I miss my old friend and want to be friends again?
I had this friend who I was really close to at one time but last year we stopped being friends. She really said some hurtful things, and stopped talking to me. Now it's a year later and she contacted me saying she doesn't even know why we stopped talking, that she misses me and wishes everything could be like how it used to. We talked online for like 2 hours and it was just like old times again. However we have not talked since, and I am starting to doubt if she wants to be friends again and I am too scared to contact her. I want to become friends again but don't know how to start and after what happened last year it is kind of hard for me to trust her again. What do you guys think?
I really miss my ex best friend?
We sound a lot a like! A lot of people have felt what you're feeling right now and I was in the exact situation. In middle school I didn't have friends because I had been social anxiety, acne and a love for a video game that I liked to believe was real (ugh the past is horrible). I was not like the other kids. Why this girl became friends with me...I don't really know. But we had so many good times I didn't have to worry about it. As time went on she became sort of...different. She changed from the popularity and the boyfriends, while I stayed that weirdo who couldn't tell fantasy from reality. She became the person I was afraid of. She would call me retard, fat ***, *****, ugly, loser....so many names. She even told me she would be popular if she wasn't friends with me, which was probably true. I left her, finally, my sophomore year, telling her all she did was ditch me and treated me like crap. When I told her I felt alive, but so quickly I died again. Because suddenly I was alone again. Suddenly going to the movies, eating Chinese at our favorite place, just walking around the mall laughing together, it didn't exist. Your mom is so right on this. You don't miss that toxic, stuck up low life, you miss those memories. They're so bitter sweet and so poisonous like she was. Can I tell you something, you may never relive those memories, but that's okay. Because there will always be memories to make, if you stop dwelling on what was. I wanted to go back to my friend someday, hell I want to message her on Facebook and I almost have a few months ago, but I didn't. Because that's the past. And I ruin the beauty of the future with it. Take some time, look for some new friends and find them, which is what I did. Don't think you'll always find them at school, because sometimes you find what you're looking for in the weirdest of places. :)
Can I ever be friends with my ex again..? I miss his friendship... Please help:(?
I feel so close emotionally to my ex-boyfriend, but I know we can never be together as a couple ever again. I am fine with that, but I really miss his company. I miss his humor and how fun it is to be around him. I blatently told him, when he said he had feelings for me still, that we could never be together again and I know he was heartbroken... I feel awful about it. I had to tell him upfront so he could move on... I already have, I have a boyfriend and we have been together for a long time (almost 10 months). Me and my ex I feel have a connection somehow because somehow I can always make him feel better and he can always make me feel better. I haven't spoken to him since that time I told him that we couldn't be together again (a month ago)... and I really wish I could because I really need a friend right now and I really miss his company. What I am asking is is there any way for me at all to be friends with him again? I told him during that conversation that I really want to be friends and I believe we can be, but he said that if we continued to talk at all he'd never get over me... Please help me out.. I really want his friendship. PS. My friend thinks I should try to hangout with him maybe? What do you think?
How can I become friends again with someone I used to be really close with?
I usually just accept the fact that my path probably will not cross them again, and move on. The funny thing is, once I set my thought like that, I have higher probability to meet them again in the future in different circumstances, which probably will be a better situation for you to form new bonds with them. I don’t think forced relationship will work. If you feel you have to force yourself or them to mend the relationship when things felt awkward, I think it’s the sign that it’s not the time. It’s better to just go with the flow if we’re talking about relationship. I mean, you do need to work on your relationship, but if the timing is not right, almost nothing can make it right. Time will surely show you the way. Maybe you will meet them at a new workplace, where you have to be a team? Maybe you meet your other friends and turns out they also bring these old friends of yours along? Many scenario could happens. But first, you have to be able to let it go, for the sake of your own sanity and wellness. To speak the truth, you most probably don’t miss them. You miss the old times and memories of them. They probably have changed right now, and you can be disappointed if you’re clinging and expecting the good ol’ memories while forming relationship with who they are right now. So, let it go… let it go… :)
Should I ask her if she wants to be friends again?
Ok I have this ex-best friend, we had a lot of fights and we have a huge history and a lot of issues. But we where really close, and I still miss her so much, she was like a sister to me. It's been a year and a half and she emailed me out of the blue saying thanks for teaching her to be a better person and shes glad I'm happy with my new friends and that she wanted me to know she doesn't hate me. Like she said "It's like now that one thing always in my mind isn't bothering me anymore. I really needed you to know I didn't hate you or anything. :)" I really want to be her friend again and but shes moved on, all her friends hate and tease me all the time, and I'm leaving the school soon and will never see her again. And I have a completely different group of friends too, and as we've left it on a good note I don't want to make it awkward and ask if she wants to be friends again too and she says no but I don't want to not take this chance and regret it. I don't know, what should I do?
I dumped my boyfriend for his best friend now im really guilty. what do i do?!?
Ugh okay. well i was dating this kid for about a month. lets call him bob. we where best friends before we started dating and i started to miss just being friends again. he was a great boyfriend and not like most. he wasent perverted and he treated me with respect i have no fuking clue why i wanted to be just friends again. anyways, then all the sudden his best frined uh fred tells me he likes me. he told me he liked me first and that "bob" stole me away from him because apparently he was going to ask me out. well that kinda made bob sound like a jerk so i sttarted to like him less and less. and then i thought about fred and how he liked me and how we had so much in common and then i started liking him. well i HATE hurting people and i cant stand it. so what i did is i had my cousin break up with him for me over a text pretending to be me. god what a bitchy thing to do. then a few days later i asked out fred. i didnt want to tell bob because that would hurt him more. but then fred and bob where hanging out and bob called me a ***** and fred said "shut up shes my gf". so that was a bust. then i guess that bob and fred and their friends where hanging out and bob said "holly has been being a ***** latley" and his friend said "why cuz she dumped you? (haha)" and bob said "yeah over text" then his friend and fred started laughing at him. and fred, i liked him alot a first but now hes jsut being perverted. and he hangs out with a bunch of girls and it kinda makes me jealous. he dosent talk to me that much and when hes with his friends he dosent respect me as much as bob did. i feel like i made the wrong choice.. and for bob.. he hasent talked to me since. i miss him terribly. as a friend i mean. he calls me a ***** behind my back but i deserve it. i mean, how would you feel if your girlfriend who you loved dumped you over text then started dating yer best friend and you got made fun of behind yer back by all of yer friends and all you ever did was love that one person? he didnt do anything wrong. ugh im a *****. now im in this depressed stage but yes i deserve it. but i just wana be friends with him again.. what do i do?