How should I handle this situation? One of my friends always wants to talk about sex with me even when I have told him clearly that I don’t like it.
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Friendship: How do you deal with the situation when you and your best friend don't talk to each other? Will you talk to her/him first or just wait？What about you like your friend more than she/he likes you？
Just ask yourself if the reason that you are not talking is worth it all. Do you really feel justified to your inner-self that reason for not talking is good? (I generally try telling the reason to someone else..and while telling the reason, I realize it right away if it isn;t significant)Everyone has that one friend who is irresitable and irritating at times! I generally find this situation even in my country with my girl friends.. They pick on a fight on some random thing/ situation and the cold war mounts up soo high that they dont want to see other again/ rather want the other one to come down. Honestly, if you really value you the person just go and talk it out. It is through these situations that you get to know your friend better and the bond becomes much stronger. Later, you would really hate all this time you weren't talking with your best friend!Cheers!
When I ask questions about my friend's situation, why do so many people assume that I am talking about myself?
It's such a commonly used thing that it turns into a "Boy Cries Wolf" situation. Using the "friend" thing is like a defense mechanism, and after a while people figured out that you were actually talking about yourself, not the made up "friend". But anyway, it's just that since the phrase became synonmatic with "I'm talking about myself", it's hard to get people to believe you otherwise.
How do I talk to a friend who has just lost his father? What things should I talk to him?
We are all pathetic at these issues. Because there is just nothing we can say or do to make it better. But we really want to. And we really try. And often end up embarrassed and feeling like an idiot.So here's the deal:Your friend does not expect you to 'fix' anything. Nor does he wait with baited breath for you to supply some 'answer'. And he sure doesn't want to make you suffer along with him if he really cares about you.So he may just try to look 'ok' and be silent on the subject and act like today is any other day.The best any of us can do is approach our grieving friends with a simple, 'Hey, man, I am truly sorry for your loss. Please let me know if I can help you through this.' A hug is never out of place.Then move on to something else unless your friend seems to want to talk about his dad or the situation in general. If he does, just listen. And listen some more. Make eye contact and nod now and then so he will know you are engaged. Unless you have been through the same thing, refrain from saying, 'I understand'. In fact, in most cases it is kinder to say, 'I can't imagine'. Because that is the truth. Keep in touch regularly with your friend. Suggest some normal activities. Give it time. But if you detect a real melt down that does not ease up in a few hours or signs of depression be alert and suggest grief counseling.
Me and my best friend aren't talking. Help?
So me and my best friend (For the past 5 years) got intoo a fight. A stupid one. One where I was disheartened because she always chooses other people over me. When I told her this, she said I had and attitude, and got mad. The next day I apologized. She said okay. Then since then we don't text or call eachother, we do however talk in class, but not ever outside of class. It's been a week and I miss her. I would text her but I still don't see what I said to be wrong. She can do guys's HW but never help me with mine once a year? She can talk to guys on the phone for hours but not me? I wanna cry. She like, broke my heart.
I feel like i'm competing with my best friend for the attention of my best guy friend?
hahah sounds like a funny situation. I find myself doing that too with my best guy mate and one of my best mates. She is his ex gf and they get along more. But he doesn't spend as much time with me and more with her. I know that we can all get competitive when we love someone as a real close friend and stuff. Maybe try and share him between you two? After all she is his cousin, so of course they're closer than u two. But then again, the feeling won't be the same. And if you know, maybe one day, organise something that all three of you can do together and make him sit in the middle. Don't need to worry too much, because after all, she could be jealous when he talks to you
My best friends girlfriend won't let him talk to me?
Talk to your friend. She shouldn't be picking out his friends for him. He needs to realize who has been there for him through it all and who's been hurting him this whole entire time. Talk to Nick and ask him what's going to happen to your friendship in this situation. I wish you the best, good luck! - if you need advice, email advicequicks101@gmail.com