What makes a guy fall in love with a girl??
I like this question! In order to want you, amongst other things he has to not already have you. Every guy has different taste in girls, and some guys are attracted to somethings other guys just downright don't like. A lot of girls fall for the bad boys by trying to answer this exact question. So, avoid that roller coaster ride if you can. The number one thing you can do is draw out the time it takes for you to submit. Every single guy likes a challenge, and at the very least likes to win. That's what testosterone does. So if a girl is easy, there is no competition and it is an easy win, not worthy of much remembrance. However if you flirt and make him doubt whether or not you think he is good enough for you, he will see that as a threat to his masculinity...and try harder to convince you he is "worthy" of your companionship. You've got to make him work for your heart, don't just lob it to him when he walks through the door. Also, much like girls, guys like to get complements too, which is easy because all you have to do is say things that make him feel more manly. In short... make him feel great when he's around you, and miserable when he is not. Equating you with happiness is pretty much the same as falling in love.
Why does every guy I talk to fall for me?
This is hard to explain without seeming like I am trying to get attention in some way, but literally every single (and sometimes not single) guy I talk to on a consistent basis falls for me. The guy that hasn't had a serious relationship (on purpose) in 8 years, the guy that just got out of a bad relationship and wrote off women before me, men that my friend's are talking to and interested in- executive types, lawyers, blue collar, private business owners- you name it, pretty much every type of guy has fallen for me. I am pretty, I have a good career, a good head on my shoulders, I'm worldly and real but this is excessive. At one point I had 3 marriage proposals in a time span of two years. I have had my boss fall for me (not good) and my male friend come out and tell me after his divorce was final that he had been in love with me for years. The two long term relationships that I had and ended up breaking off- neither of them have found someone promising since me and those were 4 and 8 years ago. I am in my mid twenties and this type of thing has been going on since I was 16. I honestly feel like it could be a problem within my personality. Something where I do something and people are drawn to me.. Maybe I have some innate sense on how to manipulate a man into this without even wanting to? I don't know. I hate it because I'm at the point where I want to get to know a man slowly, but when they come out with this it ruins the whole thing. Any insight? You aren't going to hurt my feelings, honest opinions are appreciated. *I should also mention that this is usually without any physical contact ever taking place
If a guy always waits days to text after our first few dates, is he not into me, looking for anything serious or is he trying to not appear so eager?
Generally it depends on the type of guy he is.Most men don't text back because he doesn't want to come across as eager because he doesn't want to scare you away.On the other hand he may be very busy and doesn't want to constantly text or call unless it is to meet up again.Then there is the trick to make you think about him which you're doing now! Which allows him go have a grasp on you.However you know the person more than me, what he is like, his dating history and what he wants.I'll give you a story though of a family member.Me: I've felt very lost like I don't know what to do anymore since we broke up.Uncle: you'll feel like that Mikey, it's normal you're learning.Me: it's weird. We spoke everyday, shared some much, loved one another and I just cannot believe it.Uncle: when things end people change, you'll find someone who is right for you. It won't happened all of a sudden but it will happen.Me: I don't know…Uncle: I'll tell you a story. When I met your aunty for the first time I though “wow…she is gorgeous. I am way out of my league with this woman.” we got on and had an amazing date. Anyway after the date we both said bye and headed home. I wanted to text her so badly, but didn't want to come across to strong!Me: so what happened?Uncle: your aunt texted me the very next day “I didn't know whether to text or not, but I wanted to say that the date was really good and I enjoyed being in your company!” I felt completely the same way and that's when I knew she was the right woman for me.They've been married for over 12 years now and they love and fight but that's life but that little story sprung to my mind.
Girl texts me everyday, then starts ignoring me after last date.?
If have like almost the same situation... I don't know but now it's like the second time this is happening to me. See what the mom have to say, and maybe try to call her, and ask her why she's ignoring you? Maybe just don't text/ call her for a day or 2 and than call her to see what's wrong. Hope this helps, you are not the only one in this situation my friend..
What does it mean when your ex immediately finds another guy after you break up? Is she just really sad and dependent on others’ love because she can't love herself?
Most people that want to end the relationship, come to that conclusion long before telling their partner. And so, they grieve while they are still in the relationship. This does not necessarily mean that she started seeing someone before you broke up, just that she had already moved on in her head and in her heart.So, what appears to be immediate, may have been brewing for some time.Whether or not this new relationship will last, it’s too early to tell. It could very well still be a rebound relationship because even if she had moved on from you while you were still together, the advice is generally to give yourself time, before jumping into a new relationship.Most rebound relationships do not last and sometimes, the person ends up having to heal two broken relationships at the same time.There are some people that don’t want to feel the heartache and so, will quickly jump into the arms of another but they are just postponing the inevitable. She will eventually have to heal from your broken relationship.Trust me, you are in a way better place than her.
Is it possible for a guy to fall in love with you within 5 days?
In some ways yes, but it is probably more like puppy love. Many people will say well being in love requires trust, experiences, memories, etc. But, if they don’t agree to at least puppy love then they most likely never went to summer camp. Being in love means different things to many people, but if its the love where you can’t stop thinking of the person, you blush, your heart races, and you are totally in bliss. Then your love is like a Disney movie. Ever heard of love at first sight?A piece of advice do not get married in 5 days or you will regret it. Puppy love is falling in love but its different than the love people grow in time. It often doesn’t last. Think Taylor Swift :-)
Why do guys fall asleep after they ***?
The reason he falls asleep is because your boyfriend is an inconsiderate lout. But the reason he's sleepy is that an orgasm is a huge adrenaline rush that leaves the body a bit fatigued, especially if you're not in good shape. But being sleepy does NOT mean he has to fall asleep. He could power through this phase (it doesn't last forever) if he wanted to. EDIT: Bullsh*t, he IS inconsiderate. Sleep is NOT mandatory for men after an orgasm. We have the ability to stay awake during a boring movie or staff meeting, drive home after working late and staying up with a sick child...all when we're sleepy or would even describe ourselves as "dead tired." A boy may fall asleep after sex, but a considerate >man< will attend to his lady's needs instead.
Can a guy really fall in love in a week?
Ok so me and this guy started having this thing...... We talk all the time and we have been for one week he had seen me around a few times, then he Finely got my # and we started talking then a few days ago he told me that he was in love with me. It was a big surprise.... I knew we had gotten really close but I was still surprised.... Anyway I want to know is can he really be in love. When he told me why he thinks he is it sounded like someone in love but still its been a week