My best guy friend is ignoring me!?
Wow, I literally had something very similiar happen to me. Me and my old best guy friend straight up ignored each other for two months straight. Eventually, I got sick of it, so here's what I did; I wrote him a long hand written note, explaining everything. I told him why I was mad at him, but I also told him how I missed him and that I was sorry that things had turned out like they did. Finally, I gave him an ultamatium - he could either come talk to me, or I would drop his as a friend for good. And I certainly planned to do that if he didn't talk to me. I'm going to be honest with you though - he did come and talk to me, but our friendship never healed completely. In fact, for a long time afterwards it was still really awkward between us, and we have never become as close as we once were. But the good thing? We're still friends. It's been two years since that happened, and no, we're not close now, but we're still friends, and if I see him I can laugh and joke and talk to him and it's not awkward. We just don't share everything with each other like we used to. HOWEVER. Things may work out better for you. Just give the letter a try - if he doesn't respond he was never worth the time anyway. Good luck sweetie! :)
My best friend has a boyfriend, and now she is ignoring me. I feel used by her and depressed. What should I do?
Sorry to hear of your troubles. Unfortunately, you will find this is common behavior. It usually lasts for the first part of the relationship where the partners want to be with each other at the exclusion of all else. She will gain some perspective over time and realize that life is a balance. Her boyfriend isn't perfect, and spending 24/7 with him will be maddening.It's also typical that she comes to you for consolation when times are tough. These are hallmarks of youth and immaturity. Most people eventually grow out of that behavior as they realize what a friendship requires.On the other hand, part of that realization is that it's not always going to be BFF. Once you are married, friendships might not have the same weight as before. These are the trials by fire we have to endure as we grow. Try to hold yourself together. This arrangement with your friend will change with time. You haven't lost her.Some day she will apologize to you and acknowledge that her behavior was selfish. It hurts like hell in the meantime, so you need to keep your mind busy so you don't obsess. It's very hard to do obviously, but maybe join a gym or do something that involves group activities. Slowly you will begin to feel better. Force yourself to do it so you don't bring on depression. Just pretend that it's part of a new job where you're required to do it.Again, not saying it's easy. Try not to think of this as the end of the world. In a way it's a new beginning. You see how people behave and will learn to protect yourself a little more. You will become a stronger person for it. Promise.
My best friend is ignoring me after I rejected him? :S?
So we've been friends for like 3 years, had sleepover and stuff cause im friends with his whole family The other week he texted me saying his feelings he has for me, I told him "I'll have to think about it, cause I've never thought of you that way." He was okay with that, and then a few days later he says "hey I just want to know if it's worth me trying or...." I said "I'm sorry I think it will be better if we stay friends, I hope it's okay." Now he's been ignoring me, I kept asking him how he was and if he's okay but no reply. We see each other at school but he tries to avoid me. I figured he needed some space, then I called him a few days later and he didnt answer. Then I figured out he deleted me from his phone. What should I do? I feel horrible about it. Should I just stop talking to him since he seems really upset at me, does he hate me? Should I try and talk to him at school or not? Opinions, advice? Thanks x
Why did my "best friend" text me after 4-5 months of ignoring me?
So long story short, I moved somewhere 2 hours away so we can't talk face to face. I don't text her that often to annoy her. Maybe about twice a week. Then she started ignoring me altogether. I thought she might be busy first few times. Then I told her "it's ok that we don't talk often, but what makes me mad is that you're ignoring my texts." I gave her few days, and there wasn't any explanation or anything. I attempted texting her once or twice after that but no luck, so I deleted her number and de-friended her on FB. Then she texted me yesterday out of nowhere. Here's the full conversation: Her: Hey Me: Who is this? (I don't memorize numbers) Her: ________ (her name) Me: ______...? Her: _____ (her last name) Me: And ur texting me because...? Her: I can Me: After about 4 months of ignoring me, now u decide u can text me? What the heck Her: After 4 months of nothing but school work and chores (by the way, she takes all on-level classes and her school barely gives students homework. My other best friend has 2 jobs and busy with tennis and he still talked to me) Me: Then why are u telling me this now? Maybe I wouldn't be a b*tch if u just said so Her: Because I am a blonde Me: Wow being a blonde isn't an excuse to ignore someone for 4 months and think nothing is wrong Her: Ok Me: That's it? All you're gonna say is ok? Her: What do you want me to say? I'm stupid blonde that's not always a perfect friend Me: Maybe u should have said sorry for once! All ur doing is making excuses! Have u ever thought about that? I guess not And there wasn't a reply. Wtf... By the way, I didn't edit the text messages at all.
How to confront my best friend about her ignoring me lately?
I can relate i just lost a friend in a somewhat similar manner, acting like she didn't care about leaving me behind, and well we ended up fighting but i would talk to her but be calm and nice about it, try to reach the middle of the problem and don't be shy about the issue but don't be mean about it either, and if she truly loves you she will see how she is pushing someone important away isn't and there should be enough room for you in her life and her other friends, but if things don't change, as hard as it is, trust me i know, you may want to try and find someone else there are people and i know it isn't easy losing someone close. but hopefully since you guys are best friends. more than likely something should be worked out.