My dad won't let me go to Prom!?
I desperately want to go to prom because my boyfriend is a senior, aand this is his last prom EVER. I don't want him to go with some random chick because I beleive your last prom should be special. But, I am only a sophmore, so my dad says I cannot go. Why do you think my dad doesnt want to let me go to prom??
My parents fought and my dad left!?
I will pray for restoration sweetheart....but it is between them. It is not your fault and your dad will call hopefully when he is calm. You don't want him to fuss at you out of being frustrated with Mom right??.. Lord, I pray for this family that you turn the father's heart back to his children and family. Let the relationship between husband and wife be restored and trust be restored for your will be done in this situation. Surround these girls and give them peace and comfort that passes all understanding. Thank You and we praise You Father God, In Jesus's Name We Pray, AMEN!! †Everyday Prayer Warrior†
I want to move out of my dads house to my moms...?
I had the same exact situation where I wanted to live with my dad and not my mom anymore. When you're 16 you have the choice on where you want to live, but you have to go to court about it. Instead you can go to court and complain about how although your parents have joint custody, your dad is refusing to give your mom the visiting days she LEGALLY has. If its a joint custody, your dad has no right to tell you that you can't see your mom..
My parents won’t let me move out. I’m 18. What should I do?
Pack. And think while you’re filling those boxes. Where are you going? Who are you going to live with? How are you going to support yourself? What’s the big hurry? Why?Frankly, I’m shocked they want you to stay home. Most teenagers are wired to make parents wish their kid was moving out. It’s part of the “natural separation cycle” as I refer to it. My eldest and I weren’t seeing eye-to-eye on responsibility and academics his senior year. I was so ready for him to see how hard life can really be when don’t you have mom taking care of your needs. Three years down the road and he’s asking for a vacuum and new sheets for Christmas. He’s grown up some. Now my second son has me looking forward to July when he’s 18 and thinks he can move out and support himself now that he’s graduated and doesn’t have to answer to anyone. It’s gonna be a shocker for that one. He has no idea how good he has it and the only way he will learn is the hard way.I know I was the same way. Best thing I did was move away for college. Just don’t expect to have the same lifestyle or for your parents to pick up the tab. If they’re paying for school you do have an obligation to them. I was happy to provide my own way for the freedom it gave me.
My parents are way too controlling and won't let me move out. i need some advice?
Think of it this way. What will you regret more? living on your own and/or with your fiancee or stay home and live with them. Do what is in your heart. Do what you know is right. Do it soon or you'll never leave and be too scared to so ever again. Don't be afraid of moving out just be careful of how you live your life. if you move out think of a game plan. like say when tier at work move some of your stuff out at a time and eventually move out. your fiance may say to get along with them but sometimes some people are beyond helping and must be cut off from your life or just have less of them in it. In the end it is all about happiness. Be happy and do what you want to do. if you have more questions or want to talk about moving out or how your parents are overreacting you can PM me.
I want to see my brother but his adopted parents won't let me? What should I do?
Ok so here's the back story : I have a little brother, we're 4 years apart. When we were little our biological mom had issues with drug addiction. My older brother went to live with his dad, I went to live with my dad, and my little brother was put into foster care. And soon adopted by a girl named Jen. Jen is painfully overprotective of him! She won't let him see me or my older brother. She's scared that we'll bring up our biological mom to him. Thing is, he was a BABY when all the issues with our mom happened.. he doesn't remember her. My older brother and I arnt gonna bring up a person he can't remember to him. A few months ago, I called her. I brought up how I wanted to see him. She asked " do you still have contact with your mom?" I said " yes, but we rarely talk. Haven't seen her in 2 years." And she said she'd just call me back.. And never did. I've tried calling her and texting her. No answer! In a few weeks I'll be going back to my hometown after a few years on the other side of the country. I'll be staying there for 2 weeks to visit family. She lives the state over where I'll be staying. I REALLY WANT TO SEE MY LITTLE BROTHER AGAIN!!! Last time I seen him was when he was about 3 and I was about 7 when Jen let me go to his birthday party. I'm only 15, what can I do to see him again?
My parents don't let me go chill out on my own and I feel caged. What should I do?
Hello there...I believe I am fit to write the answer as I have suffered, if not as bad a situation, but close enough one.In my college time, I had to ask for permission to go anywhere, while all or most of my friends doesn't even tell their parents they're going out. But seeking permission wasn't my problem at all.I was given a bike , my choice of it of course, but every time I had to take it out, I had to suffer a lecture + fear injection of how I may get killed or get badly hurt in a bike. From my house, the beach is just 5 KM away and I really like going there especially at night at around 8. I love the solitariness. I'll have just one or two other friends with me. I used to come back by 10 o'clock max. I start out late because when I reach home after college it'll be 7.30 PM. I was barred from going out after a few occasions. So weekdays were just college and home for me. Even on weekends, 7 in the evening was the time limit. Never in my four years of college had I stayed in any of my friends home at night or chilled out.I got teased by a lot of friends. It was in college I started enjoying the outdoors but I wasn't fortunate enough.This made me hate my parents. I didn't like coming home at all. I suppressed all my anger, frustration, sadness. I never did anything which almost all of my friends did. I didn't smoke. I never drank. I never went on an unplanned long ride/drive anywhere. I haven't seen how 2 at night looks like outside.The sad part. I recently came to know that they prevented me from going out because they were convinced that was a drunkard. Yes, you read it right.I don't talk a lot at home. I'm quite the silent type. But I never came home where I was lost out of my senses. Ive always behaved normally. If you have read till this, I want to say that don't lose your time arguing with your parents for they won't bow down for you. Be content with what you have. Get a job outside your city. Enjoy as much you want. As for me I still stay with my parents. I have a job with a little salary. The good part, my parents don't define any limits anymore. Even if they do , I wouldn't care anymore. I've nothing against them, I do take care of them but I wont be chained by them.Patience..... Peace
My dad is Dangerous, Im Scared?
My dad was in the marines and i thought that was really cool. But recently he has started to act really weird. He started to abuse my mom, Now they're divorced. And every other week I got to his house, which is terrible. He yells at me and will beat me on RARE occasions. On new years I was watching the ball drop with him and he was really drunk and he had a knife and was like flipping it around and I really though he was gonna hurt me. I asked my mom to not let me go to his house be she says i have too because it was settled in court. What do i do?