I FREAKING HATE MY FAMILY?
I feel your pain, but at least your parents don't insult you... My dad has called me stupid (I've never gotten less than 4 A's, and I'm in a challenge class), and my mom has called me a hooker (I've never had a crush), and anorexic (I used to be, but now I'm almost overweight). I get cut off a lot too. My parents have no manners. I don't even talk much, yet my dad tells me to shut up. My mom seriously has a amplifier in her voice box. Her voice is so loud it hurts my ears, no joke, and she's always screaming at me. She constantly reminds me of how much I'll fail in life if I don't practice more, study harder... she never graduated middle school, can't drive, and is unemployed. She has absolutely no right to judge my life. My dad is working, but he doesn't let me buy anything. Yet he manages to donate a hundred dollars to church every week. Which leads up to my next point, that he's a religious zealot. He doesn't approve of my music, my style, my language, he doesn't approve of me. They are both so damn rude, I can't stand being around them. They purposely chew with their mouths open, making loud noises just to annoy me. My mom gave birth at fourty-two. It's just plain wrong. They're so old, yet so immature. Heavy metal is my only escape, I lock myself in my room and turn it up full blast. They gave me hell the first few times, but I think they're slowly getting numb to it... Sorry for whining about my life, but the point is, you're not the only kid who has family problems. Tolerate it until college, and you'll never have to see them again. Besides, you have friends don't you? Don't say you have "no one"...
What do I do? I freaking hate my parents so much and they never support me! I just want to run away.?
My parents only "love" me when my room is clean and I have straight A's. Sooo long story short, I'm a model and actress. A few weeks ago, a got this HUGE runway job and my agent called my mom and told her. Little did I know, my mom told her I couldn't go but only because I was going to miss school. Also, she won't take me to an audition I have for Disney channel. I'm not going to lie, I have a serious career and having parents that hate me don't go well. And my dad also hits me but that's another story. And "eve" isn't my name... But yeah bye
I freaking hate my niece, what sould i do?
It is hard to have such an age difference between you and your sister in order to have a good realationship. Unless she is really immature she probably feels more like a parent to you. Or if she is completely not involved with you she probably feels like you are a burden, in her way to raise her child the way she wants to. There isn't much you can do. Stand your ground. You are almost a man grown. Listen to your mother. Treat your niece like a friend and there won't be such a distance between you. If is often hard for boys your age to have a friend that is a girl. If you live with her it should be a little easier. Treat her the way you would like to be treated. Over time that always works. IF they continue being assholes until you are an adult, then you can figure out how to handle it at that time. Just remember that you aren't always right and there are always 2 sides to the sames story. No ones writes that story without somee sort of bias.
I'm 15 and I hate my mother so freaking much?
-huggles- I'm sorry dude. I'm in the same exact spot you're in. I'm almost 16 (yay driving :D) and my mom does pretty much the same thing. She thinks I fail at everything I do grades, sports, whatever. Nothing is good enough ya? This is what I did: -You into music? Music is my whole life. Dive into that **** and find music that calms you or makes you feel better. It's like therapy; amazing :] -Friends. Friends are really important in surviving stuff. Spend as much time as you can with them. After school, weekends, holidays, ect. It'll help keep the peace because if you're not around each other as much you won't have time to argue and she'll be in a good mood since you guys haven't fought. -School. I don't know if you're like me, but I usually hate school. It sucks. But get into clubs at school. As many as you can (or like) that will give you stuff to do after schools/on weekends that you won't have to be at home. And some of it is actually pretty fun :D last... -Ignore it. Just ignore her ****. Cry if you need too but...just think about how when you're 18 you can go wherever you want, be whoever you want. Completely free. And it will be amazing. I figured that if you just ignore it, it won't hurt as bad. When she yells at you, don't fight back, do what she says and then go watch a movie, read, or listen to music or whatever. It'll save so much drama. Just don't do anything stupid that will make you guys's situation worse. Don't be rude, or hateful on purpose. I don't really know if you're super depressed about this like I was, but if stuff gets worse e-mail me or something if you feel really bad. (it would actually kinda be mutually helpful o-o know what I mean? lol -sounds like super creeper- oh well) if not me talk to your friends :P
I freaking hate my step dad?
God, hes an asshole. Sorry for the language. Im 16 and about to be 17. Ive known him since I was 9. But the first time I met him was the weekend my mom said they were getting married. Turns out, my mom cheated on my real dad with my step dad. Long story short, I havent seen my real dad in almost a year, nor does he want to see us. But anyway my stepdad always freaking yells at me for every little thing. There are 6 children in all and it seems like anything I do he always finds something wrong, or I'm always the "bad kid." God I mean, we get in fights constantly. I get yelled at around 10 pm cause there are a few dishes left in the sink, so when i go and do them, i go back to my room. Then i hear slamming and the sink running so im like what did i do wrong? and hes like everything, you cant do anything right. I hate my life, my stepdad is not the main reason I hate my life though. I seriously want to move out, NEED to move out. Then just a few mins ago we got in a fight over the kitchen AGAIN, but he's like "this is the reason why your not getting a car" and i got so fed up with it said "no, ive been waiting to get a car since i was 16, you even promised me every single month this would be the all of my month, but im tryiing to save up for one but all of my paychecks go to freaking gas, cause you make me drive the van. it also goes the car insurance and my phone bill." God, I need to get away.
Is it normal to hate your parents?
Yes, its totally alright to dislike my parents.Now where your own parents are concerned I'd encourage you to examine the relationship that you've got with them.Most everyone disagrees with their parents at least occasionally. And especially during adolescence it's natural to not always see things eye-to-eye!The whole point of raising children is to hopefully see them estiblish themselves independently of their parents one day.Usually during early childhood we're close to our parents. Then a shift during adolescence where there's distance. But in the end most people will gravitate back towards a healthy relationship again.But that's not always the case where all parents are concerned. Ill be honest, no I'm not overly fond of my own parents. Especially my mother. We have very different ideals. And one day I'd like to mend the rift between us.However if that day never arrives then I'll be able to cope just fine.There's no rule or law stating that we must get along. It might be unusual but if that's the case then so be it.Now I certainly do not disrespect my parents in their home. I always try to be civilized. Once I stopped worrying about whether they approved of my personality, it took off quite a bit of pressure too!
Why do parents hate hickeys?
Dear Savannah, Hi, I am a parent, of two boys and a girl!! Funnily enough I remember my parents freaking out when I was a teen, if I got a hickey and thinking, "Wow ease up, what's the big deal". However as a parent now, I think the idea of it is scary, wondering how much has happened, knowing that your baby boy is growing up and could be doing things that he is to young to be doing, even the thought of my 14 year old kissing a girl, scares me a little, lol...And don't get me started on my daughter, scarier still!!! Do you speak to your Mum about how she would be if it was you, maybe getting her perspective would be helpful....Us parents do sometimes overreact, but you have to remember, that our children are always our babies and watching them become Young women and Young men, really tugs at the heart strings!!! I must admit I do not like to see any bruise on my child and maybe it will be me on here next, asking you how I deal with seeing a hickey on my oldest, lol... Be patient, with us parents that freak out, because at the end of the day, it's because we love you!!!!! Hope that helps, Shells :0)