Why does my face sometimes look and feel fatter than normal?
Like some days my face Looks Slim & very toner but other days its Fluffly & looks round with my chin kess tone & a smalk double chin. Thid normaly happens when I eat unhealthy' it just goes from tone to fat out the cut. & I know its not just me. My friends have notice too. Whats Bihind all this is it water ratiation? Or something?
What does the term "brutal honesty" mean to you?
The first thing that comes to mind is the whole, "Does my butt look fat in these jeans" scenario with the man basically answering, "Yes, you asked and I answer. Your butt does look fat." Brutal honesty is directly answering the question, or directly putting the situtation as it is, no pretty sounding useless or comforting words. As simple as possible. "No, you aren't attractive." "I'm having an affair with your husband." The difference between brutal honesty and being plain mean and nasty is the "honesty word" - you aren't lying but you aren't being pleasant either. Contrast this to being nasty: "You'll never amount to anything!" "You're so stupid!"
Why do people see honesty as disrespect?
Thanks for A2A. Sometimes honesty is disrespect. And not all disrespect is to be abjured; as Aristotle put it, "wit is educated insolence," and we certainly would not want to live in a world without wit! But the "educated" part is key; most of an effective education is formulating and testing your ideas against the favor or scorn of the marketplace, and a lot of people haven't had the benefit of that process. Worse, people aren't very good at distinguishing between "You have to respect me as a human being" and "You have to respect my ideas." Yes, we must all respect each other's common humanity, but your ideas only get the respect they compel. When we have an ego investment in our ideas (as in "most of the time"), any criticism of our ideas feels like a criticism of our being. Some people, usually the less educated, tend to blame the person finding fault instead of even considering the infirmity of their own ideas. The scenario you describe sounds like someone tried for whatever reason to pull a guilt trip, and you called her cookies. That's OK; clearly she needs to become a more inspiring communicator. But it also wouldn't hurt for you, based upon your account of this episode and your self-description, to cultivate more diplomacy. To be able tell others the truth without angering them is one of life's master skills; so far you only have part of that equation.
My girlfriend has asked me to be 100% honest with her. She sometimes looks fat in a dress. So she asks me "do I look fat in this dress?". What should I do?
Funny story to share: Was once asked by my girlfriend when trying on a new dress, 'does this dress make me look fat?" I said "No, YOU make yourself look fat" in the most humorous voice I had. She had this look of "calculation" going on in her head for about to 2 seconds, proceeded to call me a jerk and laugh it off with a punch to my arm. She totally got my humor and I know she was fishing for some info/feedback on trying on that dress(which she looked stunning in as she was very fit and naturally pretty). I've had the inverse where a woman just has no humor and takes everything as a literal insult when I know deep down it's my style of comedy and I didn't calibrate too well my answersMoral of the story: Be real to yourself and speak the truth but don't be too harsh with it lest you run everybody out of your life. Speaking in falsehoods and nice platitudes will always catch up to you later because you then become the emotional sponge that people will depend on because you will comfort them with your soft lies and make them feel comfort. Nobody likes even one ounce of "harshness" in their life and will follow path of least resistance, which leads them to you. Now you have "that" burden on your shoulders. This is a good question and has a deeper meaning that most people skip over by just saying: Don't call her fat. You need a better way to socially calibrate your answers so that they are tailored for each individual and happen to not coincide with how you really feel. People appreciate sincere honest over rude/snide remarks over soft lies. But if you're to scared to give even one answer to her, we already know and can assume the dynamic in your relationship and it doesn't seem like a good one.
Please b honest I'm very selfcontious about my appearance am I fat average or skinny do I need to go on a diet?
u really dont need 2 go on a diiet.....trust mee ur fiine the way u r if anythiing ur a liittle underweiight soo.......ya dont b self consiious
Why is my face so fat? I feel ugly.?
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Guys please answer... am I too fat or too unfeminine......I need help desperatly?
Hello Miss i'v read your problem page. 1. you cant GET somebody to go out with you if you don't fit there intrest , Now lets try an solve this OK, you have "GOT" to show people first of all that you are sensitive and you have intrest in not boxing people and not monsteris about a bad jokengly bit of fun, people arent affraid of you i can see that, you Must gain some controle and start to quieting down, this in a way turns people off going with you, but its atractive for friendship, people probably say your nut's at school and so on, so thats good crack for them to know you, but you can't get everything you want, swollow the pill and hold back on telling the teachers what you realy think of this or that, thats just another turn off for the boys, This tells the boys "NO MEESSING WITH ME" atitude and you literally scare them away from you, Boys don't like to see a very macho girl it posses a treat to them instead show them you can be feminen it seems as thow you'r putting on a show and want be the central point of atension stop that and think about your self your cousing your self to much greef and to much harm quit cursing too much a bit is fine you don't need lots of it, it shows you are in pain becouse you are trying to hard to make every thing possible in such a short space of time! you Probably need to change who you are and deal with what anger is coming from were, at what time, is it an outer source thats cousing this problem, or are you the couse of the problem, are you couseing it, and so on never mind been fat some boys prefaire it like that too, the chances are someone has intrest in you and they afraid of your manly ways, i would think if i were going out with girl like this i woul'nt risk getting in to an argument with you becouse youd probably just deck me with a box, and you have to show them and garentee them you'r not going to floor them becouse theyv sied someting at the wrong time, show how you deeply feel about a comment or gesture and show your caring aswell, have intrest in there opinions and be nice about it and (STOP) trying to hard to inpress by uproar, you are suffering a low selfasteam thats obviuse to me and iv probably never met you befor in my life, Come on you can do this, so what if your lacking a bit you can handle it. Stop your push and shove and people will like you more and maybe even more than they do already, keep in touch! Russell
I told my girlfriend she looked fat in a dress?
That was her own fault. She basically just set herself up for heartbreak. I'm a girl and personally, I don't understand why girls/women ask guys questions like this. I would NEVER ask my boyfriend a question like that. Chances are, if you think you look fat, you probably do. God. It's not your fault she didn't get the answer she wanted.