My husband treats me like a stranger overnight?
I am so sorry....I feel your pain. Your husband has obviously moved on, emotionally, before this event. He was just looking for an out. Unfortunately, the only thing you can do, is to maintain your self respect and leave. Or get a lawyer and start proceedings against him....make sure you protect yourself. I bet he has already seen a lawyer. Don't end up homeless. I think your husband, ending your marriage, and then staying in the house, is sick and cruel. It is unfair that he ends things and can have his cake and eat it too....while you are devastated. If he won't leave.....go out, meet new people.....make it look like you have moved on....but protect any children, if you have any. Think of them first. They shouldn't see their father and mother sleeping in separate rooms......oh.....I think your husband has probably been seeing another woman...and was looking for a reason to leave.
Why do we treat family members and strangers differently?
I know what you mean. We should always be nicer to our family but we aren't always. With strangers we don't let our guard down and show our true colors. We want to make the best possible impression. With family we do let our guard down and show our true colors. I think we are mean to are family sometimes because we know that they will forgive us no matter what. This isn't always the case with a stranger.
What are some signs that your boyfriend really loves you?
Basics signs to understand if your boyfriend loves you He will certainly make time for you without any lame excuses.He will reply to your text and call quickly or if in case he is late he will call and make you understand the reason .He will understand the insecurity of a girl and never try to act or do anything stupid to make you vulnerable.He will introduce you to his close inner group of friends and family so you can be more comfortable around .He will have eyes for you (may be few flirting incident in general) but you will always be his girl.You will be his Priority among along his work and people as he will never ignore you under the veil of space and time .He would understand the difference between Lovd and Lust. He would wait .He would ask you for the marriage first.He would treat your parents and family as his own and your friends as his own group .He would lead you in hardtimes, guide you when you will be low and stand by with you when you will be least expecting this him .Even after a long and tiring day if he is calling to ask you how was your day/ did you have your lunch etc . . Believe me he love you .He will balance things, work /time /relations with you.Instead of breaking up on small or big fights, he will sit with you, communicate and solve the issue and make things work again.You will see him with genuine smile and warmth whenever you will meet him.He would be a bit possessive ( natural in all men) as he is afraid to loose you .Your weight/skintone/ etc will not be a matter of concern to him .The best way to know if he love you is try testing him when things go south, if he is there till the end to make things rights and workable (girl don't loose him , he is a keeper).If a man is into you, he will come and get you . It is this simple.Though relation is based of true abs mutual efforts of both the individuals . Trust and respect him, if the person is genuine , he is not going to wander.Peace (Ra)
Is my boyfriend emotionally abusive, or am I sensitive?
i wouldnt take this.... he seems crazy and could have a bad fight one day and he could even try to kill u run and run fast!
Is it just a line when a guy says he will treat you like a queen?
The 'treat you like a queen' line may be just a line or may be sincere. Depends on the person. Calling you a 'dummy' may be disrespectful , or it may be a term of endearment in some circles, or it may be your position if you are playing a game of bridge. Because he is 'new', you should keep an healthy scepticism until he proves himself
My parents think I can do better than my boyfriend?
"I really don't want to instigate a problem making them feel like I've betrayed them." How the heck could you be the one instigating a problem when they refuse to accept your choice? I read this as saying you don't want to confront them on it, which is a different issue. It's also something you need to do if you want a future with this guy. He sounds like a keeper, but at some point this is going to come between the 2 of you. That's because, when you don't set boundaries about them respecting him, you're putting them ahead of him. Right now, he respects your dad, but that won't last. He'll end up resenting you for allowing your parents to be in the middle, and then this will end up as resenting your dad (and mom). However, they have a very valid point on one issue, and that's this crazy notion of living together. If you want to join the long list of younger people who sabotage promising relationships by doing this, go right ahead, but it's a terrible idea. You're not living independently, starting to plan a wedding and putting together your future - you're a student trying to escape your parents. So you may have lost some cred on that one. You need to find some middle ground, like a cheap group home type thing, where you get away from them but don't do something so silly as move in with him. If it means a part time job, then that's what you do.
How can I help my dog not be afraid of strangers?
I adopted a super sweet female (spayed) bullboxer last weekend from a local animal shelter while my sons were out of town. She never barked, was very loving, snuggly, happy, and playful. Last night my 14 year old son came home and she acted like she was scared to death of him. She barked and growled all night, and cowered in the corner with her tail between her legs. We tried having him approach slowly, feed her, pet her, and talk softly to her. Nothing worked. She continued barked, growling, and cowering in the corner. (She didn't act aggressively towards him at all though.) This morning, she started again with the barking and growling. When I adopted her my boyfriend was with me and she didn't bark or growl at him at all so I don't think it's a fear of males. I'm sure she'll get used to my son in time, but what can I do to help her get over her fear of new people? I'm afraid right now to have any company at the house for fear she will bark and growl at them too.