My whole family hates me. help please!!!?
Aww, your family doesn't hate you!!! It is impossible. Unless you purposely abused them in some way. Which you wouldn't do anyways. Things that you have described can be forgiven, it just takes time. Trust me, I know. My sister did really awful stuff to me, she abandoned me, and a lot of other stuff... and I thought I hated her... really, truly HATED her until just recently when she's come back into my life and I really believe that she's trying to make an effort to right all of the wrongs, and make up for lost time. I'm finding it hard to feel those old resentments towards her. I definetly know how it feels, just from a different angle. But let me tell you that if you feel like you are at the end of your rope...there's absolutely nowhere to go but UP!!! Let God into your life!!! He'll fix EVERYTHING. Start going to church. Pray about whatever you're concerned with. Read the bible. Pray for your family & for them to come around. Tell Him that you want to change, that you want to feel your family's love all around you. Admit your sins and ask for forgiveness...and don't just ask for forgiveness... ACCEPT His forgiveness and let the joy flow through you! Give all of your worries and stresses and anger and resentment to Him, because it does you no good to hold onto all of that!!! Give it to Him and ask that He turn it into good, whatever that might be. Tell him you want to start over and erase all of those bad things from your memory, from your whole life. God will answer any prayer. Once you accept God into your life, everything will slowly start to fall into place. When you pray that prayer that you accept Jesus into your soul and that you want His Holy Spirit to flow through you eternally, anything is possible!!!! Keep your head up and remember that no matter what you do, Jesus' love will never fade away. EVER!!! God bless!
How can I end my own life peacefully?
Before Doing Suicide, Follow These steps To Ease Your Pain.Call You Parents And Tell them “I Love You”.If You Have Younger Or elder brother,Call them & Ask Forgiveness.Call Your 10 friends & Ask Them How Would they Feel If You commit a Suicide.Take a Pen & paper and write Everything Good About Each Member of your family And what they did for You As An example.Again take another Paper and write everything You Have And what A Poor Dosnt.Now Remember Everything From Past to Present.Ask Yourself SomeQuestions ?Is Your Life Is Only Yours ?How Your parents Would take Your suicide ?Isnt Your Life more Valuable than the shitty thing for whom Youre committing such a act ?No It isnt.Some People Dont have hands yet They eat.Some Dont have Legs Yet they run.SomeDont have Ear yet they Hear.Some Dont have Eyes Yet they See.And You have Everything And Yet Youre Quitting ?Value Your life.Its Worth Living than Dying.
I hate my life so much I can't stand another day?
Saw your note and had to write. First, overall, I hope things get better for you. Regarding the membership to the gym, I had a similar issue where I wasn't able to go to the gym so I just danced. Every night I would turn on the stereo and let it all out. At first I could not last for more than five minutes. By the time I lost 35 pounds, I was dancing for an hour a day. Not getting out of the house is frustrating, but not being able to go to the gym is fixable :-) Dump the guy getting a divorce- if he did not turn to you in the middle of that, he is forever in the friend zone and that is not what you want, I don't think. Find someone that suits you- they are out there, I am sure. You don't need him to think you are pretty- YOU need to think you are pretty! Please never consider suicide. Life has so many options- while you are going through a time in your life where you do not see them, that will change. Please know that I wish you all the best- there is a lot of good in the world and this is just a rough patch- take care of yourself, dance like no one is watching and take a few minutes every day to remember the good things in life- they are there, even if they seem to be hidden right now...
I hate my sister's boyfriend. What do I do?
The only thing you can do here is to grit your teeth, bite your tongue, and keep saying to your sister, "I just want you to be happy." Repeat as necessary. You don't have to like him, but if your sister feels like her family is ganging up on her about this guy, she'll choose the guy. Furthermore, is she ever DOES decide she doesn't like him as much as she thought she did, she'll be reluctant to break up with him because she won't want to hear, "I told you so!" out of her family. So you need to make it clear that you love and support your sister. Don't mention the guy. Don't bring him up. If she brings him up, just tell her, "I just want you to be happy." I dated a lot of jerks, and some stuck around longer than others. But when the inevitable meltdown happened, I knew I could go to my family, because they always made it clear that they "just wanted me to be happy." And they NEVER said "I told you so." Even when they had. Good luck.
I've lost direction in life. I've lost everything: my family, my friends, my job and my self-belief. I'm so lost, how can I find my way again? Is it possible for a person to start again? If it is, where do I start?
Take it one thing at a time and be very practical. One thing at a time means: Don't overthink things. When there is one thing to do, do it. Don't think too much about other things or what will happen after. Life need not be complicated: One thing always follows another. Take a step. Then take the next step.Be very practical means: Do things. Get into real, physical action as much as possible. This will get you out of thinking loops. Manual work is very good - someone else suggested picking up litter until you find something better; that is a very good proposal. Find someone or something to help with. (Picking up litter helps everybody.) If you meet someone that needs help, help him. When the job is done, ask for advice on what to do next, if you don't know the next step yourself. (You have already asked here on Quora. That's cool, in fact that is the start that you have asked about. You are on the way. Keep going.) Keep yourself and your things in order: Maintain personal hygiene and keep your place tidy. You may want to decide on a daily routine and stick to it. Living in community can help with this. Seek people out that you like and learn from them. How do they live their lives? Where do they take their strength from?Meditation and prayer can help with getting in touch with fundamentals of life and in re-finding direction. Try them. Allow somebody to teach you if you don't know how. This may sound strange: Try to enjoy this time. In the middle of the pain that you are experiencing now, you may also find that you are fundamentally free.I trust that you can make it back. All the best to you.
I have no privacy!!! and i hate having a fight with my parents?
I honestly cannot wait to move out of my house, my parents are just absolutely irritating. Im 16 and I have to share my bedroom with my little sister. SHe always comes in here, and i cant have any privacy at all. Not even in the frkin shower, when im in there, theres always someone knocking on the door telling me to get out. My parents think if i have my own bedroom im going to be in there all day and wont come out. ANd im not even allowed to close the door of our bedroom, and the lounge is just next to me, and i can always here the tv pretty loudly. I dont get any privacy at all. I tried telling my parents this every time and they said i can just get out of my house when im in my 20s. How do they expect me to get good grades if i dont have any privacy. my mum is the worst, when i talk to her about girl problems she tells the whole world about it, including my dad. ANd i cant ever cry alone or have time for myself, when im crying, they always barge in and tell me i shouldn't cry or stop crying, i hate it when you cry. I swear im gonna like kill myself some day. I never get any peace!