What has been the most difficult situation in your life which you finally overcame?
Thanks for the A2A!Difficulty is based on perception. One of them is when I did not clear my CA!I scored 92% in tenth and 95% in 12th class. I also cleared CPT and IPCC of CA in the very first attempt. I was always into my books. Failure was something which I had not faced.I thought I was inevitable and was arrogant. I was wrong but my stupid brain did not realize it. Some incident had to hit me hard and teach me.So I flunked... Not once but twice. You may very well imagine how much it hurts for someone who cleared well in all the previous exams! That one year was the slowest in my life. Precisely 1.5 years...I had not watched any movie. I did not celebrate any festivals. I did not meet any friends which eventually made them move away from me. 8 subjects and that was all was on my mind! I still have my study table filled with stick notes just to remind me what I came across. But this one incident made my life difficult. Nevertheless I learnt to respect people including the ones who hurt me!Peace!
Sex noises - how to not make it awkward?
Okay next weekend I am planning on losing my virginity to my boyfriend of 7 months (please don't question my decision; I have thought about it and I feel that it's the right choice for me). I am ready to deal with all of the consequences and I will use protection. We love each other very much, and we have talked this out a lot and I know I want to do it. I have just one hang-up, however. Since I watch porn sometimes, I know the noises that occur when two people have sex. To me, it sounds awkward and embarrassing. I know I'm going to be self-conscious about it ..... how do I minimize the awkwardness? It's the woman who is making those noises but I know it can't be helped. Soooo it can't be prevented --- but how do I NOT let myself become embarrassed by it???? I am 21, my bf is 30 and is sexually experienced.
LADIES...... Is it stupid that I only wear pads not tampons?
i did get TSS when i was 17 and it was zero fun so i can completely understand.... I was told by my doctor that some people are just naturally more prone to it than others. I did not use them for many years and even now only for the first day or two then over to pads when it slows down ....It is a personal choice and you should never allow yourself to feel like you are outside the lines when making a personal choice as you are the one who has to live with it....Oh and Happy almost Birthday!!!
My sister saw some porn I was looking at the other day and now it feels awkward between us...?
So the other day, I left a porn tab open (Because I am a man, and I am sometimes forgetful). It was open for a few hours, but my screen was off, and my office light was off. Well when I came back, I found out that the screen had been turned on, and the porn tab was sitting right there. The only other person home was my sister just one year younger than me. So I think she may have looked, and found my porn. If she did, I don't want to bring it up, but if she didn't, then I still don't want to bring it up. Right now it's just kind of been an awkward silence. And I have no idea whether she told my parents or not. So I'm just wondering if I should ask her about it... Maybe I really forgot to turn the screen off even though I thought I did? What if she did look at it, but if I ask her about she might lie and say she didn't, to avoid talking about it. I just don't like being stuck in this awkward silence zone. And I feel really embarrassed that she saw that porn. I just dont know what to do now.
I think guys think I'm stuck up because of my social anxiety problems?
Dear One, Social anxiety is common among young people into their teenage years. You might believe that you are not good enough, but YOU ARE GOOD ENOUGH. You have a lot to offer. You may be an introvert also. This makes communication a bit harder until you learn how to communicate in social situations. Self-confidence will also develop in time, so stop being so hard on yourself. You might feel different from others because of your being an introvert. There are many introverts in this world. Introverts regroup by being alone, which "recharges our batteries." Extroverts recharge by being with other people, and they can wear us out. Being an introvert is normal, as is being an extrovert, and we have to accept our personality type in order to work with ourselves and our issues. I strongly recommend a book called People Skills, by Robert Bolton, Ph.D. This book teaches us how to communicate in social situations and many other social skills. You can download it on your computer. I promise it will help you. Take good care. You will be glad you are reading this book.