You might need a blueprint of the property to prove your point. To mitigate the calls to the the police, record yourself walking down the street (make sure the time and date is evident in the video) and wait for the call to come in. First make sure the your video is backed up to a cloud service so that you have more that one copy. Once you are made aware of the false call file a complaint to the police with your evidence. If you can show she called the police on you when you were lawfully walking down the street she can be arrested and fined for filing a false claim. In addition to the video you should also have a witness (a neighbor) to corroborate your story. Also provide the police with your blueprint/land survey documents. Ultimately you might have to go to court so that it is know to that person that you have a legal right to pass through.
Almost every parking lot — unless you are talking about a commercial parking lot — is associated with the rental property from which you and your neighbor are renting.What hat means is that the police have no jurisdiction to enforce traffic laws there, and they have no jurisdiction on who gets to park where, or for how long.You need to contact the owner of the parking lot.The only reason that police will come out is to deal with you having a very loud argument, or actually fighting, with your neighbor over “the parking lot rule”.In other words: they’ll come out for what’s going to end up getting logged as “domestic dispute”.They’re not going to order anyone to move their car.In any event, the neighbor should call the owner of the parking lot; that’s probably your landlord.That’s about the only person who can do anything about it.The most likely outcome is they tell whichever neighbor is at fault to move their car, and then they make a note in their logbook about both neighbors, so that in the future, they can use it as part of the rationale for an “eviction for cause”.You know: should they every need/want to evict either neighbor.
I have a neighbor that is fixated on my husband. She seemed a little off, but once she found out about his time in prison she developed a full blown obsession. She wrote the association board for our community a complaint about him slamming doors and watching her when she was outside. This was nonsense but they still had to address it with us. She wrote subsequent letters to the board stating he has a key to her car, and gains entry to turn on her radio...that he lets air out of her tires...that he's getting in her home and releasing ants...and he's poisoning the food in her refrigerator. We'd see police at her door, but they never stopped by to talk to us. One day last fall, my husband was riding his bike. This neighbor pulled her car in front of him and slammed on her brakes, causing him to fall off his bike. Her behavior was now endangering him so we went to the police to file a report. The police were helpful, and knew our neighbor well. Apparently she'd filed lots of police reports about my husband and a few other men from the neighborhood. The police recognized she has mental health issues and never pursued her later complaints. So what can you do? Try to have your cell phone ready to record if you think your neighbor will confront you. Keep a cool head, there's nothing wrong with not engaging in an argument. Don't be afraid to talk to the police to see what your options are if you're being harassed. You don't want to end up on the wrong side of this problem.UPDATE: my local police department reached out to the neighbour's daughter, the daughter called my husband to apologize and let him know she will be intervening in a medically supervised care program for her mother. She made sure he has her contact info should we have any problems. I give her all the credit in the world, she was wonderful and it's great that she wants to be involved in her care! Here's hoping my neighbor gets back on track.
This actually happened to me once at work. I was more suspected than accused, but you know that slippery slope?I had not taken the money (from a notebook left on a desk in an empty office when another employee left his employment.) I was very understanding that my name would come up as a possible suspect, but I had no information to add to the situation. I had not entered the empty office. I had seen the notebook as I passed the open door to the office. I did not know that there was money in the notebook. (Not a great idea if you ask me.) And, I am never even sure the money was ever in the notebook.So, I was nice and polite. I was helpful and boring. I told the same story over and over again. I did not elaborate or speculate. I did not investigate, I continued to do my work. Frankly, I even “put it out of my mind” as best I could. I certainly did not ever try to place the blame on anyone else. (Including the person who I suspect never put the money in the notebook in the first place.) I did not gossip with my coworkers about the money. (You are getting the picture?)Ultimately my co-workers stuck up for me. They confirmed my story with “the powers that be.” I never had that money in my personal possession. I never knew where that money was located. I think we all knew in our heart of hearts that it was a lie that the money had been placed in the notebook. And, here is the deal, the money had never been the responsibility of anyone in that office except the person that left. And now he was gone. And, the money was gone.What else can you do: tell the truth; don’t elaborate; try not to be defensive; don’t investigate; do not try to shif the blame; do not gossip about the situation? Hold to faith that goodness will win out in the end.My best wishes.
Wrongful noise complaints from the neighbors downstairs?!?
Please pretty smartly go and speak to your Landlord, explain there has never ever been problems before, so why now, what the factor that's changed, the new tenants is the answer. Explain about the complaints made against you , even when you were out. These 2 notices maybe rescinded if the Landlord knows the situation, or can with your assistance monitor the situation. My pondering is as to why do the new tenants want to cause you trouble? Do they have a vested interest in getting you out of the property, friends who are waiting in the wings, so to speak, or is it that your apartment is better than theirs it's only ideas. The other thing is this, the fact you are not doing anything wrong, is that, then you will not have any records, because you have nothing to record. I suggest you keep a record of when you go out, so that if they accuse you of loud noises for example maybe you were out , and the record shows who with, a witness, that sort of evidence is vital to prove you are being "victimised" that is something that could lead to them being evicted, not you. Good Luck, it's a flight or fight"time , flight , is to do nothing, fight is to see your Landlord in the first instance Do not talk to the other tenants yet, they will deny lying about anything, go through the landlord
My upstairs neighbors are accusing us of stealing their mail (please help)?
we lived at our apartment for six months now and have a year lease, a women and her husband took the vacant apartment upstairs a couple of months ago with their adult daughter and her boyfriend. they are constantly banging and slamming doors which started effecting our apartment for example because of them banging so hard our kitchen cabinets have a gap and pretty much are gonna fail also my boyfriend put a new front screen door up which they broke from slamming the door so hard, my boyfriend is the maintenance of the property keeping the grass cut and clean and such they don't do anything. we called our landlord that lives in another state and told him however the other maintenance man Matt is in charge of the building because of the landlord living in New york and we live in Pennsylvania he's always been good with us and so we told him, he also is in charge of evicting tenants as well... he's coming to see the damage they did we took photos just in case they decide to fix it as evidence, their daughter upstairs throws temper tantrums screaming and banging like a 5 year old she has bipolar disorder by the way and is in her 20's her family are the type that thinks their better then everyone else. this is the second time which she never said it directly to my face but to her boyfriend while i happen to be outside out loud, getting snotty about it saying we stole their mail and that they are pressing charges against us, stealing mail is a federal offense which we would never do because we don't touch other people's property. both of us never been arrested in this state. Today we seen the mail lady and told her that they are complaining and falsely accusing us of stealing their mail and to make sure not to put their mail in our box they don't even have their name(s) on their mailbox so i told the mail lady to a note saying if they want their mail delivered they have to put their name(s) on their mailbox. what should we do? were not moving moving we think matt is going to evict them but what if they have us arrested when we did not do anything.
I am a jeweler and I was going to a very rich client's house to handstring her very expensive pearls. She knew I had a shop at home to solder and metalwork and several times she asked me to take silver pieces home to work on. Once she asked me to take two turquoise rings home to turn into earrings. I didn't have the time because I was working on something else for her so I told her I would pick them up later. She put them away in a box with some beads and I saw her do this.Later she asked for the rings and I told her I didn't have them. Then she accused my husband of taking them. Then she accused me, but she would not listen to me when I tried to explain where the rings were because she had put the away in a different box than usual. So I finally got angry and said, “okay, you say I'm a thief then I'm a thief and I stole your rings.”We had been good friends. I knew one day she would find them which she did. Then she had to apologize to me, but I just couldn't trust her anymore and I never worked for her again. It ruined our friendship. Next time, people should do more listening instead of accusing.
Show your wife the video to allay her anxieties and keep the video for all time as evidence for your defence against prosecution for an historic offence.If no ohysical or financial harm is done to you by the consequent spread of this allegation then you have no remedy in kaw.If you suffer loss as a result of slander then if you can prove such losses then go to court with the video and spend a lot of money to prove your case.Then spend a lot of money to get the court jusgement enforced through bailiffs.Then go back to court to sue for payment of costs to be enforced.Then give up the part time job you got to pay for all this and have a happy life.That is……unless the defendant appeals on the judgement or a point of law. Then you need to mortgage your house to pay for the judicial incompetence and the ensuing lawyers bean feast on your money.
What to do about being falsely accused of not picking up dog poop?
i'm sorry this occurred to you, and that i think of they took your canine basically because of the fact he's a pit bull. what style of canine have been the different 2? dissimilar people falsely accuse pit bulls of biting. My chum has 5 canine, 3 labs, a pit bull, and a cocker/lab combination. whilst the canine have been exterior one in all them bit her neighbor...it became the cocker combination. yet she informed the police it became the pit bull. i don't be attentive to why they try this, pit bulls are clearly candy to people. So she did bypass to court docket to combat this, and he or she gained. i don't be attentive to in the journey that your case will bypass that a techniques. yet you're perfect that they might't teach which canine bit, or whether the guy did get bit. in simple terms wait the ten days, they try this to be sure the canine does not have rabies, and optimistically you are able to have him back after that. i'm so sorry to take heed to this, i be attentive to pit bulls are spectacular canine, and extremely candy natured, yet dissimilar people blame them for issues they did no longer do, in simple terms because of the fact of their breed. i desire to function something, somebody pronounced in case you have been to guess who bit, a pit bull or golden retriever, maximum folk could %. the pit. nicely, regrettably he's stable, and clearly it is that the animal administration assumed. yet i artwork at a vet sanatorium, and have volunteered at an animal look after, of each and every of the canine i've got met, pit bulls are the main friendly canine, in no way been bit by utilising one. Of each and all of the canine i've got been bitten by utilising, a golden retriever did the main harm, leaving scars on my face. I hate stereotypes, the two of those strays might have bit that guy.
You can go to the police department these complaints are being filed with and speak to the officer there about this. Show them either your work time card where it shows you aren’t home during the hours they’re complaining you are making noise. If you’re just out and about at those reported hours, then show the police receipts. Say you’d like to make a complaint against your neighbors for harassment the next time the neighbors call them on you for this. You can file an anti-harassment civil claim against them in your local criminal court.Good luck, I’ve found that doing anything like the above just escalates the issues with the neighbor and makes life really uncomfortable. Best solution is to try and speak with them first.Thank you, Michelle, for the A2A.