I feel terribly guilty?
when me and my friend were little (keep in mind im not friends with this girl anymore) i showed my friend porn cause she didnt know what it was and then we did nasty things and i feel so guilty about it and its to the point where im not living my life anymore, it would help if anyone else related to me, so if you relate please tell me
How can i stop feeling horribly guilty after sex?
How can i stop feeling horribly guilty after sex? I was brought up to believe its a sin to fornicate and now after having sexual intercourse with my two year boyfriend I always end up feeling this horrible guilt that makes me feel nauseous and depressive, plus i always end up delaying my period because of how scared i get that ill get pregnant even though Ive never had sex without a condom. Because of this guilt i stopped having sex since July 09 and last night (February 28 2010) it happened once again. I was supposed to get my period like a week ago but since i didn't get it i had sex (with a condom). Now I'm even more scared. I couldn't sleep, i feel guilty, scared, nauseous (i get that when I'm anxious), depressive, I don't know what to do. Please help me i sometimes feel so lost this society feeds us sex like its nothing to worry about but you do get pregnanT! and im only 20 years old, I'm not even close to graduating college, I'm not getting married, I sing in a band and my dream is to get somewhere with that, I have a condition called IBS which makes everything worse (I was diagnosed a few days ago) And seriously...... i feel like I'm going crazy. I have a psychiatrist but right now i don't have the money to go again and I don't have a health plan soo... =(
I read smut and I feel horribly guilty?
I read smut (sexual) stories earlier this evening, and now I feel awful. I'm 16 year old girl, and I don't make a habit of this. I've only done this 2 or 3 other times in my life, and both times I felt horrible. I feel guilty and sad and anxious. (I have an anxiety disorder) I don't know what to do. Could someone please tell me this isn't the end of the world? I'm really freaking out and there's nobody home except my sister and she's no help at all. Any advice? Something to help me get over this? :( P.S. I'm not sexually active at all. I'm a virgin and I've never even been kissed. Also, I didn't have any idea what category to put this in, so I just put it in here. No mean comments please, just help.
My mom keeps asking me for money and I feel horribly guilty?
My mom and dad divorced for second time over a year ago. She asked me to leave, which I did. Shortly there after she lost her job, were she made considerable money. She became very confrontational at work, and home. We had the cops called to the house many, many times. One time she accused me of locking her out of the house, even though I was 4 hours away at grad school! Anyway, she tried friviliously to sue her employers and racked up alot debt. She also bought brand new furniture for her house. When they were together dad and mom did support me through most of my education, but I still carry student loans. Its a year later, my mom has cut off ties with most of her family, and she still has not found work. I gave her my old computer, mowed her lawn, helped out when I could, I even recently gave her money for a doctors appointment. Its never enough though. She calls me selfish, morally corrupt, and a snake. We just dont get along. I feel really guilty that I cant help her out more, but I have loans, bills, an upcoming wedding, and I'm trying to save for a place of my own. She becomes irrate when I explain that I just can't help out. She also is angry that I spend little time with her, but I honestly feel very uncomfortable because she normally just berates me or becomes emmotional. She is living way beyond her means, and is really struggling. She only calls when she needs something, and then yells at me when I try to express that I just got out of college and I'm trying to start a life of my own. I can barely handle the burden. I really dont want to speak with her, she just makes me feel bad about myself. Its very depressing, I just wish she could be ok on her own, but she refuses to get a job (shes 58 and in decent health), and I fear she will become destitute. What can I do? I feel bad that I refuse to help, but whenever I do I feel worse because its never enough. I wish she would leave me alone. I miss my mom from before the divorce, she used to be supportive and kind. Now she only causes me pain. Any comments are helpful.
I am feeling guilty for wrong driving. What should I do?
While you asked a very general question, I will try to give you a more specific answer.What are you defining as ‘wrong driving’? Do you drive recklessly? Are you speeding, even though there is no need? Are you driving in such a manner as to be a danger to other drivers? If you answered yes, to any of these questions, then what you do to correct them is up to you, right up until the point you are pulled over by law enforcement officers, (LEO,) and then it becomes more serious.All of the things I mentioned, prior to LEO involvement, are things that YOU can fix. And, if you are unsure of what your problems are, you may need to ask someone else who is closer to you and knows what you are doing. However, I would suggest that, if you do ask someone, ensure that they are older, wiser heads. In other words, don’t ask your peers since they may be driving the same way, and not think there is anything wrong with that manner of driving.Age has a lot to do with the way we drive; younger people tend to take more chances, while, (sometimes,) older people, having more experience, tend to take fewer. However, that is not a solid statement because, sometimes, those who are older think they know more, and, while they might, sometimes, that causes them to take chances that they shouldn’t because they think they have enough experience to pull it off, and do not.Take stock of what you are doing, in the case of driving ‘wrongly’ and maybe you can work on your issues for yourself. Once you make bad driving habits, though, it is difficult to break them, but, quite essential to growing up to be an older, wiser, driver.As a sailor, in my much younger days, there was a statement by the air wing, “There are old pilots, and there are bold pilots, but, there are no old, bold, pilots.” The reason for this is, young pilots are more likely to make bold maneuvers, while an older pilot knows what will get him killed, and having gained age and experience, will not attempt a stupid move.Having just discovered the reasoning behind your question, I will add this, as you age, you should be making better decisions. Also, since this incident you describe left you feeling guilty, this, hopefully, showed you an error that only you can fix. I am glad that you didn’t kill the other drivers, and hope you work on fixing your impatience issue.Good luck in fixing your driving.
I let my boyfriend finger me and now I feel horribly guilty. Help me please?
Honestly, only you can help yourself with this. If it makes you uncomfortable for whatever reason, being religion or something else, you shouldn't do it again until you feel you are ready. Now that it is done and over with, there isn't much use in feeling guilty or regretting it- it happened, you can't change it now. Obviously, you're a human being and those feelings of pleasure from this situation is normal. Same with the feelings of guilt. You just have to decide what is important to you. Also, it is probably important you keep open communication with your boyfriend, he needs to know how you feel as well. Good luck, and I'm sorry you feel guilty. I felt some guilt from this situation my first time as well. Feeling some awkwardness afterward is natural, I think. Everything will be okay :)
I read smut and I feel horribly guilty?
I read smut (sexual) stories earlier this evening, and now I feel awful. I'm 16 year old girl, and I don't make a habit of this. I've only done this 2 or 3 other times in my life, and both times I felt horrible. I feel guilty and sad and anxious. (I have an anxiety disorder) I don't know what to do. Could someone please tell me this isn't the end of the world? I'm really freaking out and there's nobody home except my sister and she's no help at all. Any advice? Something to help me get over this? :( P.S. I'm not sexually active at all. I'm a virgin and I've never even been kissed. Also, I didn't have any idea what category to put this in, so I just put it in here. No mean comments please, just help.