I am ugly. Should i commit suicide?
Your message really made me sad... Not only for you, but also for how things work nowadays. Appearance has become EVERYTHING, no one looks your character, personality and such stuff anymore. I do not want to say things everyone tells you because I am pretty much sure how useless they can sometimes be in making you feel better. I can only use my own experience to explain how wrong you can be. I have several friends (and especially one comes to mind) that are subjectively really ugly. But guess what? They are so funny, friendly and enteraining that everyone loves them and wants them as friends! Really man, appearance is not all there is about. I can understand you, but you can't magically change how you look. The thing is, you can change your personality and that'll be what can attract people. Most of them won't care, as you'll have already noticed. But you shouldn't care either for unknown superficial guys (as much difficult it may sound to your ego). You are in an age that interpersonal relationships are probably the greatest part of your life, that's why you feel so desperate. But believe me, it's not. You'll grow up to discover new things, activities, experiences and that's a reason not to end all of it here. I don't want to sound like I'm desperately trying to convince you to not commit a suicide for no reason. I really had no intention of answering today here and I only did because I mean every word I say as I've been in your shoes partially and the feelings were quite similar. Only now I can see how wrong I had been. I want you to see that as well.
Is suicide a realistic option for being ugly?
Honestly, it’s not going to get better.I think it was Schopenhauer that said when a man’s circumstances become too much for him, he has the right to his own life. - I’m not advocating this, but when I was younger I used to think about it and the nature of how things are when it comes to people and reality.I despise all the platitudes that I see everywhere - they hurt more than anything, because they give us hope which the world then proceeds to shatter.My advice - One problem people like us face is loneliness and bullying. Master loneliness - it’s a place of beautiful insight and meaning. You might never find love and if you do, don’t count on that lasting very long (if you are as ugly as I am). Have fun because you really have so little to lose. And tell yourself that everything that you’ve gone through makes you stronger - if only to yourself. You are a unique perspective to this world, not many people get to see how shallow we all are.Maybe there is some poetic value, or maybe some philosophical or artistic value. I like to believe there is.. It’s a hard life.Force yourself to find happiness and love in yourself or kill yourself..Both options are beautiful.[Again I’m not advocating suicide, I’ve just thought about it with varying frequencies and intensities, and see nothing wrong in it. My circumstances perhaps.]I wish you well.
I'm extremely ugly???!?
First of all, I'm sure a big dose of self-confidence would go really far here. If anyone calls you ugly, it only means that THEY'RE the ones who are ugly and mean, so just ignore it. And don't believe it. Also, people are attracted to people who are confident, warm and project happiness - about themselves and towards others. Instead of worrying about your looks, try making other feel better about themselves and it will come back to you. Beauty starts in your heart, not on your face. As far as makeup goes, it really can do wonders to hide your flaws, change the shape of your eyes, make your lips fuller, etc. Also, learning how to style your hair well is equally important. Go to YouTube and spend time watching make-up tutorials. You'll be shocked at what some of these gorgeous girls look like BEFORE they put on makeup - and they're brave enough to let everyone see them without it! Because they've practiced and know how to use make-up to make themselves look better. Study tutorials on makeup application, how to give yourself a good manicure, hair styling and hair cuts. Go to Pinterest and look at the styles of the ladies clothes there - you'll get some really cute ideas you absolutely can do on a budget. Chin up, girl. Empower yourself, don't just sit feeling sorry. You have your legs and arms and your sight and and your hearing and money to buy makeup and a place to sleep. Life could be so much worse. You can absolutely learn how to make yourself look stunning.....you don't need to go to a makeup artist or expensive stylist. Get online and learn how and you'll feel so much better, I promise! ;)
Why are most MGTOW so extremely ugly?
It's because male of low breeding stock become mgtow. Much like how females of low breeding stock become feminists. Nobody wants to breed with low quality mates.
Committing suicide because I'm ugly?
You could say looks don't matter over and over but I have not found one person in my life to find me attractive. My parents even called me ugly and I'm not lying. Not one thing about me is attractive. Not my lips , not my nose , not anything. When people first see you they see your face, then personality matters next. I have a very dull personality so no one will want to hang out with me. I'm very boring. I've tried different makeup tricks. I've changed my style up. I did possibly everything but surgery which will make me worse. I probably will get surgery , I saved up. I'm not sure If I'm getting it though. I heard surgery can make you prettier if they do it right. When people see me it's like I'm the devil on this earth. They'll frown or just stare. I was once at the mall about to get my nails done, I walked into the nail salon and the Asian lady told me to get out. She didn't want me in her salon because I'm ugly. My face is burned considering of what happen when I was a baby. I am overweight. I've tried working out but I cannot stay motivated. If you see me you'll probably stare or call me ugly inside your head. I want to get married and have kids but I'm pretty sure that will never happen because who will want a burnt face overweight ugly dull wife? No one..I'm ugly than I describe. I just don't want to live anymore ..i cry myself to sleep every night.
Is there any point in living if I'm extremely ugly, stupid, socially awkward, and have no friends?
Of course there is still a point to still live. You're miles better off than a rock is - it can't move or make conversation at all or have even the most mundane of thoughts. Of course I'm being a little facetious, but it's still true.Let's deconstruct your statements.First, it really is true both that beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and that, at the end of the day, beauty is unnecessary for the vast majority of things we do in life. Of course it makes some things easier - but believe it or not, it makes some things harder, it's certainly not 100% a benefit in everything. And, there are many things you can do to enhance your looks. I'm not even talking about plastic surgery, I just mean staying fit, taking good care of your skin, and knowing how to select and wear clothes and styles that work best with your body. Those simple things can objectively make a big difference in your appearance.Second, it is possible to overcome social anxiety. Many people start out life socially awkward and, as they grow learn how to keep it under control. Force yourself to talk to strangers in the park or in line at the grocery store. Talk to a counselor about other techniques to battle social anxiety. Talk to them about the pros and cons of maybe taking bets blockers, which “turn off” some of the fight or flight anxiety that make social interactions difficult for you. I was super awkward as a kid even through college, but by intentionally working on it I'm now comfortable talking to anyone, anywhere. It'll take some time, but you can overcome it if you want to.Finally, most people aren't dumb about everything. Most people have at least one it to things they do better at because it interests them. Focus on this things, even if they seem trivial at first. And, if you still don't think there's anything you're smart about, know that hard work and determination can go a very long way toward overcoming gaps in intelligence. There are even people with Downs Syndrom who are able to live independently and happily through hard work and determination. If they can do it, you can do it. I think they're super inspirational, personally.So, go out, jot down some goals, and get started on reshaping your life instead of just moping around about not having been born with a perfect life. As you gain confidence from having overcome some of the things that frustrate you, that confidence will help you make friends naturally.
Being short and ugly guy and suicide. please help?
Hi, sorry if this is a little long. I'm feeling depressed right now, at this time I feel like dying... suicide, why? well... I don't have a girlfriend (I know, dying over a girl... pathetic) you might not think I'm serious about killing my self, but I'm just too depress... this isn't my first time posting question like this on the internet, but the other times aint quite like this. I'm 4'9 (145cm), I have to wear lifts under my shoes!) and pretty ugly (I am ugly). I heard all these things about that beauty is on the inside thousands of time and I understand what it means, but lets be honest if your a girl you wouldn't go out with me unless it's out of sympathy. Anyways, I never had a girlfriend... and I'm getting older, almost in my 30s. Well I hope to find a wife one day. But too bad no girl would marry a someone a foot shorter than them and only work minimum wage (yea... minimum wage) and also but ugly. I try to look the best as I can like exercise, eat healthy and shower, and all that good stuff, But I can only do so much. I also hate being seen as the short guy in the group, I wish I was the life of the party(you know what I mean?). My whole life I feel like an outcast, I would work alone, eat alone, and cry on my bed every week while listening to music. I want this to end, It really does hurt me to see other people happy without me, and seeing couples in love hurts me too, every holiday I wish wish I could be happy with friends that see me as a hero like person, but instead i'm just alone. I notice people just don't talk to me like they would to other people. I want to be somebody, I want to be the life of the party, but instead I'm a sad monster. I have thought about surgery, but I only have a minimum wage job. I gotta have more confidence? I do, but it just doesn't come out right from an ugly short guy. There are people with worst lives? there are a lot of people with better ones too. and I do feel selfish when thinking about it. I have a question if your a girl? Be Very Honest. Would you marry a guy who is Indian, 4'9 Short, Ugly, and has a minimum wage job? I would like to hear what you have to say. please if your a guy who is over 5'3, please don't answer (don't say something like being tall doesn't matter). Please don't answer if your under 16.
Do some people commit suicide because they are ugly?
For example say a person is hideously ugly and lacks the personality to connect with the opposite sex on an intimate level, are they at much higher risk of committing suicide as they cannot find someone to love them or have sex with and feel very lonely because of this?