What should I do if I hate my family?
I hate My family too :(I can remember feeling like an outcast as early as the age of 5. I remember my mom beating me and calling me a whore for discovering masterbation. I was 7 when I was ripped out of a room full of kids and verbally assisted by my mother. As the years went on I was Always looked at as the bad apple. At 11 my mom would leave me to watch my two younger sisters who had formed an Alliance against me. It was. Constant bullying. At 12 I was Labeled a slut. I wasnt Even sexually active. At 13 I was A whore and a druggie. Again never even tried either. At 14 a was told to stay home from school because some girls wanted to fight me and the school I went to was full of racists and druggies. Mind you I am A white girl. The racism was coming mainly from a group of Guamanian girls who hated me over a boy. At 14 my moms friend tried to have sex with me. He was 36. Guess who my mom blamed for that? 15 I finally Had sex. I didn’t know how to handle that at such a young age especially with no real sex talk other than ““if you have sex you are a whore and nobody will marry you and you will be a waste”I got Pregnant. I was About 5 months along when I finally Told my dad. He forced me to have an abortion that almost cost me my life. He didn’t care. I had To write goodbye letters to my family. It was constant abuse again. Because now. I really Was a whore to them. At 17 I koved Out. At 19 I got Pregnant. At 20 my daughter almost lost her future. I struggle every day to stay happy and to feel the love of my children and the love of the small percentage of good people still out there. I have No real home and I have No real family. Life is really hard for me right now.
Is it wrong to hate my family?
i ******* hate my family!! esspasialy my dad all he does is eat, sleep and go to work and he barly does anything there! he is a ******* pervert he always thinks its ok for him to talk to me about certain stuff but its not! I hate him. iv told him that. iv ran away nothing seems to work its like hes out to get me or somthing. When he gets mad he chases, puncehes, or throws things...CHILD ABUSE and i told him that i wanted to talk to a councelior and say that what he does is wrong but no the moment i start saying i want to leave he gets all lovey dovey then the next minute he turns around and ******* gets all pissy its like everything i do around this house ill get in trouble for it. my parents say they want me to get my grades up or i cant do anything but its hard to focus on school when you have all these problems at home! sombody please help me!
My wife hates my family?
Your wife is insecure ... sadly she feels that your love for your mother and sisters detracts from your love for her. Compounding this further, she sounds like a truly stubborn women & she wants to be right - she wants to feel like she has a reason for being angry and resentful - blaming someone else is alot easier than reflecting on her own short comings! From what you have said it truly sounds like you have tried ever option open to you and I commend you for not allowing your wife's negativity to impact on your relationship with your family - your love for your mother and sisters does not mean you love your wife any less... My only suggestion would be to appeal to her to do the right thing ... but more so ... offer her a "bonus" incentive ... whilst I do not agree that this should be necessary .. in this case a reward might lead her in the right direction ... reward her for behaviour you appreciate by buying her a small gift or taking her out for dinner as a thank you! It is worth a try!
I hate my family & want to move out..what can i do?
i struggled with an eating disorder and depression for 3 years...my parents did nothing but make it worse & sweep it under the capret. i got help on my own. now - aged 15 - its pretty much gone.. & i loathe my family for just watching me go through this ordeal. they just think i ungrateful, my dad doesnt know i know about his affiars & my mom thinks ive just forgotten about the way she abandoned me - no good mother does that. i really dont want to live here anymore. i might go to a friends for a bit, or see if i can board at my school... what else can i do, because this whole situation is pushing me further & further back into my old bad habits & i really can not afford to be like to be llike that again; i have my GCSEs this year, and ive only just started gaining friends & confidence back. help. much love, Rosie x
Why do I hate my family even when they are so nice to me?
When I went home for winter break last year, I remember feeling similar things. At one point in time, my mom and I were alone driving back from some store. To prevent silence she began barraging me with questions about how I felt about my grades, my friends, my extracurriculars. The questions that were being asked were mundane and boring and a waste of my time. I would rather there be silence. I told her so, and explained how when I am home, I feel like I get annoyed a lot because her and my dad were boring.My mom was silent.“Mom?”In between tears, she explained how she and my dad miss me a lot, and when I get home, I’m always so silent. When they try and talk, I get irritated and shut them out.She told me she missed how close we were, and how we don’t joke around and how I am always grumpy. She said that she and my dad are only doing their best to talk to their son, and how I’m expecting way too much from them, and being too hard on them.It opened my eyes to the fact that I’m being really hard on these two people who raised me and cared and nurtured for me. I’m being closed off and quiet and giving nothing, when they’re kind enough to pay fully for my education. And they’re not even asking for that much.Since then, I still have my moments of annoyance but, overall, a little understanding and empathy went a long way.Now, my home situation is good. I’m not sure what yours is like. But odds are, your parents miss you and just want to be with you. You may have discovered that your way of having fun is very different than theirs. Ask them to do more things with you, and have family trips. Explain how you feel frustrated being cooped up (keep them out of it), and that, while alone time would be good (if that’s what you need), also explain you wish you all could do things together. Whatever you say, though, make it from the heart, and this will figure itself out. Best of luck.
I think I might hate my family. I don't want to but I think I do. What do I do?
I would suggest seeking the help of a therapist to work through it. If those feelings are there, they are there for a reason. Are they verbally or physically abusive? Do they fail to hear you and accept you as you are? Do you feel that they try to control you, or that they don't respect and encourage you? So many families, if not most families suffer from dysfunctional traits.I am in my 50's and I struggled with feelings such as this for most of my adult life. First, I was angry. Then I had rage. I suffered depression and anxiety. At a point I really tried forgiveness and acceptance. It can be so helpful to reach out to a therapist, so that you can have someone to listen and help you sort things out.Ultimately, it was when I was able to get the right help and realize what my own issues were, that I was able to better understand my family and accept them for what they are. I still keep an emotional and physical distance for my own peace of mind. But I no longer hold such deep-felt anger in their direction.I would like to emphasize how very important it is to find a competent therapist. This can be difficult at first, especially when you have nothing to compare. A good match would include finding a therapist who listens, gives useful feedback and doesn't make you feel like you are being judged. At the same time, one should have the feeling that the therapist is not just telling you everything that they think you want to hear. They should offer encouragement but also challenge you to grow. That would be a good place to start. The first steps are never easy, but if you find the right therapist, it gets easier from there!Best of luck to you!
What do you secretly hate about your family? What makes you sick about them or some of them but you have to keep it low?
Let me clear it first, I am from a middle class family from a small town, hardly we had 1 English medium CBSE school there in my time. ( you can imagine the town now, As it in not proper village :p).First thing I hate about my family is no one is concern about the study and future of their child. They are like if he/She want to do persue they can ,we will take care of financial aspects that's it. They dont have any advice for their children no discussion nothing at all.I am the first child to go out for studies ,only because I scored good in higher secondary.(Cried a lot to get my education done).I want to say children need your suggestion they want to have discussion about their career ,their future with family, please be supportive in that, not only the money, we need you too.I think this is the thing that is giving wrong impression to the kids in my family, kids are not even serious about their life and future,even my brother he completed his studies and sitting at home, he don't feel like doing job and any sort of work.Second thing is marriage, Marriage is a task for my family thats need to get done ASAP, crossed 21 get him/ her marry, doesn't matter if you are settle in life or not , what you do for living (papa ki property h na will manage)nothing all ,these are secondary, marriage is primary and irony is the other party of marriage has no problem with this attitude, seems like they also want to get the marriage task done ASAP.
Why does my family hate anime so much?
Even before I started watching anime, my parents have hated it and called it stupid. My mom constantly undermines ANY anime/manga related thing. For example, I have several mangas in the bottom drawer of my bookshelf. My mom happened to be looking through that drawer one day, saw them, laughed, and asked if she could toss them. Once she heard me and a friend talking about anime and just tossed me a dissaproving look. My dad claims that there's a lot of "content" that he doesn't want me, at 14, to see. It's funny how "content" doesn't seem to bother him when I'm watching a "normal" movie or TV show. My elder brother goes to a different school than me and is part of the "cool" crowd that thinks manga/anime is stupid. I'm not even obsesssed with it! I watch it about once a week, whenever my parents aren't around (like right now, lol). My family wants me to make friends, because now in high school I'm sort of a loner, and I do try. It's just that when I do meet someone I like and enjoy talking to (anime-geeks), I'm scared to pursue a friendship because I know my parents won't approve. I don't want my family to always sit in front of the computer screen, watching old Bleach episodes (my fav :). But I do want to be able to read a manga in the family room without being ridiculed!
If my family doesn't like me, why do they keep talking to me and coming around me?
My family hates me. Sisters, brothers, cousins, aunts. They all hate me for no reason. They bully me, give me the death stare. They know they do. But they still pretend to like me. Why? Why would you want to be around someone you don't like? I couldn't stand to be around someone I don't like. I would lose it. So why do they still want to be around me if they hate me? Is it simply to torture me and ruin my life? They act like I'm forcing them to like me. I don't care if they like me. I hate them too. I don't know if they know I hate them.