Why do geminis always get angry easily over stupid things?
So its Christmas dinner and my sister barely ate anything and she rarely eat normally, she wasting away literally.. So this is basically all I said..why aren't u eating? Stop eating like an anorexic person and put some food on ur plate. Do u even eat 1200 calories a day.. She got soo angry and defensive..I do eat, I do eat..ur always stating facts that aren't true, u just want attention..Ur a typical Aquarian.. OK...??? Now she talking her s*** about me to her friends like usual.. I dont get this. I mean just trying to find out why she not eating.
Why do I get so angry when things don't go my way?
Clearly you have not learned how to effectively deal with disappointment. I highly suggest that you start learning, the sooner the better. Pure and simple, no one always gets what they want absolutely all of the time. Sometimes life tells us “no” and that’s okay. Getting angry when what you should simply be is disappointed is inappropriate in the first place and worse yet will be perceived as childish in the second place. This can be very expensive for you. Such a reaction can cost you, friends, relationships, jobs, and yes, even money. If you don’t get a handle on this and it really gets out of hand, as it has for some people, it can even land you in jail. Anger has led people to do some really stupid things from saying the wrong thing to breaking something, hurting someone and in some cases, even killing someone. Why? Because they didn’t get their way. Aw, poor baby, an adult having for all intents or purposes, a temper tantrum run a muck. Is that what you would ultimately like to possibly have happen? I am sure you are thinking, “Oh, that would NEVER be me.” Really? Are you sure you want to risk it? Every time you get angry at some point, it will likely get worse but because it is gradual, you won’t realize it, at least, not until you really cross that line. The question is just how far over that line will you go that time? My advice? Don’t ever let yourself ever find out, okay? Fix this now.
How can I stop caring so much about the stupid things?
I always get mad over the smallest things. I don't tell my friends anymore...because I know its stupid. Like if my friend doesn't message me back on facebook, but I know she's been on because it show... I get mad. The message sometimes doesn't even need a response! Or if like someone says they will call me then don't...but I have the right to be mad right?
My mom gets mad over stupid things?!?!?
Hannah, Your problem is one that many young adults have. Living with a parent that you feel is being very annoying can be very frustrating. It is great that you are reaching out for help, sometimes hearing the advice of our peers can help make sense of a situation. Consider trying to talk to your mother when you are both in a neutral or good mood. At this time, talk to her about what types of behaviors she displays that annoy you. At the same time, you should ask her to be specific about what types of behaviors you display that upset her. By knowing specifically what each of you do that bothers the other one, you can begin to work on the problem. If you feel as though you are right in the way you act, try to justify it. Do so calmly, as you do not want to escalate the situation. Don't forget to let her justify her behaviors and feelings as well. By initiating such a discussion, you are showing your mother that you are a mature, responsible young lady. You may find that you have to "meet in the middle" on several issues, but do so calmly and graciously. Don't continue to fight over a topic that may not even be all that important in the long run. Focus on the issues that are most important to help improve your relationship. Hope this helps, Counselor AF
Husband gets mad over stupid things.?
Like for instance yesterday we were on our way to a birthday party and he got in the car and asked if i had any tissues ( hes had a cold for the past week) and i said no i dont have any on me..and his response was how are you a mother of two but not have any damn tissues on you? and i said well i have wipes...and so he tries to roll the window down to spit outside but couldnt because the windows are locked ( my toddler likes to play with them) and he throws a fit over that...but didnt ask for me to unlock them! and then he says well where is the diaper bag and i said oh i think i put it in the very back of the car and he says oh well that makes sense doesnt it? and i said well i didnt pack a diaper back for you i packed it for the kids..and he said ok well ill just blow my nose in my hand and wipe it on your seat..and i said well youll be cleaning it up later too! and his response was haha bullshit i wont. then leaving the party i was backing out and he said theres a mailbox there and i said i see it and he said "well ill shut the f up then" and he didnt speak to me the whole way home... its little things like that and he always takes it out on me or the kids..he thinks nothing is wrong though..thinks its all me! OH and another thing he got mad at me for yesterday was that i washed HIS work uniforms but forgot to throw them in the dryer so once we got home they were still sitting..well he started throwing things and gettings pissed off in the laundry room. so i got the kids things and im now out at my moms...We go through stuff like this all the time and im honestly sick of it...Im at my wits end. ps. im 15 weeks pregnant with our 3rd child. what should i do???
My boyfriend always gets mad at me for stupid little things?
Honestly that's how a lot of guys are. They get mad over everything. My ex was the same exact way and trust me, things will only get worse. So my advice would be to move on now. Because he's not going to change and nothing that you do will make him. i know that it's really hard to think like that, but you'll be so much happier in the long run. Plus your young. There's plenty of fish in the sea :)
Why do people get angry with you on small things?
They might be in a lot of pain, and annoyance/anger is be their habitual response to small irritating things that they regard as stupid or unnecessary intrusions into their ‘inner world’. I’ve found ‘inner world’ a concept with which many people are not familiar. When I’m meditating, dozing, or purposely sitting away from others, back turned, it’s not uncommon for someone to barge in: speak loudly/sit down heavily/too close if I’m on a couch. This even happens when I think I’m sending signals I don’t want to be addressed: I’m away from others/back to group/eyes closed/writing in a journal. I realize that some people haven’t a clue about body language. An adult asked me the other day what) ‘body language’ is (when I used the term). I assume everyone knows; most people I know are aware what it is. That made me look at my assumptions. How complicated communication is today, and I do get irritated (if I’m irritated, these interruptions aggravate me). I get irritated when people misuse/can’t differentiate ‘irritate’ from ‘aggravate’, they use ‘to’ when they mean ‘too’, or they misspell there/their/they’re. So there. Be for-warned: You’ve been advised of some of my pet peeves and irritations. By the way, “Forwarned is half an octopus.” (if anyone reading this gets it, congratulations!)
Why does my boyfriend get angry for the silliest and stupidest things all the time?
If your boyfriend gets angry for minor things all the time, something is wrong with his behavior, or he does not love and respect you. Tell him that you notice that he gets angry without cause and that you want him to get help to regulate his emotions. If he gets angry at you, he is abusing you and using his anger to control you. If he gets angry at the world or other people, then he is hurting himself and bringing your mood down with him. In any case, his getting mad all the time is a problem for you and relationship. Make it clear that if he doesn’t seek help for his problem, you will have to give up on the relationship for your own good. Do not marry him until he gets a handle on his anger.