My best friend is JEALOUS of me .....(HELP me plz)?
Wow ..isnt she best ? (just kidding :D ) i think she is defiantly jealous of you and is trying to make herself feel better about herself just by making you feel bad about yourself.Everyone loves you and guys thnk your're gorgeous..shejust can't handle that her Bestfreind is cool and she is almost like Invisable.i think you should def talk to her about this before it gets all worse..maybe in person..phone.text.aimm.myspace..anythin... ASAP.DONT LET HER TAKE CONTROL OVER YOU.Be strong and dont let her insults and remarks get to you.YOU CAN TOTALLY DO BETTER.Yes,you may love her no matter what but i been through the same situation and lost one of my bestfriend in November but Now,I'm so happy cause we dont talk no more and it not a pain in the *** anymore and im so relieved and enjoying my life.Although now I kinda feel invisable cause my other bestfriend is like POPULAR..like i am too but not like on the top and im pretty cute if i say so myself..but that doesnt give me the right to make fun of her or be a total witch(replace the W with a B =] ) .I love her so much and I'm actually going to talk to her today about this situation.TRust me girl,Talking is the only way to go.Andif you dont wanna talk and she still decides to be mean to you,Talk back to her.Insult her and see how she feels.And if she tells you its wrong..bring up the fact the fact that she aint nice either.But seriously,If she is your bestfriend..she shouldnt be acting like thiss..Sometimes its for your better if you leaveeee her for your own good.people come and go in life.Thats life.Just make the best out of it.oh damn i wrote alot. Well i hoe i helped alittle. =] im 14 btw soo im in HS and kinda going throught he same situation . bye bye from new yOrk :DDD <333 [=
How do you know if your friend is jealous of you?
Probably everyone is jealous of someone. I am jealous of how good other people draw or make Minecraft skins better than. I know I can improve like them and get better, so it’s not bad jealousy. You can want something that someone else has, but you can’t get snotty about it. I compliment every skin I love and tell everyone about the artists I am jealous of.They could say positive things like me. My jealousy isn’t bad. I joke with my friends about it. “I wish I had your teal eyes!” So, yes, people who are jealous say positive things to people.However, some people have so much jealousy, though, or they can’t control it, that it gets out of hand and they start criticizing you. “Why don’t you have brown eyes like me,” and, “Oh, you got a B? Well, look at that! I got all A’s!” I get bullied by a WHOLE group of popular kids (about like 6 or something like that) because I am in GATES, I get A’s on my report card, I have a friend they betrayed and they now don’t have (long story xD), and they do not. I never did anything. They are a combination of jealous and just plain rude and liars.3. They could try to stay away from you, so you don’t get compared side by side. Or, the opposite. They may pretend to be your friend and find the juiciest secrets you have and tell everyone (what happened with my friend).If they say positive things to you, continue to be their friend. It’s good that they can still compliment you. When they stop complimenting you, and start criticizing you, you just step away, tell them if they will make fun of you for being you, then you will not hang out with them and deal with that crap. If they start ignoring you or staying away from you, try to talk to them about it. “It seems.. kind of like… you have been avoiding me. If you have that’s okay, but did I do something, please tell me if I did.” Or, just straight up say, “You have been avoiding me. Can you tell me why?” If that conversation doesn’t go well, let it go. I’m sure there are other friends out there.Hope I helped at all! I really hope I did!P.S. I am just saying this from my experience and it has worked, so I am just giving you advice and my answer from the top of my head.
What are some signs that a friend is jealous of you?
well years ago, some of my immature friends acted in these ways, so...not that much now cos I pick em' carefully now. 1) spreading rumors about you and then denying them to your face. 2) trying to turn some your friends against you slowly and definetely and this how you find out who your real friends are, also will try to leave you out of gatherings or get togetthers. 3)making sarcastic comments about something you wear, buy, have that she doesn't. 4) will try to steal your boyfriends by saying mean things about you by spending time with him when you are not there. 5) will act fake in front of you or when you are around but turn into a pitbull towards you when you aren't. getting ppl to hate you eventually by her words. Well, that's all I can think of rite now. I have lost alot of friends, well so-called friends b/c of these types of behaviors from girls who are nothing but so insecure, ugh... oh well, hehe. :)
What are some signs friends are jealous of you?
They tell secrets without you in them they look at you weird they act diffrent around others and diffrent around you hope I helped
My friend is jealous of any other friends I have. I feel guilty and stressed and I don't know what to do?
Your "Friend" is anything but your friend. This is a toxic relationship. While you will feel guilty about it because you care about this person, you need to distance yourself, the sooner the better. If they ask why, tell them. "You have issues that are not healthy for me. I feel controlled by you and I simply cannot do this anymore. You need to get yourself some help for this. Once you do that I can reconsider our relationship but just not right now." Do this somewhere public and meet them there so that you may easily get up and leave. They will be sad, angry, plead with you, make promises to change immediately. "I won't act like that anymore, I promise. Just give me a chance!" You will need to tell them that you are giving them a chance by letting them get the help that they need and being willing to reconsider. Tell them this wasn't an easy decision but for your own well being, it had to be done.Good luck!
How do you deal with friends that you know are jealous of you?
The first thought that comes to me is, have they always been jealous of you or has something triggered their jealousy? Have you changed in some way, accomplished something, been given great feedback or a lovely compliment, or are you perhaps doing something new that might help you achieve a goal or dream?In my last job as a secretary when I was young I had made friends with other colleagues. When I decided to become a mature student keen to learn new things some friends started giving me backhanded compliments that felt more like a put down, or they tried to sabotage my efforts.Another example, is when my efforts at losing weight were working really well, this friend kept commenting about me looking a bit haggard or offering me cake saying I could always go back to my diet tomorrow.Similar things happened with other people at other stages in my life, for example when I finally decided to leave my marriage. Instead of ‘poor Sue’ I finally took charge of my own happiness and some of the people in my life at that time didn’t like it at all!So my answer to your question is, jealous friends do not in your life. You need to be around people who love you and support you, and want what’s best for you. Jealousy can make you doubt yourself and feel bad about yourself.This is what I discovered - those people where I felt uncomfortable being around no longer belonged in my life. When I continued on my chosen path, sooner or later they fizzled out and new people came in, people who stayed, loved and support me as I do them.You can’t change people who feel jealous, that believe it’s OK for you but that they’re unlucky no matter how careful you try to be around them. You must never pretend to be less than who you are just to make an insecure person feel more comfortable.Are you willing to discover how to handle people who who treat you unkindly, carelessly and thoughtlessly? If you do, buy my latest book on Amazon, The 7 Secrets Of Strong And Loving Relationships: Amazon.co.uk: Sue Plumtree: 9780956027016: Books which guides you step-by-step to develop the strong and loving relationships and friendships you deserve.
I think my best friend is jealous of me?
Yes, she's jealous. She shouldn't be, because you guys were friends before all this happened and you treated her the same & stuff.. She's making a mountain out of a mole hill. Who cares what you have or what she has?.. You should just tell her to chill out.. That you can't help that your parents are better off than hers & can afford nicer things for you. If you still want to be friends with her, just tell her that what she has or doesn't have doesn't matter to you & you just wanted to be friends with her because you thought she was a nice person. If she continues on with the jealousy thing, then I'd just have to part ways with her. Doesn't mean you can't still be friends, but I'd definitely start spending less time with her and try to find other friends to hang out with, that either don't care that you're more well off or that are on your parent's level or above. I don't know how old you are or whatever, but you aren't rich, your parents are. You don't have control over the finances or where you live or etc.. That's all your parents. Your friends can't control that stuff any more than you can, so it shouldn't matter. Just find some nice friend that will like you for who you are, not what you have. If your friend can't do that or just won't do that, then maybe she's not that great of a friend to you. Also, you do seem a little stuck up. Maybe she feels like she has to try to impress you all the time & try to keep up with you, because she feels like you're looking down at her or something. People are weird. You should bring up the issue and just ask her what's going on, in a nice way, of course. I'd also try to reassure the girl that you value her friendship & want to be friends regardless of what either one of you has or doesn't have.. If that doesn't work, then give her the boot or start spending less time with her & find friends that don't care if you've got more/better stuff than them.