Im 13, and I hate my life..?
Im a 13 year old girl, and i hate my life. I hate my siblings, they're spoiled, annoying, loud, they dont LEARN. my parents are fighting all the time, and as for my siblings, they dont have ANY patience to teach them how to behave. when i sit and think about my life, i get suicidal. i just feel like, i would be dead already if i wasnt afraid to hurt myself. i dont have anyone to talk to. i have tons of friends.. best friends.. but when i think about it, if i went to any of them they would act concerned when they talk to me, and when they talk to THEIR best friends, they would either call me a drama queen or tell them they're worried about me and just spill out my story to everyone. at my age, ive realized that nobody cares. My parents wouldnt be much of a help either, my mom wouldnt even listen and just say something like, go tell that to your father. and when i would go to my dad he'd say something like "stop with the nonsense they're your siblings, little kids" my brother is 9 and a half, my sister is 3. i hate them both. they wont learn, or listen.. ive considered a guidance counselor at school, but summer isnt over yet, and all they're gonna do is probably send me to some mental place or tell my parents everything, and if my parents find out they'll act all concerned on the phone and then when i get home they'll beat me or something for making the family sound crazy or something. i just dont know what to do, i feel bottled up inside, like i cant tell this to anyone.. nobody can help me.. but i know somebody can. i cant sign up for a psychiatrist, my parents would never allow me to feel like some mental patient, or someone that needs help.. but i need help. badly. i hate this feeling, that of all the friends, of all the relatives, all the people.. nobody can help me.
Life Sucks big time !!!!?
i wish there was more to life then i am living i hate my life most of the time i wish i was dead or when i am driving that i would get into a big accident and die i feel so depressed most of the time i am in counseling but she leaving me in the end of july.And i dont want to have to start all over woth another counseler i wont do that to myself.... what should i do how can i feel better about life every moment i am thinking of death or i just want to cry because i have nothing to look forward for in life i should be havingfun instead i wish i was dead .....
I really HATE my life right now!!!!!!?
I'm a 14 year old girl. Nothing ends up the way I want it to. My family don't understand me and I can't trust my so called 'friends'. High school is like hell. I have no real friends in any classes. Boys say I'm ugly when I try to get my makeup perfect everyday. I don't like my appearance. My family wont help me. I feel lonely all the time. My life is so boring. Tonight is homecoming dance and I don't have anything to wear or anyone to go with so I'm staying home bored like always. This is how I truly feel I'm not making anything up. I really need help. I have no one to ask.
My mom HATES my crush...i need help BIG time?
i like this guy named ryan whos 15 and im 14. we met on myspace because i know his sister who goes to my school and is in my grade, he lives one town away so he goes to a different school. we mostly talk on myspace but we have seen each other in person a few times. when i told my mom about ryan she seemed happy for me because i told her that hes cool and nice and tells me im cute and stuff. when my mom told my dad my dad was like i dont want her talking to that kid because my dad met him through jake (jakes my brothers best friends brother whos friends with ryan) so the next day when i brought up ryan my mom yelled at me she was like DONT TALK TO THAT STUPID KID ANYMORE but its weird because when my dad came home the night he met ryan he was like i met jakes friend hes a good baseball player and said all good stuff about him. ryan wants me to hang with him and idk what to say...why are my parents acting like this? it makes no sense...
I hate my stupid life!?
I am so sorry to hear that you are not happy but the fact of the matter is, when we were younger, we all had to listen to our parents. You are 14, you may not agree with their beliefs and you may not want to do what they tell you to do but they are not asking you to do something harmful and you are living under their roof so you have to follow their rules until you leave. The great thing about being an adult is that you take care of yourself and you don't have to listen to anybody (as long as you are reasonable) Your family can no longer afford a big house... there is no way around that. The only way around their restrictions is to sit down with them and talk to them seriously, in a grown up manner, to prove to them that you are mature enough. Ask them why they have such rules and suggest alternatives with a compromise (like, don't tell them you want to do whatever the hell you want to do and still expect to live there). Throwing fits will not get you anywhere.... In fact, it may actually just get you even more restrictions. You don't want that, do you?
I have messed up my life big time, and I regret many decisions and am unable to make up for it. What do I do?
Lot of great answers here.I have nothing new to say. Just this.Most children think that their current "problems" are too much to handle. Once they grow up they will do better.This changes when they grow up. They ponder about three things. What if they could still be kids and enjoy. How kids do not have to worry at all.What if "that" would not have happened earlier. I would have been in a better position now. I wish I could go back to the time and change that. Oh! that stupid decision of mine. God knows what I was thinking then! I should have done that..........If I do this will I achieve that? God knows. Too risky. What if it happens again? I am an all time loser. I am born to lose. It happened last time. It will happen again. I am screwed. There is nothing called real happiness in this world for me. See him. How he is enjoying his life.............In all the above situations we are either in past or future. Present is the only thing which doesn't matter. We have life. Doesn't matter, so does a dog right?We have job. Doesn't matter, it is not that great.We have a family. Doesn't matter, they are the reason for all the problems.We have money. Doesn't matter, it is not enough.We have partner. Doesn't matter, he or she is not an ideal mate.We might have a partner soon. Doesn't matter, he or she will be worse than previous one.Am I right in thinking all the above things. Doesn't matter, I am stupid and most around me are too.Simple solution to most problems in life is to accept what is controllable and what is not controllable. Please be easy on yourself for what is not controllable (past and future). Please focus on what is controllable (present).Some learn a bicycle without falling even once. Other do fall few times.The experience of falling is precious. It teaches a lot. I would advise you to understand this.That's it. No more. I will only ruin it if I write further. (As if I have not done already ;)Thanks for A2A Anonymous. Nice to know you. All the best.
I messed up big time with the love of my life. Im 16 years old and i need help!?
I need her back she is the best girl in the world. I love her so much, i messed up 7 times and she hates me now, i have tryed gifts, and apologies but nothing is working. It has been 3 weeks since she ended it, she wanted to end it with a kiss and a cuddle but i stormed off and went home crying. Now she hates me even more for that. I have applied for britains got talent2014 and want to mention everything that i messed up on tv in public. She is explaining to me that she will never get back with me again but when we were together she wanted to spend her life with me and i the same. I dont know what to do. could someone help me!