All my relatives hate me?
What do I do when my relatives hate me?? Whenever I go over, they always make fun of me, and I'm really clumsy, so I break things sometimes, but never expensive things, but that seems to make them hate me even more. Also, they are always gossiping behind my back. Another thing: my YOUNGER cousin in top 50 in the US in tennis U14, and my other YOUNGER cousin is going to the junior olympics for water polo this summer, and my YOUNGER sister just got third place in an international fencing competition in Paris, and I do crew, but I'm not that good and they always make fun of me that I'm chubby and all my cousins pick on me. What do I do???
Why do you hate your relatives?
Following points will make it clear why i hate my relativesBecause they get in touch with us only when they need something.Because they never mind their own businessBecause they are always jealous of others progressBecause they always become invisible when we need themBecause they are the worst creation after casteBecause they are always ready to fightBecause they are always looking for even a minor loophole which they can stretch to make a well.
Why do my relatives hate me?
This is exactly why I hate it when my relatives come over. They'd usually be chatting on the dining table or in the living room, but every time I walk into the room they're in, they'd start to quieten down and start murmuring instead. Not only is this really rude, it makes me feel as if I've done something bad. I know I hadn't because I hardly even SPEAK to them (I only speak to them if they ask me questions. Sometimes I ask them questions back so I won't come off as reserved or rude, only because I have to). I hear them talking behind my back about how rude I am for not coming downstairs and socializing, but the thing is, every time I attempt to socialize, I can clearly see I'm a burden because they blatantly show it through their body language (rolling their eyes, crossing their arms and sighing, etc.). Some of you would ask me "Why do you care about what they think?"... I DO care. They're my cousins, aunties, uncles, they're all RELATED to me. Please don't tell me to ask them about why they hate me... Just try putting yourself in my shoes. It's not as easy as you think.
I hate my relatives and sometimes my family too ..!!?
I hate them they're ugly narrow minded and mostly uneducated I hate to go to their houses and attend their weddings I just want to stay away from them but my mother insist me to go I hate my family my mother my bother and all because they don't care my emotions and provide me as much money as i required sometimes I get so angry on them and just want to leave them but I'm not financial stable so I have to stay with them what to do how to deal with them..??
What should I do if I hate my family?
I hate My family too :(I can remember feeling like an outcast as early as the age of 5. I remember my mom beating me and calling me a whore for discovering masterbation. I was 7 when I was ripped out of a room full of kids and verbally assisted by my mother. As the years went on I was Always looked at as the bad apple. At 11 my mom would leave me to watch my two younger sisters who had formed an Alliance against me. It was. Constant bullying. At 12 I was Labeled a slut. I wasnt Even sexually active. At 13 I was A whore and a druggie. Again never even tried either. At 14 a was told to stay home from school because some girls wanted to fight me and the school I went to was full of racists and druggies. Mind you I am A white girl. The racism was coming mainly from a group of Guamanian girls who hated me over a boy. At 14 my moms friend tried to have sex with me. He was 36. Guess who my mom blamed for that? 15 I finally Had sex. I didn’t know how to handle that at such a young age especially with no real sex talk other than ““if you have sex you are a whore and nobody will marry you and you will be a waste”I got Pregnant. I was About 5 months along when I finally Told my dad. He forced me to have an abortion that almost cost me my life. He didn’t care. I had To write goodbye letters to my family. It was constant abuse again. Because now. I really Was a whore to them. At 17 I koved Out. At 19 I got Pregnant. At 20 my daughter almost lost her future. I struggle every day to stay happy and to feel the love of my children and the love of the small percentage of good people still out there. I have No real home and I have No real family. Life is really hard for me right now.
Do you hate your cousin?
I don't hate any of my cousins, actually. My cousin Alyson is 15 months older than me and lives right across the street. We are practically sisters. So then I should probably say, I don't hate her, but there are days I REALLY dislike her!