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I Hate Being The Only Boy In The Family

I hate being in my big family!!!!?

Ok so in my family, theres me (13 years old boy) and 8 other sisters and mom and dad. That is 11 people in my family in total. I hate it. All I have are sisters who are boring and always read stupid Twilight books over and over again. The food finishes quicker. Like if my dad buys a box of chocolate that has 8 chocolate bars, we would need to split them and stuff and we each end up getting a small piece. Not only that I hate, but whenever someone askes me how many siblings I have, and I say "its me and 8 other sisters" their always reacting like "OMG! ARE YOU SERIOUS? 9 CHILDREN?? AND YOUR THE ONLY BOY?? HOW DOES THAT FEEL? WOAH THATS AN ENORMOUS FAMILY!" and I hate when people say things like that. Its like, what the hell am i supposed to say? I dont know anyone with family as big as mine. I have a friend who is a boy and has 2 other brothers and 3 other sisters; 6 children in total. But thats different cause he has brothers he can relate to and stuff. I also know another person who is him and 6 other brothers; 7 children in total. Thats also different because he has brothers. but when your the only boy with 8 other sisters, people start jumping. But starting from last year, whenever someone askes me how many siblings I got, I would just say something like "oh its me and 3 other sisters" so they dont start jumping.

Does anyone else have a big family? What can I do to make people not start jumping around and reacting so much to the amount of people in my family? I also feel guilty afterwards because I would lie.

I'm the only boy in my family?

Hey I'll try to keep this short. I am 14 and I literally am the only boy in the family besides others that I never see. But I'm always around girls and it gets boring. I am in a relationship. But my cousins are always making fun of me about her and there's no other males around except my dad and he's a little boring. And I'm lonley and so I hate being social towards humans and I absolutely love animals. But that's off topic. So what should I do? I'm literally always miserable and always want to be left alone or with an animal because of this.

I am the only boy in the family and it sucks.?

I am the only boy in the family and it sucks. I have 2 sisters and 4 girl cousins. I live with my mom and almost never see my dad. I don't have a ton of friends and the friends I do have they are mostly girls. Would it be normal if I feel gay? I don't think I am but I just want to hang out with guys my age. I love girls just that's all I see. I never really had that guy time where I can talk about guy stuff. My whole life I grew up hearing " oh my god that boy is so cute." or " oh my god my hair is a mess." I hate hearing all that stuff I can never express what I feel because they are girls and they don't think like guys. I am 18 and just want some guy time. How can I get guy time. Im on summer break and going to college. I don't want my guy friends to think I am gay because all I want to do is hang out with them but then I don't want my friends that are girls to think I am gay. Its frustrating. Is anyone in the same boat as me?

I hate being the only girl in the family?

I hate it I just hate it. When my parents divorced my dad got custody of is because my mom wasnt the best mom.

Now I am the youngest of 3 older brothers and my dad. They always ignore me like I'm not even there. My dad tries to include me, I know he does but I just feel hated...my brothers treat me like crap, when they get mad at me and their solution is beating me up. Some times my dad saves me from getting beat but not always.
What really gets on my nerves is that my brothers talk nasty about girls when I am right in the room, I mean they have no manners!!

I want to go live with my mom she's changed a bit from what I've seen, but until I the judges grant her custody I'm stuck with my dad.
How can I get my family to treat me better and have respect for me?

I hate being the only boy in the family I feel like a outkast somebody help me please?

Wow! I suddenly see how my brother, the youngest after four sisters, must have felt all his life. We girls have been guilty of all the things you mentioned without ever considering that he might feel like the odd man out. I always thought he was a little reclusive when he didn't participate in family activities. I never imagined that he thought we were shutting him out. I love my brother, and I am sure my sisters do, too.

My only suggestion for you would be to make an effort to participate. If your mom and sisters are cooking, why can't you help? If they make jokes and laugh at the dinner table, do the same. If your little niece visits, play with her. If you are involved in activities, invite your mom and sisters. They might like to be asked to watch your ballgames or to go camping.

If that does not work, hang out with your dad and your brothers-in-law.

By the way, now that my father has passed on, my mother and sisters and I go to my brother for advice and help. He is the head of the family now and age no longer matters. We look up to him and respect him. You will find that your role in the family will change over the years.

How can i deal with being the only boy in my family out of five sisters?

I'm 16 and the oldest and the only boy in my family i have 5 little sisters my parents are divorce so i live with my mom she just had a baby girl a few months ago i'm the only male figure in the household i feel weird i love them very much but how can i deal with being the only boy in the familty out of five sisters?

I hate being the only daughter! What can I do?

I feel like the ideal thing is for a kid to have a same sex sibling, but being an only child has its perks and it's definitely better than being the only girl.

I have a stepbrother, not a biological brother, but it's a boy sibling for all practical purposes. I was lonelier than ever as a kid. If I was an only kid I would get a dog and I would be able to play a musical instrument. I wanted a dog and wanted to play music so badly. I missed out on that because of a sibling. I always came second and he came first. If I had had a sister, I would have another girl to bond with.

I was always depressed as a kid because it upset me so much. I'm an adult and I still resent my mom for not trying for another daughter. I want a sister so much that it's breaking my heart. I remember the bond the two princesses had in Frozen and how Ana was willing to die to save Elsa and it was so sweet it made me cry. I long for someone who loves me enough to give their life for me. Every corner I see sisters bonding with each other. Whenever I see two little girls holding hands my heart hurts because it throws that void in my heart into relief.

Being a woman is hard and I'm sure every woman hates it, but I seem to have born the brunt of those hardships. The sh*t we all go through that boys don't. Periods, bras, PMS, puberty, being in unrequited love, getting cheated on, and that four letter word that rhymes with grape, ALL girls deal with this sh*t and boys never have to have a clue.

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