Would you dump your online friend when ......?
It doesn't matter if that girl doesn't look like a barbie doll in real life! Does looking below average change the fact that she is a really great person to hang out with? Would you want to lose a good friend at the end of the day? REAL friends are hard to find!!! Hold onto them when you run into one. Looks will be gone one day in all women. What will remain is their brains, their behavior, their kindness. Respect that, and you will see that more and more people respect you for being yourself. As for her avatar...she said she looked like that because she was insecure and thought she would lose her "friends" if they knew she was not that pretty! And the guys who have started ignoring her...better for her. She doesn't need "friends" like that. But one thing is for sure...she is one courageous lady who decided to show people her rl pic. It takes a LOT to do that!!!
How do you dump a disloyal friend?
I have a friend who has lied behind my back, physically hurt me, and done serious damage to my reputation at school. We were good friends until last year, when she got this snotty bf from high school. She thought she was really superior and made these high school girl friends and stuff. And she basically is a ***** to me and my friends now. Thing is, i've known her since second grade! so she know all these secrets about me that no one else knows. I can't just "dump" her bc she will spread all of them...i know she will What should i do?? i don't want to be abused by a friend i don't want all my secrets revealed please...help me!
I want my friend to be in a relationship with me but I don't know if it'll happen would it be ok to stay friends if it doesn't happen?
Do you only like your friend romantically, or do you also like them as just a friend?If you can only think of them as a love interest and being friends only feels like “I can’t be with them and this is the next best thing”, then don’t bother. You will only hurt yourself- and your friend too, when they find out that you don’t even think of them as a friend.If your crush is also your best friend and you want to be friends just as much as you want to be together, then keep the friendship. Maybe you’ll grow out of your crush, maybe you won’t, but at least you get to keep your friend.
I have two girlfriends who don't know each other, but I cannot dump any of the two. Am I doing wrong?
hi friend,others peoples can’t decide whether you are wrong or right. it will be consider as a wrong if just over look it as a person has two girlfriends, that don’t know each other. but if you had ask such question here that indicates you asked this question to yourself several times. it means your intentions are not to cheat on them.A person is wrong or right it doesn’t reflect by what he is doing rather it is decided by why he is doing so.So if your intentions are good you can’t be wrong.there may be some reason or conditions that let you fall in this situation. As those conditions that let you fall in such situations are only known by you and can be understand by you because you are the person who faced them. So the only person who can decide whether you are right or wrong is you.. .just think about some facts written here and decide by yourself:why you can’t dump any of them?what is back ground of your girlfriends?what you thought about your (means you & your girlfriends) future?how you fall in such a situation?how serious they are for you?what promises you have made with them?i am not saying that you are right (may be my answer look like that and i am not sorry for that) or wrong i am just giving you a view to decide it by yourself :)
What is the real reason girls want to stay friends after they dump you?
Simple answer is that she values you and your friendship and doesn't not want to lose you just because the relationship didn't work. In some cases to make themselves less guilty. In few cases just to make you feel better. So many reasons.It boils down to whether you (men like me) can see your girl as just a friend if your feelings for her is still so genuine, deep and true.Some people can while many cannot. One cannot be just friends with the one they love and have true feelings for.It hurts. It hurts real bad. It stings. There is a pang in your heart every single time you think about them. You care for them that much and you love them that much. You experienced pinnacle of happiness when you were with them, and now when they leave, you experience nadir of sadness. It really hurts because you still care and you will care, even though they are with you or not. Your heart will still care.But just remember it wasn't easy for them to let you go. Sometimes they leave because they can't see you sad. She left me that way and I completely get her view on this. She cared for me as a real friend and I love her even more. It stings me and I feel how much it would have hurt her too. She asked me to stay away for I can move on, little did she know that she was the one whom I genuinely love after my parents. I am still staying away for I want her to be happy. To be guilt free. I can't see her sad anyday.We all know how much it stings us because we experience it. But we all should know how much it would hurt them too. I really care about her and her happiness still. That is what love and care is all about. If it was just distance and time that would make someone unlove, then love would be an easy thing. It isn't. True love will never fade. It still stings but there is s sweetness in that pain and tears are more sweeter.May be with time you both may outgrow the feelings, and may be then you can be like acquaintances. But it's very rare to be back to genuine friends if you love the other person truly in romantic sense. It won't be an honest friendship. Because friends discuss about anything and everything. You can never discuss with her about her partner or future partner. You can still care for her and love her in silence, but platonic friendship is really tough.
My best friend just dumped me because I'm not cool enough. Should I get revenge?
My best friend Alison (or now ex-best friend) has just turned out to be the most horrible, pretentious person ever and wondering if I should seek revenge? Ever since she formed a band with this random guy she met at a party, she started acting really distant and horrible to me. She would spend all her time with him and when I would call her up and to do stuff and she would make up excuses every time and eventually she would just hang up on me when I called. I finally approached her at school and asked her why she was being so mean and in front of everybody she told me that she didn't want to be my friend anymore, because I'm not artsy and cool enough to hang around with her and that I was such an embarrassment to be seen with. Now nearly everyone at the school has taken her side and avoids me like the plague. She's so frigging pretentious with her over emphasised British accent and her weird vintage clothes. She thinks that just because she is from London and that she skips school all the time, to go to weird places with her band mate that she is the coolest person ever, when really she is just a boring snob. I know I shouldn’t sink to her levels, but I really want to get revenge and have the absolute perfect opportunity. Do you think I should tell her parents that she smokes, does drugs (which I know is true, because I have seen her smoking and doing drugs at parties) and that she has slept with that weird guy in her band a few times (which she told me she did, why we were still on speaking terms). I know her parents would go so crazy, because she is only 17 and he is in his 30’s. I hate her so much and now I have no friends because of her and everyone hates me. I have the perfect opportunity to get revenge, because her parents would be so mental when they found out everything she has been up to, but I don’t know if I should do it. What would you do? I don’t know if it’s going to make the situation worse, but I don’t want her to just get away with being so horrible and mean to everyone.
I've Dumped My Friend But... She's Turned On Me!?
Well, if u guys have read my first question you will find out about my horrible "friend" who spreads rumours, tells off me and spreads my secrets. Taking ur advice I said bye bye... But now she has turned on me. First she takes my boyfriend - he likes me and cares for me a lot. I don't know how she weasled him to like her. Then she tells my friends that I hate them and have been telling other people mean stuff about them. As if that isn't enought - she tells my parents lies - u see our parents are close and she always tells my mum I've gone out to a party. Worse of all, sometimes she gives me these smirks like "you're just totally sorry u dissed me!" Guys what can I do to stop this??? I just went on my email addy and I found out she's been sending me spam and threatening messages - I'm not only scared but stressed. This is having a great impact on me and my work at Uni?? What should I tell my so called friend who has been with me from Year 6 to University?????
If all my friends say that I'm too good for my girlfriend, should I dump her?
If YOU love her, why do you give a sh-it what your friends say? Your friends don't know what's good for you. YOU do. And if you base your relationship on what your friends say you're gonna wind up feeling like crap and you're going to regret it for a very long time. You're going to regret not having a great relationship with a great girl. Do your friends honestly know her as well as YOU know her? Most likely not. Do NOT listen to your friends. If they are that shallow to tell you to get a "better looking" girlfriend, then they are not very good friends at all. Do YOU find her to be beautiful? You already said you love her. Don't let as*hole friends come between that.