Scared to go into Hot Topic?
Ok im 17 and i am not a prep...by any means...but i feel really awkward going into Hot Topic...Iv never bought clothes there just accessiorsies...well they have these cute pants that i really want..but don't want to try them on in there.....okay everytime i go in there people stare at me...and the stores really dark and cramped and there is usually 100 people in there at any given time...is this ridiculous or what
Why am I not scared of snakes?
I'm not afraid of snakes I know a lot of people who are but I'm not like the venom don't scare me spiders don't scare me but a lot of people are scare of them but I'm not
Why am I not scared of horror movies?
I have seen many horror movies, good and bad. I have seen the classics also and got nothing. I don't think these movies are stupid....well some of the bad ones are......but the good ones are good and I love them, but I am just not scared of them. I here everyone around me talk about how scary a movie is, so I watch it and I get nothing, it may be good and I may get into it, but it does not scare me. The thing is I WANT to be scared by a movie, I want to not be able to sleep or go in the basement, but there seems to be no movie out there....I was wondering if anyone has an explination for this or if there is anyone like me out there. I dodn't want list of movies....unless your the type that isn't scared easily but one movie scared you then u can put it, but I want more of a reason if it is known.
I'm 15 & REALLY scared to have sex...?
well don't freak out. no one says that you have to jump into bed. your 1st time is special and it should be with a special person. i don't recommend doing things just because your friends are doing them. I am not a virgin and its more complicated than it sounds but if its with the right person meaning a guy that respects your values and your body then its your decision. just don't be one of those girls that doesn't use protection. And yes it did hurt and i'm 5'1 but height doesn't matter. Sex should be about love not sex. No ONE CAN MAKE THIS CHOICE FOR YOU and no one can and will be there for you to deal with the consequences. And plus you sound very scared about it so don't do it. Save your V card for when you are not scared and when the prince charming guy comes along. It takes a very long time for the perfect guy to come. My simple advice wait because it looks like you are not ready. when you are ready you will never have to question the act you will know and you will never look back and regret anything. good luck
I'm scared I'm not going to be a good mom. Is this just pregnancy anxiety?
I know this is long. an I'm sorry about that ha ha I'm 34 weeks pregnant with my first, and just recently (like in the past couple weeks or so) I've started to get really scared that I'm not ready and I won't be able to handle it. I was always the baby of the family, I've never had the opportunity to be around young children very much. In other words I have NO experience. I've always had a temper. I don't lose it easily though. And I'm the type of person that would just rather be left alone. I'm 100% happier spending time at home with my husband than going out with other people. Now my husband is the complete opposite. Hes had a lot of experience with children. He practically raised his niece and nephew himself. hes much more outgoing than I am. basically hes everything I'm not ha ha. I'm so scared my personality will keep me from making a good bond with my baby. What if he doesn't like me? I know hes going to bond with his Daddy. there is no doubt about that. But I'm scared my son will like him more than me... I have this image in my head of my son just screaming and crying all day long, and no matter I do he won't calm down but the second my husband walks in the door he stops crying and reaches for him. and that just breaks my heart. I know that's silly to be jealous of my husband. But I can't stop thinking these things and doubting myself. has anyone else felt like this? is this just yet another pregnancy symptom? Will these feelings go away by the time my son is here? Just some reassurance and advice from the mommies out there would be nice.
I'm not scared of anything. Is this normal?
There may be things you have not discovered yet that may change that outlook.Fear can be restricting and can disable people.If you have conquered your fears,good on you for doing so.If someone gave you dares,would you do them if they wanted to test you out?Generally there are something's we will not do but try to work around it
Why do I feel scared of being not good enough? I'm afraid that no matter where I'll go, I won't be good enough and that discourages me.
Thanks for the A2A.What you're describing is the feeling of inadequacy. As with all feelings, this one stems from a perception - that you're not good enough to be loveable.STEP ONE: Name the feelingI call it inadequacy, but you can call it something else. Naming the feeling teaches you to recognize it in future when you feel it.You could call it:Not good enoughFlawedDumbFoolishIneptor whatever word you can think of that describes the intensity that you're feeling it.STEP TWO: Identify the cause of the feelingYou probably don't feel this way in all areas of your life. There is probably a particular area in your life that makes you feel this way. Identify it.Try completing this sentence:Sometimes I feel inadequate when I _____________.STEP THREE: Identify a satisfying responseFirst, do a reality check. The feeling of inadequacy comes from a perception. Is this perception real? Are you really inadequate, or do you need a change of perspective? If you're not really inadequate, a change of perspective is all that's needed to get the feeling to go away.Second, if you need a change of perspective, how can you get one? One way I like to use is to talk to people who know me well. They could be family, close friends, teachers, mentors, even clients (since I run a business). I ask them what they think my strengths are.If you really are inadequate, then you probably need to develop new skills or enhance your existing ones. How can you do this? You could identify people you think are good at what you're poor in and ask them to teach you. You could go to a library and read about these skills. You could watch YouTube videos like Olympian athlete Julius Yego did. There are many ways.Finally, adopt this method whenever you feel this way. Always ask yourself if your perception is real or just a perspective that needs to be changed.
I'm scared im not pretty enough or good enough to fulfill my dream...help?
i LOVE to sing, act, dance, and model! although i am a reserved and kinda shy girl, this is my dream. all day i think about singing and new dances. i have never really had any experience and any of those except for a little singing where im on the choir in soprano 1 where my teacher told me i have a beautiful voice. i really want to fulfill my dreams of being famous and being in movies and singing and doing what i love but im afraid that my lack of experience and that i do not think im pretty will stop me. where do i go and how can i be confident and how do i start? am i even ready to start my dream? (im 15, and i would resemble my voice sort of to demi lovato and miley cyrus, i can sing any of their songs and can go to about jordin sparks highest note, i sound just like them so why are they famous and i am not???)