Husband cut up my credit card and angry that I opened a bank account?!?
To begin with, before I met my husband I was HIGHLY irresponsible with my money. I bounced checks here and there and had my bank account actually charged off b/c I had no money. So, understandably, in our marriage I am aware of our finances but I don't actually handle them. I have no problem with this and my husband never lets me want for anything. Here's where it gets sticky: I've been re-building my credit since I met my husband (4 years now) and finally am at a point where it's fantastic again. I recently applied for a low-limit credit card in case of emergencies and opened my own bank account since I am not on my husbands. I was genuinely excited that after years of fixing my college mistakes that I was able to be "normal" again. But my husband surprised me by being angry! He told me that as a SAHM I did not have an income so why would I open a credit card and my own bank account? Then he asked me why I'd ordered checks to my checking account? I am almost 30 years old with two children. I know that he must be worried that I will hurt us financially but I hate that he judges me on what happened before we were married. I feel like I should have never told him about my debt b/c now I am not even supposed to have my own bank account. He took my credit card from my purse and cut it up. I feel like a child and I'm pretty upset about it. Trying to be understanding but pissed. What do I do in this situation?
I left my husband for a rich old man?
I love my husband he works so hard but we are still not financially ok. I have decided to live with a old rich man so i can help my husband and our only child. The old man needs someone to trust hence he has not close family he lives in Africa very rich I dont want to lose this opportunity. I want to use this to help my family. But the situation is affecting my husband who approved it at the beinging please guys help me out
If you ever cheated on your husband/wife, would you give them a one time hall pass?
This is a fun question. It is like boys at school, that if you did a wrong to a friend, the friend has the "right" to punch you once to get it out of their system, and you have to just stand and take it. Well, I don't know how it would work. A "one time pass" is not a fix, it is not a solution to the problem. Now, if after you have work out the problem between the two of you, and the infraction has been forgiven, you want to give him a "one time hall pass", it is actually quite civilized, if you have thought it over and think it would not jeopardize your relation, I don't see why not. But again, that should not be the token to solve the problem. Maybe just the realization that "I know what I did, and I understand the desire to have sex with someone else, so, if you think that you want to have a one night stand just to be even, and for you to experiment in the same way I did it, you have my blessing." Now, if you think you could be tempted again (yes, we know it is a hypothetical scenario), why don't you have the difficult conversation once, and decide on a set of rules under which either of you can fool around.