Shy Girl Giving Me Mixed Signals?
I told this shy girl I liked her a few weeks ago. She smiled and looked down but didn't say anything. Some of my friends say she likes me but is shy and some friends says she rejected me because she didn't say anything. She seemed to have a really good time at dinner because she was laughing a lot at what I said. Recently, I tried to start a converesation with her on MSN but she ignored my message. And I know for a fact she intentionally ignored it. What is this girl thinking?? Be brutally honest if you have to.
Girl keeps giving me mixed signals?
Let's say she is trying to get your attention again. She's probably angry at her self for not reciporicating the same towards you when SHE had the chance too - and is regretting it everyday. Come to think of it - you might have shocked her with your boldness approach in the first place. Yeah - I would approach her again - probably best to take it easy in the first time thou - get to know her as the person that she is - because you already acknowledged that he is attractive etc...this time take the time to get to know her. Ask you out for lunch or coffee.
Why are boys always sending mixed signals?
Boys like to play little mind games. They never admit to it but they do. Girls are guilty of this too.. You have to face this head on. When you're confused as to what is going on, bring it to their attention and ask outright, “what do you want”? Tell them what “signals” you thought you got. It keeps them honest if they are going to be honest, saves embarrassment, and gets you a better understanding about how they think. I don't take hints or “signals”. You have to tell me what you want straight forward. I went into a store to buy a candybar and politely asked my friend, who wanted to stay in the car, if they wanted something as well. She replied; “Something with peanut butter.” I brought her back a small jar of peanut butter and a pack of crackers. She looked at me like she was stupid. There are a dozen items “with peanut butter” on the candy aisle. It is not my job to decipher the cryptic response to; “Do you want something?” and it's not your job either. Make them communicate clearly with you. Otherwise you'll be accused of being incompetent when it's clearly the other way around. Hope this helps.
What do guys feel if a girl they like send mixed signals to them? Do they give up or continue to pursue the girl?
Well I can't speak for every man. Some of us have self respect. Usually when she gives me mixed signals and never leads things on I would always find someone who was more upfront with her feelings and this would get her out of her safe zone. I had a girl like that for 6 months she told me about her boyfriend and how she loved him but would text and call me more than him and sleep on me etc. One day she found out that I let a girl stay at my place and we slept in the same bed. And every morning I used to get a kiss on the nose before heading to work. This got her so angry that when she came over to watch a movie with another friend the second that guy left the room she rubbed her hand on my cheek and lips and when I didn't respond she just mounted me and kissed me . So my idea is usually just keep moving on because if she is confused no need to break your head over it . Just keep improving and don't ponder too much on who makes who happier or who is going to chase. Because since women want equality I think if the guy persued then she should put in the same effort if she is interested if not he's gonna walk away and never look back. After all, the strongest negotiating point is being able to walk away and never look back.P.S this holds good only for men with self respect. There are others who like being sodomized .
A girl is giving me mixed signals. Does she like me?
You sound like you are asking for a lot of verbal permission from her to indicate that you like her. Maybe you act too much like a buddy or a friend and she's confused. Happens, but you can maybe fix it.Hang out with her next time only as a date, such as over at your place for a glass of wine and a chat. Otherwise say you're too busy for other stuff, and let her call you the next time.If you do hang out talking with her, after a while gently stroke her hair and make eye contact, then gradually look from her eyes to her lips and back. Take your time. If she reciprocates this communication, go in for a kiss. She may avoid the kiss or even hair stroking if she is not that into you. No big deal,let it go and continue talking, and (politely) kick her out in a little while like it never happened. Don't ever make women feel ashamed, respect them totally. Just be confident and OK with anything that happens (or doesn't.)If she does kiss you back, you can take it easy there too, enjoying it but taking breaks pausing and leaning back stroking her hair and talking a little more in between. This is better than constantly smothering and advancing too fast, which kills it for her. Build anticipation and give her a chance to respond to any gradual escalation of intimacy, allowing her to look forward to each little step rather than worry you're pushing too fast. She will let you know.This is being a man to her while giving her some space and a feeling of safety so she can respond as she is ready. And it's not your fault if it turns out she doesn't want to be sexual with you, she will accept that you're a man in either case so it will all be OK. Maybe you're just not a good match.Yes, you can be a man to this woman but you must give up being her pal and staying in the safe-but-weird friend zone. Care about her as a person no matter what. She'll respect you back, and the experience will lead to more women in your life even if not her, specifically.
Mixed signals? Straight girls, I need your help!!?
I have a very close friend who is constantly "making the move" on me somehow. She's extremely flirtatious and calls me her "soulmate" and other what-nots. She's always in the mood to be touchy and we spend a lot of time together. She tells me all the time that she wishes she could be my girlfriend (as I am gay) but she's just too straight. Is this something straight girls usually say to good friends or do you think there might be something else going on? I really have no clue. Also, as a side note, we've had sex on multiple occasions, as a FWB type thing, but it's been almost a year since we've done so and we've both had sexual interactions since then and have been able to talk about them somewhat. What's the deal????
How can I get over liking this girl that is sending me mixed signals?
There are no shortcuts.If she's sending mixed signals, then it's up to you to communicate clearly. Tell her that you like her. Invite her out to do something together.If she accepts your invitation and then continues with the mixed signals, then you can address that directly. Maybe she's a little bit immature. If she can't figure things out for herself, you'll naturally get tired of that and you won't like her anymore. Problem solved. You'll be a bigger person for having tried.If she rejects your invitation because she's not interested, that will hurt, but it solves your problem. You'll gain a bit of life experience and go on with your life. You'll see that it's your pride that suffers the most.One thing you can't do is force yourself to stop liking her just because you're not sure if she really likes you back or not. You have to make an effort and risk your feelings a little bit if you want anything good in life.
Why do women give mixed signals?
Certain girls will give mix signals because they are cruel, it's fun, confused if they really like a guy, need to feel good about themselves (poor self-esteem, like to keep their options open (that is if a lot of guys are attracted to them) or do so for attention. Whenever a girl gives a guy mixed signals, that girl is messing with a guy's head and really does not like that person. Earlier this year, I liked a girl who gave me mixed signals and I figured that she only really liked me for attention. Near the end of knowing her, that was when she admitted that she was stubborn, a word that rhymes with witch and most of all, crazy (rolling my head and shaking my head)! She made me more depressed and mad than happy about liking her. When a girl really likes you then she does not play games with you by giving you any mixed signals. If any girl gives you mixed signals then you are going to have to try to forget about her and move on. A girl that truly likes you will not give you mixed signals. I hope that this helps and take care of yourself. I mean this.
Is this straight girl giving me mixed signals?
She joined the firm about a year ago, I trained her up and from then we got on absolutely amazingly. I've not had a straight crush in a while, But its beginning to form simply because she keeps sending me mixed messages. We are together a lot at work and outside of work, I'm openly lesbian and people are starting to ask her if she is seeing me. Its getting quite annoying, as I'm very confused. Anyway about these signals, we hold eye contact... Laugh inappropriately at silly things and just generally love being around each other. On many occasions we have been out we have ended up holding hands or been sitting together on the train home cuddled up. I've never instigated any of this. We once had a few to many drinks, went outside and she confessed that she had a crush on someone at work. But would not tell me who, then proceeded to tell me that she was bisexual... And then tried to kiss me but I pulled away as we had work the next day, I don't want my work relationship with her to get akward. It just seems that when we are together despite there constantly being conversation, there is this strong tension building between us, I mean I don't know if its just me... She says I love you alot, and not a day goes by when we don't talk or text. It feels weird when she's not around and she says the same. She also seems really jealous when I talk about girls I'm dating, and then goes on about men that she's talking to just to make it seem like its more of a friendship thing, but its akward and we always end up talking about things we care about and it just seems really intimate to be able to feel so close to her, yet feel so far away... GAH! I've not actually felt like this about someone in a while.