Should i apologize to my friend?
Okay so my ex best friend of 5 years and i just got into a fight. I posted a public message saying that i guess i wasn't her friend anymore since she is so far up her other friends ***(mean i know but i had to say it, i was still alittle mad). The only reason i was saying that is because we haven't talked for like 8 months. It's not like i didn't try calling either. She never called me once. And i already knew for a fact she would to the other friend alot! She didn't even call or text, email me-nothing- for my birthday, and that was like 3 weeks ago. And whenever i was talking with her, she always changed the subject and she would start talking about her other friend, and i started getting alittle jealous. I would tell her why the grass is green and she would start talking about why her friend's hair is blue. My first post was alittle mean, so i went back and apologized for it as sincere as i could, but then she came and cussed me out and said she never wanted to talk or see me again! Talking about how i'm a b*tch and all that. She thinks i "ended" the friendship because i was jealous. I never officially said i ended it, and i just figured since she didn't talk to me anymore that she didn't want to be friends in the first place! And it wasnt even because i'm jealous, i dont mind her having other best friends, i just wanted her to treat me like one..but i don't know. I told her sorry for lashing out, especially in public, but i also said i wasnt gonna apologize for being mad. she was being immature for going off on me like that, because she didn't even know what she was yelling at me for or even ask me why i was upset. she just assumed it was cause i hate her other friend, and i dont. I even posted in the other messsage that i was upset because she never calls me or listens/ respects me as her friend.. But what i'm asking is who is wrong? Me or her? Should i tell her sorry for being mad? She blocked me online, but i could always call her. I feel like she is being a dumb ignorant broad but..i still don't want her to hate me the rest of our lives. I dont need to be friends anymore, but i don't want to be enemies..:( XSorry its a long post, but please help!
How do I apologize to a friend who won't talk to me?
That happened with me years ago, and is also happening these days…Years ago a girl online was ignoring me, even in our friendship circle. Day after day I tried to apologize, and oine day she finally brothe and told it was ifne because she wa sjsut ignoring (up to this day, I’m sure she did that so I stopped. Well we’re not friends anymore so I don’t give a *censor* about her)These days? Well, I contacted my former friend, he told me that he he was busy and would tell me when he was free. 1 month (or close to) and nothing, I decided to act, sent the message and I’m like “now either be blocked me and is showing his colors, or he’s very busy”. But I just decided (like, right now) that enough is enough. I wanted to fix the mess I made, but if he wishes to stay liek that. I hope he’s happy with his life. Just removed him from my Skype.The thing I want to say: You can try to talk, but if they don’t want to hear, then is better to move on.
I made my friend mad and I apologized right away but he won't forgive me and now he doesn't seem to care anymore. Is there anything else I can do to seek his forgiveness?
Dude here is the thing .Firstly stop chasing him.the only thing you can do now is to relax for a while and I know it hurts a lot when some one you care ignores you . So give him a little space in this context you reAlly have to give him some space and you should not irritate him more with text as he was not in mood to understand as he was hurt by some reason.Just let him know that whenever he needs you, you will be there no matter what and you are sorry for whatever deeds that you have done .I believe you can go to any extent to keep him happy.tell him that you won't disturb him and will wait for him to get his thing (for whiCh he is angry or moody or whatever that bothers him)done by his own.After that don't text him continuously as it is going to get worse if you do . So wait for the time to flow and heal his pain or emotion that he has.You will get your friend back definitely for sure but stop disturbing him .I have lost mine and never wanted anyone to feel the same emotion so just wait.everything is gonna be ok.Until then try to stay stronger
I made my friend cry and she won't forgive me after apologizing heaps! What should I do?
Well in class on Monday (it's Thursday now) I said something to make my friend really upset and she cried a little.. me and her are very close friends... I'd rather not say what I said.. but I said I was so sorry and it slipped out and I really didn't mean it and she said, "How can you not mean it?" So the day after that, I brought her a box of her favourite chocolate and she said, "I don't want your stupid chocolate!" I know what I said was bad but I really truthfully don't think it was as bad as she makes it out to me. So I've tried to be nice to her all this week by bringing her gifts, doing things for her and trying to talk to the guy she really likes but she doesn't appreciate any of it. I know I'm in the wrong but is she also in the wrong now for not appreciating all the nice things I've done for her??
After apologizing, she's still mad at me!?
Agree with Booban. But the fact that you said she can be needy and looking for attention, gives me the impression that she might have dependency issues. This is often caused by overly controlling or very critical parents. It can make a person insecure to the point where they feel they need a person who seems more certain of themselves in their life to check their thoughts and decisions with, since they have lost confidence in their own thinking and they believe just about anybody knows better than them how they should live their lives. If the person is also kind-hearted, like you seem to be, then they are the perfect person to "latch onto". It doesn't mean she does not honestly like and admire you. But there is definitely something there. She may be aware of it and struggling with it, out of shame, so that she would sound like that on the phone. In that case, be patient with her. No matter what, it is important that you think on what you do and do not want, and set clear boundaries towards her accordingly. You seem to be a kind and patient person, so you will probably not have to worry about being selfish or too hard on her.
Drunk sexx, had gf, she found out, called me out on it, i apologized, her friend keeps bitchinnng at me?
Take this as a lesson to not sleep with someone's else boyfriend... PART II His gf and you are victims here. I did not know and I am sorry for what I said before. It was a nice thing saying I am sorry, there is nothing else you can do about it. Just stay away from her and try to not be alone when you go out. And if she comes talking to you tell her to blame his boyfriend because his penis was his not yours