I can't remember if I did something bad?
When I was 15 (16 now) I used to go I used to go on a site called Omegle. The reason I went on there was because I wanted to have cyber sex with girls. I know it was a stupid choice I got over it. But I had a very traumatic experience on there and it made me stop going on that site. Anyway when I was looking for girls to have cyber sex with I only showed my face because I thought it wasn't right to just show my dick to girls that didn't want to see it. But as I started to think about Omegle a few months back I started to think about what I did on there and I think I might have showed a girl my dick without her consent. But I don't know I can't remember If this is just some stupid coping thing my brain came up with. Because when I do something bad I usually regret and worry about it and feel bad. But I don't remember doing something like that or feeling bad. But I think my head is making up fake memories. Is that possible?
I did something really bad?
Its a long a devastating problem, I will try my best to cut this short, so i dont waste your time. To start with My names Tiara and im 13 Me and my little sister play a game called habbo hotel<(its like IMVU its a virtual world where u can go into rooms and chat to other people.) You can have an avatar "female" or "male". I decides to make a fake male account called Jack Harper and i said to her online "Im 45 and i know where you live" then i thought she was going to say "OH I KNOW ITS U TIARA" but she didnt, so i countinued then i said our address and phone number.She ran and told me and i quickly close down the browser to pretend i was doing my school work.I had to pretend to be shocked then she left and i was laughing, i quickly made a fake facebook account to make jacker harper seem real and put a picture of an old man, and then i wrote a status saying "I hacked your computer" and i wrote a status with our address number, and everyone including my nan pop cousins number to seem like a creepy stalker, i pretended to be scared and told me and then the next day she said shes calling the cops, i freaked out and i had a small panic attack And quickly logged onto the jack harper profile and deleted it all but she still called the cops, they came to thr house to interview my sister and they said to my mum to copy and paste what he writes to them, i calmed down and made another jack harper profile and started writing more abusive stuff like "Im going to rape to" "i just raped a women and murdered her, your next" People online found out i was jack harper and they told my sister and my sister told mum people online severly bullied me for 5 months, saying i was an ugly little wh/ore.I cryed everyday till i became Suicidal And started to cut very deep and wanted to committe suicide.I then convinced mum and my sister they were lying and she believed me.My older sister then saw my selfharm cuts and she told mum and now i have to see a counselor.I feel so awful im lying..
I did something really bad, how do I stop feeling guilty?
I don't want answers which begin with WHORE or SLUT or anything, I don't want to be judged because I simply made a mistake. It's quite a long story but I'll summarize it as much as I can. I joined this school 7 months ago and I started liking this guy and he liked me as well but because he had a crush on my really good friend before me, he started dating her. I got really mad at her and we had a fight because she knew how much I liked him.But I forgave her because I hate drama and i just wanted everything to be normal. I started getting over him and well, I am. We began to talk as friends and then I met him at his house one day when she was out of town.. We were just hugging and sitting on the bed when he was teasing me about having a little fat and i said I wasn't. We were just joking around and then he put my shirt up a little bit and i started putting it back down. But then later, I mustn't have been thinking about the consequences and I was fidgeting with his shirt button. He undid all of them and lifted my shirt up even more. We were just hugging on the bed and then he took off his shirt and started touching my breasts, we continued hugging and kissing on the neck maybe once or twice. I didn't stop him but we never kissed, not even once. We realised at the end that what we were doing was wrong and I didn't want to hurt her and it wouldn't happen again. I've seen all over the internet that whenever this kind of situation arises, the girl is called a whore for doing this but I'm not like that, not at all. I can't tell her because she's been in this school for 4 years and she's extremely friendly with everyone and they're all like her best friends, no one will talk to me and I'll have ruined their relationship. I know he loves her but we had a connection and I feel horrible, I hate feeling guilty but if i tell her or anyone, it'll just make it worse for myself and him, everyone will form judgements about me and I've been so stressed out this year I don't think i can handle everyone hating me for something I'm not. I made a huge mistake and I know that but I'm not that person, I feel so bad for her and its no excuse for what happened earlier between us. I just want to forget about this whole thing and never speak of it again. I'm scared that everyone will find out, I just want to live a normal life at school without being called names. How do I stop feeling guilty? Please no mean comments, I'm really confused.
I did something really bad and cant tell my parents?
there was all these link and i was clicking them off and i clicked two by accident and one said child porn and busted and the other one said granny sex and it was really disgusting i didn't mean to do it and my mom is going to think im lying and did it on purpose
How can I stop feeling guilty over many bad things I’ve done?
I know many don't want to hear this, but it honestly just takes time, support from loving people in your circle who can hold you accountable, and the Lord. I used to be a piece of work. Everyone, including my family knew and thrived off of that information. When it was time for me to turn in my ignorance badge, my family was completely against me. They constantly reminded me of the “old me” and that is what helped me bury my face in my hands feeling that they were right. I then tried church to cover the pain and shame but that didn't help either. It wasn't until people who actually knew the Lord introduced me to Him. They showed me what love was despite how wrong I'd done them. This never got in the way of loving me. Telling me that I needed to get it together, let go and let God, and not allowing me to wallow in pity were some of the best actions taken and words ever spoken to me even though they hurt at the time. They placed themselves in harm's way to bring me out of my own self inflicted darkness into the arms of God. They are my family and I love them for their sacrifice to love me- the unlovable. I no longer act like I used to. No one can manipulate my emotions. I'm not giving away my body in hopes that men will like or love me. I'm no longer bringing harm to those I felt were trying to bring harm to me. I'm no longer fake nor hateful. I can speak the truth of my life without shame even though it was meant to quiet me. I've done some things one of which almost took my mind and then my life. I had an abortion years ago and suffered severely from the pain and shame of it. I couldn't move on. I died with my baby. I don't know how it turned out for other women but for me, there was no coming back from that. But I did. I have. I tell others that they can overcome their shortcomings as well and no matter what the world thinks God will love you. I one day overcame my pain and absolutely NEVER thought I'd do it. YOU’LL DO IT, TOO…WHEN IT'S TIME. Hope this helps.
I did something stupid and embarrassing. How do I stop reliving it and beating myself up over it?
Dear Ayesha: I think we can all relate to a greater or lesser degree to the way you feel right now, since we all have one or more of those stupid things that we'd like to forget but can't. But, may I tell you that the fact that you are feeling so ashamed, and not trying to justify your actions, is a pretty good indication that you didn't mean to offend or embarass your family. And, the fact that you're not trying to play it down or minimize the importance of the event makes me think that you're a sensitive person, not selfish.So, I believe that, since you can't go back in time and undo the damage, there are two things that you can do.One, is to remind yourself that every human being is imperfect and makes mistakes. Imperfection means that we all make mistakes even if we try not to. So, even if we don't do something on purpose, we still need to learn to live with the consequences of our mistakes, and this is your turn to do so. To get over a mistake and forgive yourself doesn't mean that there was nothing wrong; it means that you admit that you were in the wrong but you make a decision to move on and try not to do it ever again.Which brings me to the second point. Usually, words spring from thoughts, and thoughts depend on each person's mindset. Different people think differently in identical situations. So, the stupid thing that you have said may have resulted from a habit of thinking in a certain way. Try to identify what kind of wrong thinking has caused you this trouble. Then try to figure out why it was wrong, and how to change it for the future. This way you would be making sure that the same thing doesn't happen again. And, this is actually the best way to come to terms with your mistake and forgive yourself, because you would know that you are actually doing something about it.I hope that you may find the following information interesting. Best wishes.How Can I Control My Emotions?Why Do I Feel That I Have to Be Perfect?
How should I discipline my dog after doing something wrong?
A 5 month old puppy is a BABY. How is he getting into so much trouble? I would venture to say that he is not being supervised. The next time he gets into something hit yourself on the behind with the stick -- it's your job to supervise your puppy!! You indicate that you've told him "No" firmly. Most puppies think their *name* is "No." Please start telling him what you do expect. The best way to discipline your pup is to *teach* him. That means that when he's chewing on the table leg, you move him away and give him his bone. When he's being calm, you tell him how proud you are of him. Too many humans spend too much time telling their dogs what *not* to do without ever telling what *to* do. For behaviors that have getting attention at their root, you can give him a time out -- leave the room and give him no attention for about a minute. He wanted your attention and instead you did something else. He'll learn pretty quickly to act appropriately when he wants attention. Please don't assume he knows he did something wrong. Dogs are masters at reading body language. Here's what's happening: You find his indiscretion and move toward him, he looks at you and thinks, "I don't know what's wrong, but I'm in trouble!" Because you have hit him before when this happened, he runs away and hides. Wouldn't you run if someone who was supposed to take care of you hit you and you didn't understand why? I sure would!! Remember too that what you call bad is probably just being a dog. Did he chew up your shoes? He's teething and it felt good. Besides, they smell like you & he loves you!! Did he pee on the floor? Chances are that he got too excited or didn't really know how to tell you he needed to go out. Maybe he shredded the whole roll of toilet paper or got into the trash? Very rewarding if you're a puppy!! So, to sum it up: 1. Supervise! Don't let him out of your sight. 2. When you can't supervise,confine in a crate or puppy proofed area. 3. Reward good behavior. 4. Teach alternatives to unacceptable behavior. 5. Try to see life from your dog's perspective. He's not human and will find things very rewarding that you think are just plain gross!! HTH