I'm so ugly, I feel like a monster, what's the point of living?
I'm tired of people saying "looks don't matter" because they do. Whether people want to admit it or not... the better looking you are the easier you have it in life. I feel so ******* ugly... im 5'9, skinny, and I have red marks all over my face from acne, not to mention pimples as well. i don't see how a normal looking girl could ever be attracted to me. i just want to go to sleep and never wake up. why should i continue living if i have nothing to live for but pain and depression...
What's the point in living if I'm ugly?
If the 21st century is all about girls needing to be 'pretty' in order to live... we're screwed. If you're truly unhappy about the way you are, you try your best to change your fate in a way that will make others feel happy and more importantly, you. People often get mixed up with confidence and overconfidence. It's okay to be either one of them. After you are satisfied with the way you are, you change yourself again so it fits others too. There are many 'ugly' people in my school who are extremely popular. They're outgoing. They have a kind and friendly personality. As cliche as it sounds, ultimately people don't look at your face. They look through your heart. They say the prettiest faces are the ones that smile.
Is there any point in living if you’re ugly and fat?
I don’t know whether or not you really are what you described above, however, I think of myself ugly and fat.During my life, I don’t have so many friends, so many people I can talk to or share emotions, let alone romantic love.But, since my childhood, I fell in love with math, physics , and all kinds of science. I majored on Engineering at one of the top colleges in my country and then do a Ph.D in one of the top university in US. In the free time, I also traveled a lot, most time solo, read a ton of books, wrote essays, short novels, exercise, etc..A life of solitude, is the most common consequence as being unattractive. But you are not forbidden in education, in doing fun stuff, in developing yourself.The key is to have fun with yourself, by yourself, find passion in your career.If you really think relationship is most important to you , start to change, go on a diet, know how to dress, be confident, smile all the time. I think you will find people who love you.
Whats the point of living with aspergers?
As time goes on I see no point in living on. I'm very ugly trust me,Autistic and short with a 4 inch penis. Oh but my parents are good looking and not autistic and short. My damn 13 year old brother is taller than me and im 19. My life is a sick joke, therapy or getting help won't help at all. Would you honestly want to live with all these problems? *5'8 *Very ugly *Very autistic *No friends *Will never have a social life. *No hs diploma *Not smart *big nose +small penis *prostatis (chronic) *insanely awkward No you wouldn't. I have to live miserable 24/7 and suffer. I can't believe i got screwed over this bad, I could put 10x the effort as everyone else and still get nowhere. On top of this all people are rude to me for no reason and mean. Usually people have a few problems short but born in a rich family ugly but have a big penis. good looking with small penis etc. My question is ; Why should I continue living when I will never be happy? Is there anyone who can relate to me? probably not. God is clearly not real. If he was he would give everyone a fair chance. It so great to know I can never live life how i want because of genetics. What a joke. It's nice to know my one chance to be here and have fun was ruined. Great.
What's the point of life if I'm too ugly to love?
Here's something to know: love with personality lasts longer and generally turns out better than someone lusting over appearance.Sure, appearance is great and all, but how could you marry and live with someone whom you only love them for their looks for so long? More importantly, even a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship can't go on particularly long if someone is only attracted to their looks.Because looks can only bring you so far in the world. What? That job didn't hire you because you didn't look good enough? Find one that's not so interested in looks, but rather the actual persona. In this case, it follows through with appearance and romance; that cute guy doesn't want to date you because you're what he considers to be “ugly?” Well, that's horrible… for him! He doesn't know what beautiful personality he's missing out on!And here's the thing — you may also need to be more optimistic. Sometimes, people percieve that they have bad traits to themseleves and ignore what people have told them that's good about themselves.Along with that, but friends and people who are acquainted with you are saying this about yourself as though it's fact, when, in true reality, how “ugly” a person is… is just an opinion. As friends, they should be uplifting you! Even if they have to tell the truth — an opinion is not the truth, and no conclusion can lead to you having no pove for yourself. And, as acquaintances… they really shouldn't even be mentioning something like that to you.Finally, ask yourself: how much do you want this love, anyhow? And why do you want this love? Do you truly want to have love — or are you being told that you should love?Anyways — I hope you select the right choice for yourself, and possibly change your life itself, if needed, have it be who you hang out with, or your current thinking, or your long-term goals. I do wish it works out for you.By the way, a few guys, like me, are only attracted to someone's personality. Though people like that don't exist often, I just want to give you a heads up. ☺
What's the point of life if I'm too ugly to get a girlfriend?
I assume you're young. Probably in that 10 year gap between 14 and 24. Usually beyond that point we have a grasp on even a miniscule level of how to get a girlfriend. For me, to be honest, from 12 - 18 I had some of the hottest girls in my school. I couldn't even compute how or why it was happening. I was a skinny 120 lb dweeb, but somehow they wanted me. Then I hit college. Every guy was either an athlete or bodybuilder. At least all my friends and roommates were. They got all the girls and I got to a point where I was a shut in. I was severely depressed and angry that no girl was interested. Then I found steroids, the holy grail to life. I got so ripped and muscular women just fell into my lap, literally and figuratively. Once I had the looks down, I searched every site I could to teach me how to flirt and talk to girls. By that point I was 23. Now I'm 35 and basically divorced. Anyway, that is what I did and it worked. I'm not saying to go to such extremes as to potentially harm yourself, but do EVERYTHING you can to enhance and maximize your looks. Then do what I said and peruse the internet for blogs and forums to talk to guys who have success with women. All I know is they love confidence and humor. Being able to make a girl laugh is the best aphrodisiac. That's all I got. Good luck. Keep your head up.
What is the point of living if I know that I am ugly and never do anything important?
If you think you are ugly, then you are ugly. You are the only one with the POWER to believe in yourself, and until you do, no matter your physical appearance, you will be ugly. Until you decide you are human, beautiful, decent, lovable and have value, then you will always consider yourself below the norm.YOU are the only one who can fix this MENTAL flaw. Start today. Your idea of your appearance has nothing to do with what you see in the mirror.The same thing goes for doing anything important. Until you try, you’ll never know. It’s time to get to work, not pitying yourself.
Is there any point in living if I'm extremely ugly, stupid, socially awkward, and have no friends?
Of course there is still a point to still live. You're miles better off than a rock is - it can't move or make conversation at all or have even the most mundane of thoughts. Of course I'm being a little facetious, but it's still true.Let's deconstruct your statements.First, it really is true both that beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and that, at the end of the day, beauty is unnecessary for the vast majority of things we do in life. Of course it makes some things easier - but believe it or not, it makes some things harder, it's certainly not 100% a benefit in everything. And, there are many things you can do to enhance your looks. I'm not even talking about plastic surgery, I just mean staying fit, taking good care of your skin, and knowing how to select and wear clothes and styles that work best with your body. Those simple things can objectively make a big difference in your appearance.Second, it is possible to overcome social anxiety. Many people start out life socially awkward and, as they grow learn how to keep it under control. Force yourself to talk to strangers in the park or in line at the grocery store. Talk to a counselor about other techniques to battle social anxiety. Talk to them about the pros and cons of maybe taking bets blockers, which “turn off” some of the fight or flight anxiety that make social interactions difficult for you. I was super awkward as a kid even through college, but by intentionally working on it I'm now comfortable talking to anyone, anywhere. It'll take some time, but you can overcome it if you want to.Finally, most people aren't dumb about everything. Most people have at least one it to things they do better at because it interests them. Focus on this things, even if they seem trivial at first. And, if you still don't think there's anything you're smart about, know that hard work and determination can go a very long way toward overcoming gaps in intelligence. There are even people with Downs Syndrom who are able to live independently and happily through hard work and determination. If they can do it, you can do it. I think they're super inspirational, personally.So, go out, jot down some goals, and get started on reshaping your life instead of just moping around about not having been born with a perfect life. As you gain confidence from having overcome some of the things that frustrate you, that confidence will help you make friends naturally.
If you're fat, ugly, and socially awkward, is there any point in living?
I hide in my room all the time. I sleep all day, sometimes all night too. I slept for 24 hours the other day, was then awake for 6 hours, then went back to sleep for 14 hours more. Sleeping is the only thing in life I enjoy. If it were possible, I would sleep 24/7 and live life in my dreams. When I was a kid, I was actually good looking. But then puberty hit me with the ugly stick. There are so many things wrong with my appearance. When I was a kid, I used to be shy, so people thought my shyness was adorable.. but then as I got older, my shyness turned to me being socially inept. I mumble, and say weird things even though when I say them in my head they sound fine, but then I say them out loud and look like a freak. I used to be in good shape, but then puberty hit me and my hips got abnormally large while the rest of me stayed thin (I wear 34 inch waist trousers, but I have thin arms... I look like I should be skinny, but then I'm burdened with these GIGANTIC hips) Then my depression hit me and I've been eating all the time because there are so many things wrong with me, so I might as well be fat too so I have to whole package. I went from 10 stone to 14 stone. I look in the mirror and I'm disgusted. It's strange too, because everyone else in my family are slim and really attractive, which makes me feel worse. I lock myself in my room away from my family, but it is upsetting them. They try so hard to even get me to go for a walk to the store, or to the river down the road, but I'm afraid of going outside because I don't want people to see the way I look. I've been like this for months now, and nothing is going to change and I'll be in the same position now when I'm an old man. I really don't see the point in trying to change my life, because unless I get my brain transplanted into an attractive body, or even an average one, I won't be happy. I've attempted suicide twice (nobody found out), and made countless other plans and wrote countless suicide notes over the years. Is there any hope for me? I'm 19 and I'm missing out on so much people my age do. Life is passing me by. Realistically, is there anything that can help me lead a fulfilling life? Or should I just accept the way things are, keep on existing but not actually 'living', or just end it all? I'm not even sure what I'm asking. I guess I just needed to type this out. I doubt anyone even read all this, so why I'm still typing I don't know..