I absolutely hate my best friends boyfriend!?
It's obvious this guy is a complete douche. First of all, you need to tell your friend EVERYTHING. All the feelings you have about him, how he is separating you and your friend and all the bad things you know about him, hopefully, this will show her how much this is hurting you. Also, ask her why she is with him! If he is taking her from her own family then you need to say that family come before anything. If that still doesn't work maybe actually talk to her family about it. If it is causing havoc in her family ask if her mum can try and persuade to either break up with him, or at least lay down some ground rules about their relationship. If they are STILL together and making everyone sad/annoyed maybe as a last resort, tell your friends father about all the bad stuff this guy is. Fathers are generally very protective of their daughters and he of all people should be able to talk some sense in to her or give 'Bob' a stern talking to about how he is treating your friend. I hope this helped in some way :)
I absolutely HATE my ex boyfriend!?
I know how you feel. I was in almost the exact same situation 2 years ago. But seriously you have to forget about him. He's not worth it! Do you want to look back 2 years from now like I do and think, wow, did I really let that jerk get to me like that? You could be having so much fun but instead you're worried about this guy that is barely a human being. He doesn't deserve another 1/2 second of your time so don't let him have it. Don't keep giving him more and more of yourself when he doesn't even deserve any of it. It will come with time, but just try to block him out of your mind. Don't do the rebound thing, that will make it worse trust me. Find hobbies and girl friends to take your mind off of him.
There's this person in my group of friends that I absolutely hate but everyone loves. She goes to a different school and its been about a year, now she wants to go to our school. What should I do?
Why do you hate her? I’d be better able to answer your question if I had more details.In any case, I’d recommend that you analyze the reasons why you don’t like her, and make sure that your reasons are valid. If you still find them to be valid after some deep analysis and introspection, then you should try voicing your concerns to your group of friends. If your concerns have any merit, they’d be very likely to take them seriously (unless they choose to be irrational). If your friends are rational and unbiased and this other girl is as bad as you think she is, then they’ll do all they can to make sure that you don’t get treated poorly nor unfairly by her. If they side with her and let you remain on the receiving end of injustice and unfairness at the hands of this girl, then you should start looking for some new, unbiased and ethically impartial friends.But I have to stress that before you do any of this, please think long and hard evaluating the reasons why you don’t like her and if your concerns about her are well-founded.
I ABSOLUTELY HATE my best friend's girlfriend! help please?
She has him whipped and is VERY controlling of him, calls him LITERALLY EVERY HOUR to see what he is doing/who he is hanging out with and he needs her approval whenever he wants to do things without her. She is also very rude, enjoys pointing out other's shortcomings and has an attitude of self entitlement like you wouldn't believe(think daddy's little princess). Whenever we hangout in a group it's either "her way" or "no way" and she's a total buzzkill for everyone. Now I don't know how to tell my best friend who iv'e known since I was 11 (we're 20 now) that his girlfriend is a controlling B**ch. They've been dating for two years now and have lost all of their friends besides me because no one wants to spend time around them and they are always together 24/7. What should I do?? tell my best friend that his girl is a B**CH?? I would normally not get involved or care but he has been my nest friend for years now I kinda and I care about him and know his girl is long term trouble .
I hate my friends. What should I do?
Get new friends.Right?But to go a little deeper- why do you hate your friends?I've been in "friendships" for years I instinctually knew weren't good for me. I even dreaded the time we spent together but still hung on.Are you afraid of being lonely? Are these friends a link to someone or something else?Be aware.When you're willing to fully let go, new doors begin to open. Yes, it can be lonely but in my own experience it's also a relief. Being a good friend takes time. Getting rid of friendships that took up that time and didn't make me happy opened up space to get to know other people and deepen relationships with those I hadn’t gotten to know as well.
Why do I hate my friends?
Is it really hate? Or do you just find yourself annoyed when you’re with them? If it’s hate, you’ve got something going on that I have no idea how to handle.If it’s just discomfort, you may just have outgrown them. Most people are not meant to be in our lives forever. Most friends come into our lives, we learn what we have to learn from each other, and then they move out of our lives. It’s a natural progression. If that’s all that’s going on with you, you just have to own what you’re feeling.Telling them will be move difficult. I’d suggest some version of you just find you’re going in different directions now and you’re going to move on. Or maybe you’ll be able to just stop hanging out with them, stop contacting them, decline invitations, things like that.
There is a person in my friends group whom I absolutely dislike, but my other friends get along with him pretty well. How should I handle this?
Learn to get on with this person in the group situations. It is a valuable thing to be able to get along with people, even if you are not fond of them. Be gracious about it, don’t just do it under sufferance either. In other words, treat this person with the same respect and care as you should be doing for everyone else.You do not have to spend time with them one on one. So it should be entirely within your ability to manage to treat someone respectfully in group situaitons.
Why does my friends dog hate me so much?
She's afraid and/or unsure of you. She doesn't hate you, she's just telling you that she's not sure about you coming near her, and is growling because she's just insecure and afraid. The tail between the legs is the biggest red flag for me, because any dog that is afraid, cowers down or crouches down is a dog that is afraid and insecure. Dogs don't hate, that's just a human thing that we humans tend to lean towards when we don't understand how a dog is behaving. DO NOT approach her like you would with a human like with you facing her, that only makes it worse. And DO NOT pet her when she's in that fear/insecure state, you're only nurturing that state, not "making it better." Approach her with your side towards her when your friend has her sitting or laying down, slowly and deliberately, and avoid eye contact at all costs. And be calm and quiet while you do so, don't assume or fear or hate or anything like that. Wait until she relaxes (ears back, head a little higher, and maybe her sniffing you) before you give any affection, in terms of a treat or a rub to her chest. It may be best just to give her a treat (make sure she smells it first before you can give it to her) to gain her confidence in you. ONLY give the treat when she's calm and not growling at you, and when she comes toward you. I've learned that the only way to really make friends with a dog is if they come to you, in a relaxed state, and not you coming to them. So take your time, and let her figure it out herself. When you go to that friends house of yours, completely ignore the dog (no touch, no talk, no eye contact). I think it's when you address the dog that she shows her fear towards you. And your friend may also be to blame, probably giving affection to her at the wrong time (like when she's scared and insecure of you), also making it worse. So I think it should also be a part of your friend's responsibility to make sure that chocolate lab is not afraid of you.
Why do all my friends HATE my taste in music?
The sad truth is most people are narrow minded and don't listen to anything that isn't mainstream. I became interested in playing music at an early age. Musician's tend to have broader tastes in music. I remeber when i was in school and I'd be like "dude, check this out"... Most of my peers would say, "why do I want to listen to that"? "I've never heard of it". That's typical. Sometimes it's actually quite laughable. Back in 1976, I discovered The Doors, beyond the few pop radio radio hits of their day. Most of the people I hung out with thought I was square for listening to them. But, in 1980, when The Doors Greatest Hits was released with tons of airplay, suddenly these same people suddenly liked The Doors. Get the Picture? xx