How Would You Feel/or React To This

How would you feel or react if your partner told you she or he was leaving you for someone else who is more financially stable in life?

Well, on one hand I guess people have the right to evaluate a situation and decide what’s best for them. In life, no one is required to have to prop another person up financially. If they feel that someone not working or not having an adequate salary is going to affect their life negatively or have a negative effect on the relationship , maybe they are within their rights to hesitate. On the other hand, marriage vows include the words “for richer or poorer, in sickness and in health.” Nothing is guaranteed in life and just because someone is doing well one year doesn’t mean they will the next year or years. Someone can choose someone who on paper is successful , but later is not. In those cases if you love the person you have to hang in there and figure out ways to make things work. You shouldn’t just bail on your partner because of money.It all just depends ultimately what the relationship is worth to the person. Maybe if the person is too focused on money , it’s not a good fit in the relationship anyway and you should part ways. If someone is in a relationship solely for financial reward or gain that’s not really a loving relationship.

How should I feel or react when my husband told me he got a mistress?

You’re going to feel how you feel. Nobody can determine how you feel. They are your feelings, and yours alone. It would be normal to feel hurt, betrayed, angry, dishonored.How you react is different. It would be normal to either lash out, or freeze up upon hearing this information. However, you have a marriage. You need to figure out how to best proceed, now that the information is out in the open.Nobody can determine this for you. In previous times, mistresses were accepted, sometimes even welcomed. The husband kept his family intact. He had an outlet for sexual activities that possibly his wife wasn’t interested in. Everybody carried on living. Nowadays, many people live subject to romanticism, where everybody has a ‘soulmate’, that one person on Earth who gets them, and who they have a perfect relationship with. While there are people who have great marriages, those marriages are not based on being soulmates. They are based on love, plus multiple attributes that align their compatibility, goals, wants and desires. A lot of people are just going along to get along, doing the best they can with what life has given them.Your husband has opened up a chance to re-model your marital life plan. I suggest you work on that. Nobody can determine what will be best for you and him. That is for the two of you to work out.I would suggest that you not get family and friends involved in this intimate situation. Having everybody involved in your marriage will more than likely poison the situation, and lead to unwanted showdowns. You will be much better served by getting assistance from a neutral counselor with experience in this realm.Lots of people redefine their relationships. Give yourself a true chance to look at all aspects. You do not have to do what everybody else does, if that doesn’t suit you. Make your choice suitable and equitable to both of you.

How did you feel or react the day you quit your job?

Liberated. Fired up. A little scared..Numerous feelings. I knew it was right thing to do though.A year later, I’ve travelled across the world, and definitely wouldn’t take it back.The last job I had, i quit after around 4 months, just because I felt like I couldn’t survive in that environment any longer.It might seem strong, but I felt it.A year later, I’ve successfully started up a marketing agency, travelled to various countries, met great people who are really pushing the envelope in their fields, woken up without an alarm clock to do work that I’m actually passionate about, and most importantly I’ve grown a hell of a lot.And that’s just the start.In short, it’s been worth it. And the reasons I quit my job are even clearer to me a year in.We’ve all got one life to live… if you aren’t “feeling it” in the situation you’re in… I would take the plunge.Whats the worst that could happen?Check out my channel Henry Hien Marketing if you want to learn more about how to succeed with Facebook advertising and online Marketing in general

How do you feel or react when you see your husband with his ex-wife?

My husband was married to his first wife for 15 years and they have 3 children together. They had been divorced about 15 years when we met.About 3 months after we married, his phone rang and I answered it as he was driving.“Hi Cindy, this is Ken's new wife Sara — and We. Are. Going. To. Be. Friends.”I listened to her version of what went wrong in their marriage (and actually it matched up pretty close to his version), commiserated with her and validated her pain. Many many phone calls, tears, smiles and hugs later, we are dear friends.She lives in Colorado with my daughter in law and our 2 grandbabies. When our youngest grandson was born, Cindy and I were in attendance in the birthing room, clinging to each other and celebrating together. My husband was busy taking pictures while his daughter labored to bring our grandson into the world.Cindy built an extra bedroom on her house so we stay with them when we visit. Spring break of 2017, the 4 of them drove 800 miles to come visit us, and stayed a week. We all wept at our parting because it hurt so to say good-bye.What do I feel when I see my husband with his ex? Pure love for a dear friend, with joy and gratitude that we have all moved on to a higher level.

How do you feel or react when your coworker is constantly yawning around you?

If you have an option to join another team with different partners go for it!If you can't its ok.Even if you feel your co-worker is not putting as much effort as you are don't bother as it's not your job to judge.Remember in Corporate sectors nothing slips managements eyes.You do your part.Work hard and stay focused.Please don't let any negativity engulf you .No matter how long you have been working with them/him/her its not permanent,but if you get influenced with their work attitude it may be bad for you professional life.Try to do your best everyday and trust me you will see the results.

Teachers, how do you feel or react when a student needs educational assistance but parents refuse to help their child?

I feel angry with the parents, sad for my student and worried for them. I had this exact situation last year. I had a Year 10 English A class. Small group. At the top end were kids who needed a little extra support, I had one with an intellectual disability and the rest fell somewhere between those two points. One boy, I'll call him M, needed support but his parents would not take him to get the necessary testing. No testing equals no diagnosis. No diagnosis means we can't modify the curriculum or give him additional support or special arrangements.So he sees more capable students getting special arrangements and wonders why he doesn't qualify. He tries really hard but does not get it. I cannot tell him the truth — that his parents refuse to do what’s needed to get him help.Our head of Individual Programs has done the testing she can administer and suspects he has a severe language disorder, but with his folks refusing to take him for more there is nothing we can do. I wanted to shake his parents and give them a kick in the arse.