I Asked A Girl If She Needed Lovin

Should I ask my girlfriend if she loves me?

If knowing that she doesn't love you will hurt you worse than what you're going through now, don't ask. There's a gap between loving someone and not loving them. In that gap is confusion. Some people can never get out of it. These are people who have been played before by people who told them that they loved them, only to use them and take advantage of them. They don't really want love and don't trust it. Other people in that gap are people who feel one way sometimes and another way at others. For instance if a partner is an occasional idiot or bully, but great in bed and often funny, kind and generous, one might feel ambivalent about the whole situation. Some people, mostly women, have seen their loved ones be in bad marriages and want to make sure that they're not going down the same path. They see love and marriage as a way to be under someone else's control and they value their own ability to make free choices way too much to want any part of it so even if they love a person, they're slow to give into it.If you said it and she didn't, there's a clear indication that there are some issues there. If you can stand it, let it go for a few days. Figure that the situation isn't going to change much in that time, but you've given her a lot to think about. When you're in a private setting the next time, bring it up. Tell her that you realized that there must be some issues holding her back and you wondered what they were. The alternative is to ask and either be told that she doesn't love you, though she may, or be told that she does love you even if she doesn't.

I proposed my love to a girl who was my friend, but she said she needs time to think. What do you think will be the result?

I think you are one lucky guy who is over anxious and unable to read the signs the girl is sending you - a big surprise to me. She is into you! Don't push it. Give her time. Approach again in vacations as she says. Meantime, you too study well and aim to pass the exams with excellent marks ( as she intends) for they are going to decide your future. The reason for her asking time is mainly not to get distracted with romance which will affect the preparations for the exams. And, to me, she is absolutely right. I hope you too will agree. Be happy and don't forget to send me your wedding invite later!

I ask my girl if she loves me, she says "I don't know", what should I do?

Is she a girl you know or your girlfriend?If it's a girl you know or don't know, and you asked her that, then you made a big mistake in doing so. Many guys do his. Typical needy and desperate behavior which also comes from lack of maturity and experience.#It is asked like a needy guy who wants validation.It is asked with mindset of supplication.It is asked for that yearning, hunger for a response to be accepted.It comes from a weak position. Fear.I never ask a girl this. I never ask a girl I like this and sure fucking don't ask a girlfriend this either. I don't need her validation, acceptance but I look at behavior not words.Don't ask girls this question.If it's a girl you like, never ask this question because it creates anxiety, awkwardiness.Instead, you approach, tease, flirt, be fun and leave all this romantism out of the equation. That should never come into place until she has emotionally invested, shown interest herself, dated you for a certian span of time, and you fucked each other, and overcome challenges together.Then be romantic because then it isn't weird and creepy.But even then..do not ask a girl "do you love me" like some guy needs her acceptence, some validation or response. Do not play the testing game.You will get burnt becaus you're talking to their...EGO and ego loves to feel important. Love to think it's better. Love to get attention and drag it on even when ego is not even interested.You do that you're telling this girl, "I don't know who I am. I don't know where I stand. I don't have options. Please....please...I beg you, tell me you like me. Tell me you love me. Please tell me."They won't say, "yes."They will say, "I don't know."They will say so, because it is ego.You need to approach other girls and get some experience under your belt. Don't show affectionate behavior to girls in beginning. Not intil they have emotionally invested in you and gone through what I mentioned above.

What should I say when a girl asks why I love her?

You should try these lines…I love you because I do. love you because the Universe showed me the way to you. I love you because my heart beats your name, my mind drowns in your eyes, my soul feels yours even when we are miles apart.I love you because I have no choice; I didn’t ask to love you. I didn’t need to love you, but I love you just the same. My arms aren’t filled unless you’re in them and my thirst is not quenched unless you are the drink.I love you because I feel comfort in being out of my comfort zone with you by my side. I love you because every cell of my body responds to your touch, to your look, to the way you move and the way you sound. I love you because something, somewhere, directed me to you.It was my soul and you are its mate.Through the paths we have taken to one another, I have loved you. I’ve played in comfortable places among comfortable people until I had no choice but to leave there to come to you here. I battled the gods themselves and faced the raging storms of hell until, one day, the clouds parted and your eyes met mine.I waited, impatiently, for you until that shock from my heart announced your arrival.I know you are scared, my sweet Angel. I know you feel the pangs of fear and the dread of a journey of which no arrival is guaranteed. But I promise you this: when the demons come I will stand strong with you at my back and you will be protected. When the brimstone comes raining from the sky I will shield you until each storm passes. When the swine and malcontent arrive, I will fight them and when the battles are over and the storm clouds are gone I will hold your face, look into your eyes,and you will know why I love you.Thanks for reading…

I love a girl who told me that she had feelings, but not anymore. I don't want to give up, I want to get her feelings back. What are some suggestions about that?

Before I answer your question, let me tell you my story.I dated this guy for about six months, but we broke up. I missed him like crazy, and I still miss him so much. I tried talking to him several times, but left me on read. I thought that I could still make him love me again, and didn’t stop trying. I was really dumb now that I think about it. I should’ve known that his feelings turned away long time ago, and I should have really stopped it there. I feel like I ruined our good memories together because of how I acted afterwards. I still like him, but I know that there is a 0% chance that we would ever be together, so I’m not hopeful anymore. I learned to be a little more chill and not care so much about him. I miss him to the point, where if I’m talking to someone I like, it feels so strange because it’s not the person I’m used to. It makes me want to stop everything and just tell my ex that I miss him and love him so much. Many times I had to stop myself from calling him. But I need to let it go. I know that it won’t work out, so I need to let it go. I regret so much of the wrong things I did to him when he was next to me, but there isn’t a point of regretting anymore. I learned my lesson from him, and I just need to stop making more. It just pains me that we won’t ever be the same, and he cannot be the one I can cry to, and say I love you to.Okay so your question, I think that maybe you should stop and leave it the way it is right now. It can ruin the good memories she had of you, and she might even grow tired of you. I know that it’s hard, and you want to seize the chance every time you can, but you gotta let it go. It takes awhile, and it might even take a couple of years. You’ll get better as time goes by, and it’ll slowly start to get dull. Her feelings are gone, and there isn’t anything you can do to make her fall for you again. You need to act naturally and live as the person that she liked before. You cannot force her to like her, but you can make her fall for you again naturally. She did love you at one point, so you just need to know what kind of you that she liked. Don’t text her or call her, no matter how sad you are. Be the same old you and if she falls, she falls for you. If she doesn’t she doesn’t. Find another woman who will love you. I can really relate to your question.