bad wen i do it. wats inside a guys mind? i really want to kno. so i kno wats the right and wrong thing to do. wat do u hate about girls? like about girls?
I'm jealous of my girl friend who flirts with my crush?
i know where you're coming from, and frankly..after lots of similar experiences, i've learned to just deal with it my own way. instead of feeling jealous, you should feel thrilled that your soon to be bf is wanted by other girls (even the taken ones!) instead of being shy, why dont you just go ahead and tell him you like him? if you still want to sit back and watch your friend get her flirt-on, then dont do anything. it really comes down to how much you're willing to work for this guy. if you dont do anything, then he's not for you. your friend is just being friendly..most girls don't know when they are flirting. if it bothers you so much, pull her aside and let her know your situation and get her to back off until you have the courage to make your move. that way, she'll be outta your way and it'll be a clear path to your crush. Good Luck!
Is it normal to feel jealous whenever your crush talks to other girls?
I'll take this straight to the point. My crush and I talk more often but small talk. He talks to a lot of other girls but he doesn't seem to be a player. Last crush I had, I never felt jealous if he or his sis mentioned some girl who flirted with him. Now, I wanna kick every girls *** who talks to my current crush. I don't know if my current crush likes me, I'm way too afraid to ask. And everytime I imagine him with my best friend, I wanna cry. Is this werid? I mean I hear jealousy is normal but still. Only serious answers please.
How do I know if this girl has a crush on me?
Girls are smart. They will never ever let you know that they have a crush on you. NEVER.And if she wants you to know than also she will never come and confess ‘Hii Xyz, I really like you’This is not at all gonna happen. Girls are usually of this kind of attitude ‘Why would I take an initiative.?’ ‘I don't want to look desperate’ etc etcBut here is a catch. If a girl really likes you her actions are going to prove that.If you guys are friends- you will observe from her conversations that she likes you. She will try to know about your crush. Will tease you other girls name. (just to know if you are really interested in some other girls!)Girls get a feel when a guy likes her, so if she is getting that FEEL than she will urge you to that extent that you will yourself confess. Maybe by talking about some other guy who liked her or a guy whom she adores.She will try her best to help you out.She will be your true friend. You can share everything with her without fearing anything. She will support you.If you both are not friend - carefully see her gang of girls and how they react when you are there. You will get a hint.There are some girls out there who will confess about their feelings. In case you are lucky xDBest option -If you have the similar feelings then confess her. Believe me, girls do show that they don't care if a guy have a crush on her but she does think about that guy. (if you are genuine and not a playboy.)Asking a girl Is the best option. We get to hear that Xyz likes you but come on at least ask us maybe we like you too.And if you don't like her then what's the fun of knowing her feelings.What girls most appreciate is effort. If you are a genuine guy then do approach her and let her know your feelings. She might have the same.Above all, this is not 100 percent correct but If a girl has a crush on you YOU WILL GET A GUT FEELING. AN INTUITION, IT MAY OR MAY NOT BE TRUE BUT IN MOST OF THE CASES IT IS.BELIEVE IN YOUR HEART, IT KNOWS ALL :)
What happened when you told your crush about your feelings? How did he/she react?
The day before my confession, I'd told him that there's a guy whom I like..And he was wondering who he is. He kept on guessing various names, and each time he was disappointed for his wrong guess.He asked me a lot about it, but I choose to remain silent as he had already confessed his first crush was my best friend.Entire day he kept on sending messages to me, literally begging for the guy's name.at last in the night, when I could not hold the truth within I told him like this-Him: tell me who he is. I was unable to concentrate even in class entire day. Please let me know. Me: sorry.. I cant let you know.Him: He must be some rowdy-type-of-guy. That is why you are refusing to reveal.Me: nooooo....... He is a gem, you will never find a guy like him.Him: Then who is that gem, whom a person like you can love so madly?Me: That gem is none other than you..:( I know I shouldn't have told you this, cos you already like some other girl. But I'm helpless. I love you..:( sorry..Him: You aren't kidding right?????Me: No. I'm not.Him: arre.. I want you to know what's the difference between love and like. She's beautiful, so I like her. She is my first crush. But you Know something surprising?????Me: What's that?Him: I love you too.. That's why I was restless all day, when you said you love someone. And I realized it just yesterday.And we've been happily in a relationship for four years from then..:)
Girlfriend has a crush? Should I worry?
My girlfriend admitted to having a crush on a guy friend she met a couple weeks ago, he has a big crush on her as well. They talk to each other alot and chill every now and then However she says she still loves and likes me way more than him and doesnt want to be with anybody but me. She says this crush will just go away and fade and it wont matter.. She wont cheat, But I still worry that her feelings for him will just grow stronger each time she chills with him. Am I just thinking to much? Is it normal to have a crush in a relationship? , And will it fade overtime?
A guy has a crush on my girlfriend. Should i worry?
Yes. This is exactly what happened before my girlfriend decided she "didn't feel the same anymore". Some guy she knew told her he liked her and they began to talk A LOT. At the end it was even more then she would talk to me. She still denies it has anything to do with her, but everyone I talk to pretty much agrees that it's because of him. She may not cheat with him, but it will confuse her and make her think she doesn't love you anymore. Also that guy has NO RIGHT to tell her he likes her if he knows she is already in a committed relationship. He also has NO RIGHT to talk to her so much. A little bit is ok, but all day and all night means his only intention is stealing her. Tell her that you don't him talking to her so much and see what she says. If she loves you she will say ok and stop it. If she doesn't, well now you know. Love is a powerful thing, but it is also incredibly fragile. Love is not a feeling, it's an action. You both need to make sacrifices for each other. If she can't go without talking to ONE GUY for you, then maybe she doesn't love you as much as she says.
Does my boyfriend have a crush on another girl?
Hey, I'm a 20 year old female. I've been with my boyfriend now for almost 3 years, and I love him and he says he loves me. That much hasn't changed. But recently, I think since September, he's been talking to a mutual friend of ours (who's a girl) a lot lately, mostly just through texts, and sometimes he won't even tell me what they were talking about together. Generally he isn't a very secretive person, though he can be pretty forgetful and not think to tell me things until much later on. But mostly he won't tell me what they were talking about. I don't have the heart to go through his phone to see what he's been up to, because it shows a lot of distrust (and I think he erases all of his texts after a certain amount of time, so I couldn't if I wanted to). But it really hurts that he could be hiding something from me. We've been hanging out as a group lately (me, my boyfriend, and the girl) and going to concerts and stuff, and every time we're out together, he pays way more attention to her than to me. I understand that he might like the experience of getting to know someone else since he already knows everything about me, but he's never been like that with any other girl we're friends with, just her. Not only that, but he'll sometimes randomly mention her when we're talking about something completely irrelevant, or excitedly describe a conversation they had the other day that he never really bothered to mention before. They seem to have a lot more in common than he and I do (personal convictions, artistic/musical tastes, interests), and it's really got me worried. I've asked him once before if he had a crush on her, and not in a mean or suspicious way, just out of curiosity, and he said no (although I can't remember his exact reaction). I've had similar suspicions about him and other girls, but this case is the most worrisome because he seems to like her the most. If he does, I know it's not a physical attraction, because I think I'm better looking than her, and even then I'm not the prettiest girl in the world. I think if he had a crush on her it's probably more of an intellectual attraction. Please let me know what you think, any advice would help me a lot. I browsed other similar questions all over the internet and haven't found answers that satisfied me. Thank you
Should I tell a girl that has a boyfriend how I feel about her or not?
I’d say go ahead. Contrary to other answers, i don’t see anything wrong with a guy telling a girl in a relationship how he feels. Make it clear to her that you’re not trying to steal her away and that you respect boundaries. Don’t pressure or expect her to leave him for you. It has to be her own choice. Just let her know that you’e an option but don’t wait on her. You’ll burn out pretty quickly. Keep your options open in the meantime.Do take into account that you’re taking a risk. If you tell her how you feel and she feels the same, things could get ugly. She may be emotionally hurt that she has to pick between you or him and end the friendship. Either that or she may end it to resist the temptation to cheat. Her boyfriend might get jealous and pressure her to end her friendship with you. There’s lots of things that could compromise the friendship. She might feel awkward and not want to talk anymore.If you think it’s worth it then go for it. Wish you the best of luck.